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RE: anal sex aftershock - 8/29/2005 8:12:42 PM   
dominmd


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Status: offline 		Me personally, it has been plugs. I believed it too taboo at one point. Someone suggested it to me since I had had it done in the past. I went through with it, and I can tell you, for me, it makes ejaculation much more forceful and it feels ten times as good. Besides, I try it first before asking anyone to let me try it on them. That goes for all toys.

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RE: anal sex aftershock - 8/29/2005 8:41:11 PM   
perverseangelic


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Status: offline 		I have a love/hate relationship with anal sex. I adore how it feels, once we've gotten going, but HATE the workup. I've been told my partner is larger than average, and I have an aversion to most penetration there...still, once we start...damn, it;s the best thing ever.

That said, USE MORE LUBE! THe one time I had serious problems with feeling icky afterward was when we ran out of lube halfway through.

I haven't looked up the possible hazards of this, but we use unscented, uncolored lotion as lube, often. We don't use condoms or toys so aren't worried about that, and it's a nice think slippy thing.

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RE: anal sex aftershock - 8/29/2005 8:46:50 PM   
MtPleasantsubAsh


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Status: offline 		used no lube....ugh .


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RE: anal sex aftershock - 8/29/2005 8:51:43 PM   
EmeraldSlave2


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ORIGINAL: MtPleasantsubAsh

used no lube....ugh .


LOL ok that's the cardinal rule of anal sex. No wonder you're all sore. The ass doesn't have all those nice natural fluids that your pussy does.

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RE: anal sex aftershock - 8/29/2005 8:53:07 PM   
greenie


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Status: offline 		well there's your problem then. NEVER have anal WITHOUT lube.

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RE: anal sex aftershock - 8/29/2005 9:15:41 PM   
tade


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Status: offline 		Used no lube??? I know that I will probably catch heat for this, but darlin', Who was this man to you that did that with no lube. That wouldn't be very good for either of you. I'm not picking on you, please don't take it that way, but this whole thing is kinda like when you were little. If it feel wrong, don't do it. I don't mean a little (or a lot depending on your tastes) of pain, but that had to just feel wrong.

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RE: anal sex aftershock - 8/29/2005 9:23:54 PM   
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Well bonus points for your masochism, anyway! WHOO!! Seriously, listen to all of us about the slippery stuff. Good Vibrations has a good range of different kinds of lube, hit their website and read up on them. Also, Crisco does work, lol! It adds calories, and is somewhat icky, but dang! Better than spit!

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RE: anal sex aftershock - 8/29/2005 10:04:07 PM   
perverseangelic


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ORIGINAL: MtPleasantsubAsh

used no lube....ugh .



Ok. Your partner needs to get his head checked.

This is the fastest way to do some -serious- damange. Did he have a -reason- for the lack of lube?

Jesu Christo. I know I tend to bleed a little bit if we go too fast -with- lube, god alone knows what would happen without.



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RE: anal sex aftershock - 8/29/2005 10:32:16 PM   
MtPleasantsubAsh


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Status: offline 		well...its not my masochism.....it was his first time too...i don't think he thought about it. lol.
It really didn't hurt till after...

then again..I was distracted.

LUBE...ok.....then it probably wont hurt so much?

he's my current Dom, tade...


I've just decided to stand for the rest of my life...lol


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RE: anal sex aftershock - 8/29/2005 10:58:20 PM   
greenie


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Status: offline 		You poor girl, i'm so sorry you have to go through this. If you are both exploring and trying new things i suggest that before you do them you research the activity ahead of time, even something that may seem basic and simple, do a search or ask here on the boards. i suggest this for your pleasure and safety. You are very lucky you didn't have something tear inside. You aren't experiencing any rectal bleeding are you?

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RE: anal sex aftershock - 8/29/2005 11:05:39 PM   
LASub4Real


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Why anal sex? I mean, how does it give you pleasure? Males have a prostate gland inside him,
that can be stimulated to an orgasm.


I can only speak from personal experience, but I have never had any prostate gland bliss from anal penetration and I've had several Mistresses who specialized in it. I'm not sure if they were all doing it wrong.

lasub

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RE: anal sex aftershock - 8/29/2005 11:11:30 PM   
greenie


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Status: offline 		the prostate gland can be reached through the rectum by finger if you insert the finger and hook it slightly towards the groin, or so i've been told. hope that helps lasub

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RE: anal sex aftershock - 8/30/2005 2:39:37 AM   
nella


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Status: offline 		i often have anal sex whitout any lube, and while there might be a bit of pain duing the sex itself there are seldom any problems.

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RE: anal sex aftershock - 8/30/2005 10:47:53 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		I did anal without any lube once too. No injuries, but I wouldn't go on doing it that way!

Regarding the prostate, I am going to go out on a limb here and suggest that the prostate is akin to the g-spot in terms of enjoyment. The prostate is pretty much right THERE if you know what you are feeling for, but not everyone enjoys the stimulation. Same with the g-spot, I have one, and prefer that it be totally ignored. :)

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RE: anal sex aftershock - 8/30/2005 10:54:04 AM   
plantlady64


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Same with the g-spot, I have one, and prefer that it be totally ignored. :)


Hello LadyHibiscus,
I just have to ask why in the world would you want your G-Spot left alone? I just can't wrap my mind around not wanting to feel the pleasure I feel when someone rubs mine just right.
Sincerely,
sub suzanne

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RE: anal sex aftershock - 8/30/2005 2:22:12 PM   
MtPleasantsubAsh


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Status: offline 		no..no rectal bleeding
ty A/all

just SORE..lol

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RE: anal sex aftershock - 8/30/2005 2:36:45 PM   
tade


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Status: offline 		Maybe it's in how it's rubbed like you said. I know that one of our pets recently squirted for the first time through stimulation of her Gspot. The reason she had never done it before though was partly because she wasn't allowing herself to just let go and give in to what she was feeling, and partly because she liked a bit rougher "pressing" of her gspot and haden't had it done that way before.

As for the prostate, I loved having mine whatevered back when I was younger. Maybe a few years have changed things in that area for me, but not so much anymore. I used to think that it was just that the girl who was doing it was doing something the others were not, but I could be wrong.

Anyway back to the original topic Ash, I have to say that I would be concerned about that "Dom" of yours. None of my buisness but I know if I had a young sub that was new to this whole thing I would not start them off giving them their first anal without lube. I can see where that may have it's place depending on how you play, different tastes and all. But not for your first time. Darlin, just because someone acts dominant, doesn't mean that they are your dominant. Either he was a little (ok a lot) inexperienced and didn't know himself, or didn't care and wanted to hurt you. Neither one would be a person that would create the sense of trust that is really at the base of all of this. Just my opinion. Hell worse comes to worse, take a vacation to sunny huricanne free Florida and we'll keep you, because if you're not going to be able to sit down, you should at least get to enjoy the fact that you can't sit down.
Tade

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RE: anal sex aftershock - 8/30/2005 5:30:33 PM   
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Well...I've just had anal sex for the first time and i understand there's gonna be some discomfort afterwards..but does it happen everytime?

....and well, it isn't like it hurt during the sex, or even hen he entered

...but the aftershock is killing me..i can't sit down or poop...I'm afraid I'll start crying or something...lol...

not that he's too big or was rough or anything..its just so very tender.

.....and i wondered if there's anything to do for it....???
like an ointment or something?


lol...i'm actually blushing.


If youre not happy with anal ease try baby ora-gel its more liquidy and I think a bit more numbing
take care
Jer's 0.02

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RE: anal sex aftershock - 8/30/2005 5:32:50 PM   
nella


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Status: offline 		my first anal was whitout lube to, actualy it was kind of an acident, just playing around and then my but made the strangest popping sound and it was in.

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RE: anal sex aftershock - 8/30/2005 6:15:21 PM   
Rayne58


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MtPleasantsubAsh

no..no rectal bleeding
ty A/all

just SORE..lol


Hon maybe you should go to the doctor just to be sure you haven't done any permanent damage - even if you're not bleeding you still may have a tear or abrasion inside. Especially since it's been a couple of days and you're still in such pain.

My first anal was an accident (clumsy ex ) and I was sore for days and bled slightly for 3 of those. It was quick and not sustained because I yelled at him to GET OFF ME!! It put me off ever having anal sex for over 20 years. Since then I've had a gentle man show me that anal sex is great and shouldn't hurt if done right. We used heaps of lube, on him and me. I've even done it with Master without any artificial lube, just my own juices. But that was after having lots of play beforehand and Master is very experienced and knows what He is doing.

I am sorry that you're having to go through this


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