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yearofthedragon -> insert witty intro (1/18/2008 11:23:11 PM)

hello. i am new here...well stating the obvious to begin with as well.  :)  i was referred here by a friend of mine whom is a Master.  Not sure how to go about things on here.  Seem to be getting alot of slack for my profile and my hard limits.  i'm actually fairly easy going, but prefer to meet a monogamous Master.  Sounds easy, but it's tough.  Online life is fraught with deception. 
i work..well volunteer..on another site as a site moderator.  i've learned an awful lot about online life.  Some good..some bad.  Mostly interesting though. 
i am new and really am unsure as to where i stand, or what to regard myself as.  Would really love some real guidance and understanding.  my submission was given once to the wrong One, and i haven't really been the same since. 
The rest of what i am, is briefly contained within my profile.  i hope this is what i should have posted here.  Darn noobs.  Thanks all.




Asherdelampyr -> RE: insert witty intro (1/18/2008 11:34:43 PM)

Welcome, hope you enjoy the circus that is collarme :P




Arrrchibald -> RE: insert witty intro (1/19/2008 8:32:41 AM)

insert friendly welcome




AMaster -> RE: insert witty intro (1/19/2008 9:59:01 AM)

Greetings,  and   welcome.




Sirandlil1 -> RE: insert witty intro (1/19/2008 10:54:52 AM)

Hello and welcome to CM...do not worry aout being new and unsure, remember we all were at some point...




gorgeous1 -> RE: insert witty intro (1/19/2008 2:38:17 PM)

Hi, and welcome to the forums! Don't worry about people criticizing you for your "hard limits". I think it's great that you're being honest and straightforward- it saves time. How sad that people attack you for "all" your hard limits...you'd think they'd be excited about all the things you are curious about!

I say kudos to you for your honesty...stick to your guns, especially since you were hurt by a previous Master. Being wishy-washy about your limits could land you in another damaging relationship.

Once you find the right Master, who's to say you won't change your mind on some of those hard limits? For instance, you may have had a horrible experience with a cane, but perhaps it was because the person didn't know how to use it properly. Anyone who would immediately start bugging you about your limits probably isn't interested in building the serious relationship you're seeking anyhow.

Good Luck!




HardnRuff -> RE: insert witty intro (1/21/2008 12:25:06 PM)

Greetings and welcome




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