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Maya2001 -> RE: homework for subs? (1/19/2008 6:53:02 PM)
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Okay I have had photo and written assignments sometimes combinations of both which had to be emailed to him within a certain time frame
A written assignment may be something like this Write 3 paragraphs on yourviews of D/s dynamics use descriptors in your explanations, he would review either praising or give criticism where due , if serious problems existed I could be asked to redo and do some research, I could be asked to create a fictional story about a situation involving me and him using lots of adjectives and narration, after reading he may ask questions on why I thought an event may unfold in a certain way. or critique for sentence structure grammar etc.
A photo assignment could be of myself, a body part, for example hand, a still life I would be asked to use some creativity in doing so , or he may ask me to include cuffs or other objects , or if face shots may ask me to use make up in a certain way or wear my hair in a sertain manner. he might also ask me to write a short essay on my thoughts as I was taking the pictures. Picture were critiqued as to whether instructions were followed, quality of pictures or lightening if problems existed I may be asked to research photography sites to improve the quality and my findings would become part of my next assignment as I explain how I could have improved , the following assignment could be redoing pictures implementing things I learned.
Sometimes an assigment would be deemed unsatisfactory and my next assignment done be to try and determine and explain why he felt it was unsatisfactory.
I may have something I want to do one day , for example I decided to go to a trade show, that became part of assigment describing what I seen and did there. or he may assign me a task to do and then have me write about and describe my feelings at doing what ever task he assigned it could be something mundane or sexual in nature. There would be times he would push my buttons and get me a bit angry and frustrated with him on purpose before assigning me a writing task, one of the things he wanted to see was honesty in expressing my feelings, if I wrote instead what I thought he wanted to hear I would get dragged over the coals a bit in our next online discussion . If I could not complete an assigment I had to send an email explaining why or why it would be late, he decided if my excuse was acceptable if not I would end up having to do plus another ontop of.
Some "doms" make it strictly sexual and request cam videos of a sexual nature as a result this creates the very negative looked down upon view of online D/s relationships on these forums
Assignments as I view it as a sub can be a bonding and help in creating a mental connection, that can used for self improvement and confidence building for the sub, it can also back fire and be viewed as a pain in the ass if too demanding and intrudes too much on the subs available time or if they are under a lot of stress casing quality of assignments degrade then which leads to constant criticism and which can erode the relationship, or degrading because of demands to churn mostly porn for the "dom" to wank off at
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