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How Would Your Mate React? - 1/19/2008 5:58:54 PM   
KRANWEST


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Status: offline 		If you were the recipient of an unexpected kiss (not reciprocated, of course, because of your "attached" status) from an attractive member of the opposite sex, would you tell your mate?  Would your partner be suspicious, even if you told her/him that you "didn't kiss back?" 

Feel free to be completely honest, and relate personal stories that pertain to the subject of this thread.

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RE: How Would Your Mate React? - 1/19/2008 6:06:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		It happened.  I went out with a friend of mine, who I had fooled around with on occasion before meeting my Master.  A group of us friends got together and had a nice time.  My friend walked me to my car and I hugged him goodnight as we always hug with a "peck" when we greet and say goodbye.  His "peck" was an open mouth around mine, pushing his tongue in.  I pulled back, said "Be good" and said good night.

I went home and told my Master about it.  He smiled and said "You're a good girl."

It never dawned on me not to tell him. It never dawned on him not to trust me about it.

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RE: How Would Your Mate React? - 1/19/2008 10:34:37 PM   
Feric


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Status: offline 		It's happened to me as well. I told my partner about it, and there was no reaction. I always make sure to hook up only with partners who don't get insanely jealous, which is ruinous to everyone.

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RE: How Would Your Mate React? - 1/20/2008 5:34:45 AM   
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ORIGINAL: KRANWEST

If you were the recipient of an unexpected kiss (not reciprocated, of course, because of your "attached" status) from an attractive member of the opposite sex, would you tell your mate?  Would your partner be suspicious, even if you told her/him that you "didn't kiss back?" 

Feel free to be completely honest, and relate personal stories that pertain to the subject of this thread.


That's why you kiss ugly girls...LOL

Seriously, though.  I had something like that happen when Mistress and I first started talking.  My ex-girlfriend came over to my house out of the blue to hang out.  She knew I was seeing someone else, but insisted it was just a friendly stop-by kinda thing.  Well, we talked for about 45 minutes and when she discovered that I was not going to follow her hints in flirting, she decided to leave.  I walked her to the door and gave her a hug, but she turns around and decided to kiss/bite my neck (that was my main weakness with her).  I immediately shoved her off, gave her an earful, and pushed her out the door.  I haven't seen her since and that was August last year. 

I told Mistress about it later that day when She called and She was not happy.  Who could blame Her?  She wasn't mad at me, although She wanted to expose a certain person's vital organs to daylight.  I didn't hesitate to tell Mistress because I did nothing wrong, but was still nervous She would think I was omitting detail or fabricating the truth.  She was very appreciative and shocked that I would even tell Her, so that really started to solidify trust in each other.  She could trust me to be open and honest about everything and I could trust Her to tell Her sensitive/delicate things without Her flipping out on me.  It is wonderful.  Honesty is the best policy.

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RE: How Would Your Mate React? - 1/20/2008 6:24:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		in my profession (i review bands), it happens all of the time ...sometimes i get kissed/hit on by drunk bar patrons. in fact, it happened last night in front of my SO before they went on stage. did i explain anything - nope. i don't need to since he has complete faith and trust in me.  he knows after the show i'm coming home to him.


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RE: How Would Your Mate React? - 1/20/2008 7:02:54 AM   
sub4hire


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Status: offline 		It happens a lot.  Pretty much nothing is said about it.  It means nothing and Doug knows that.


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RE: How Would Your Mate React? - 1/20/2008 7:05:30 AM   
MissSCD


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Status: offline 		You just answered your own question.  Sit back and reread it again. 
Besides, how would you feel if it were done to you?  That reminds me of, "I did not have sex with that woman."
 
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RE: How Would Your Mate React? - 1/20/2008 7:57:52 AM   
acissej


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Status: offline 		I've had it happen twice and my husband didn't seem to really care.  Both times were at bars with guys who got sloppy drunk and kissed me.  I told him about one. He witnessed the other and seemed to think it was funny, but if it was happening all the time, he'd probably be upset. 

On the other hand, I'd be a little ticked if he was the one getting kissed.  I saw that happen just once and was angry--especially angry because it was my aunt kissing him.  I was more upset with her than him, but he heard it from me, too. 

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RE: How Would Your Mate React? - 1/20/2008 8:08:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		Are you talking about a peck on the cheek?  Because that is a common greeting from men to other men's wives in the country club set.  No one gives it a second thought.

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RE: How Would Your Mate React? - 1/20/2008 8:13:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		Katy, I wasn't sure if you were responding to me, or if it was just a fast reply.  The kisses I referred to in my post were all mouth-to-mouth, with tongue.

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RE: How Would Your Mate React? - 1/20/2008 8:38:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		I was asking the op

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RE: How Would Your Mate React? - 1/20/2008 10:53:29 AM   
petdave


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Status: offline 		i'd mention it, because it would just be too strange not to.

i suspect she'd have the same suspicions that i would- "Did you check to make sure she didn't lift your wallet?"

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RE: How Would Your Mate React? - 1/20/2008 11:04:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		i think he'd probably belt the guy, he knows how i feel about that kind of imposition.  nobody touches me unless invited, no matter how "innocent".

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RE: How Would Your Mate React? - 1/20/2008 1:20:58 PM   
Bamslilgirl


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Status: offline 		I'd tell Bam, because if I didn't, & someone else did, then I'd look guilty. I think anyone who is in a relationship should tell their mate if this happens, otherwise they don't seem as committed as they should. But that's just my opinion.

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RE: How Would Your Mate React? - 1/20/2008 1:40:24 PM   
Aylee


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KRANWEST

If you were the recipient of an unexpected kiss (not reciprocated, of course, because of your "attached" status) from an attractive member of the opposite sex, would you tell your mate?  Would your partner be suspicious, even if you told her/him that you "didn't kiss back?" 

Feel free to be completely honest, and relate personal stories that pertain to the subject of this thread.


Well it has happened and it is not so much as telling him as it is coming in a bitching and complaining about the SOB. 

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RE: How Would Your Mate React? - 1/26/2008 5:24:59 AM   
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Status: offline 		It would depend on her tone when telling the story. If she was upset, I'd want to cut his balls off. If she was happy or amused, I'd ask if he was cute and when she wants to see him again.

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RE: How Would Your Mate React? - 1/27/2008 1:34:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		If it was a peck on my check, it wouldn't be worth mentioning.

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