fluffyswitch -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/21/2008 2:00:21 PM)
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CuriousLord Anyhow, criticism aside.. some of us use sex as a relationship-only thing. Sort of like an expression of love. It's cheapened with excessive sharing.. so it just doesn't feel so special or romantic anymore. So that's why.. I'm kinda surprised you're so rude about someone's relationship perferences.. I started reading this whole thread and got to page 8 where I found this.... CL if sex for you is only for love...that is your choice. For some it is for play, for pleasure. Flies have sex - they don't feel love...hell, roaches have sex and they don't feel love for each other...they do it because it's their instinct...it feels good. My college biology teacher once said...There's purpose for the pleasure...to procreate, yes, but all they know is the pleasure, so they do it because it feels good, and the procreation is the bonus. Humans have the ability to think differently, yes...but we also have the ability to feel pleasure and to seek it out... and to separately seek out love....OR to seek them out together. We have the ability to choose, CL you have the ability to choose someone with little to no experience...and you have the ability to choose the way you think of those who have chosen differently more carefully. Just because they've chosen to seek pleasure and not love, doesn't make them "sluts" or "whores"...it makes them different from you, it makes them maybe not the person for you...but it doesn't entitle them to a label. Like me!!! I have Sex because I enjoy it (and it helps keep me in shape) i had to interview someone once for something not class related and she told me it was her favorite form of excerise, and beyond that it was her only form... i was thinking about this last night and how people have brought morality into, and while i could be wrong there might have been a religious implication? like i said could be completely wrong it was late. anyway the thought that crossed my mind is that in my path of paganism, it's actually more immoral not to have sex with someone who you're close, assuming they're willing of course, because it's one of the most direct and powerful forms of prayer/ritual you can engage in...just a thought.
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