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Amaros -> RE: Anal has no appeal for me and i am afraid of it (1/21/2008 6:29:15 AM)
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I think there are very few people who like it when you go straight for the ass, it helps to be relaxed, like after a couple of orgasms achieved the old fashioned way, i.e., alone or with somebody, it'll loosen you up. Also, try after a BM, an impacted BM can be quite uncomfortable I hear.
I would suggest a dildo with balls attached rather than a vibrator, something that isn't going to get stuck if you get too wild, a butt plug, etc. or one of those jelly double dongs that has an articulated core, it's long enough to not get lost and still give you something to grab onto - it will come out eventually, but might be uncomfortable in the meantime, and you don't want to be explaining things at the emergency room unless you're into public humiliation.
Fingers work, clip your nails, wear vinyl gloves and use plenty of lube, vinyl is very smooth some women are turned on by the feel of vinyl itself I've found, and it makes it easier to maintain proper hygiene, as you can just strip the glove if you need to do something else.
I always caution to take it slow, allow youself to get used to it, it's not a race, but I've known women who prefer to have it shoved right in. Why it's probobly best to take some time to learn your own responses, because unlike the vagina, where the same approach works more or less the same for everybody, the ass is more personal, and there seems to be a wider variety of personal preferences pertaining to it's desecration.
There are a lot of tutorials on the web, without going into it all here, ranging from mild to wild, you can't have too much information, that in itself may help you alleviate your fear.
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