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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 9:43:40 AM   
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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 10:24:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MissHarlet

In theory a "Dangerous do not play with" list would be helpful and wonderful, but there is no way that it would be abuse free.  There is no way to police it and keep out names being listed out of spite or vindictiveness.  As others have said "define dangerous" . What I may consider dangerous others may thrive with.  It is a shame it is this way .. but this is one of the no win times. 


Hi there M Harlet,

I quoted you, because they eloquantly state what I feel is wrong with the attitude that blacklists are necessary.

As we increasingly live in a world where we expect our government to take care of us, we feel less and less inclined (or even comfortable) making determinations of what is safe or not safe for us.  "Look both ways before crossing the street."  Looking both ways, somehow, would suggest that as long as there were no cars, we are free from the responsibility to look down for holes in the ground (for example.)  A tort driven society where we sue anyone and everyone because we hurt ourselves (doing something that wasn't explicitly stated in the disclaimer we shouldn't) contributes to this.

The reality is that nobody's opinion about a 'bad' dominant (or submissive, or ex boy/girlfriend) is worth much more than gossip.  A person who truly is dangerous, because they engage in illegal and immoral activities (i.e. someone who has AIDS and willfully lies about it) should simply be reported to the police.  Beyond that, I fully believe that if the full extent of my interests and tastes were made availible for the public's BDSM world's (or at the very least, this little community here on CM.com) scrutiny, there's a good chance the group as a whole would seek to exclude me.  Yet I've met several people from here who still have all their fingers and toes, and even managed to keep ahold of a particular slave who shares many of my darker tastes.

Blacklists say a lot more about a group's desire to exclude 'predators', and a lot less about that group's desire to promote a healthy lifestyle.  The day I stop having my own common sense to rely on in dealing with others, is the day I should stop interacting with others: not start relying on others to tell me who I should or shouldn't interact with.

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 10:36:50 AM   
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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 10:45:52 AM   
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so true.. so true..

Wankers abound.. just use your best judgement.

Cute dead horse graffic.. Love it! Gotta remember that one the next time a fat thread pops up.

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 12:13:37 PM   
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I want you to do me in blue highlighter, I am dangerous and look good in blue.

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 12:19:05 PM   
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Wonderful post Stephann, brilliant and thoughtful.
Are you a writer per chance?

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 12:27:18 PM   
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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 12:32:35 PM   
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Double-D for short.

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 12:57:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

Please highlight me.  I'm a Dangerous Dom.

Double-D for short.


Hmmm... does that mean that LAM has double D's? 

Couldn't resist that one...

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 12:59:25 PM   
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< Message edited by OrionTheWolf -- 1/21/2008 1:03:15 PM >

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 1:04:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		Okay, so all dangerous dominants receive the blue highlighter.  Just so we're all clear on this situation.

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 1:08:28 PM   
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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 1:11:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Okay, so all dangerous dominants receive the blue highlighter.  Just so we're all clear on this situation.



what about  the dangerously stupid..........sub or  dom? do we need a color coded chart ..like for homeland defense?

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 1:13:47 PM   
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Cute dead horse graffic.. Love it! Gotta remember that one the next time a fat thread pops up.

Gwyn


you know, i haven't seen a fat thread in ages...i wanna know why all the fat threads have stopped???

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 1:18:48 PM   
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ORIGINAL: lilsubl

quote:

ORIGINAL: Gwynvyd

Cute dead horse graffic.. Love it! Gotta remember that one the next time a fat thread pops up.

Gwyn


you know, i haven't seen a fat thread in ages...i wanna know why all the fat threads have stopped???


Well its a holiday for most people.
I would enjoy a nice fat thread, since I am watching my weight.
Could you start one, pretty please, with marshmellows on top?

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 1:47:23 PM   
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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 1:54:37 PM   
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marshmallows are fattening...discuss....



and therefore dangerous.........thus ALL marshmallows shall now be colored blue

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 2:10:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

quote:

ORIGINAL: lilsubl

marshmallows are fattening...discuss....



and therefore dangerous.........thus ALL marshmallows shall now be colored blue

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I object!! 
 As all that are ostracized and/or considered dangerous as in the The Scarlett Letter,
they should have to be colored red!
Red happens to also be a fattening color and easily identifiable.

< Message edited by MzMia -- 1/21/2008 2:11:50 PM >

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 2:43:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MzMia

object!! 
 As all that are ostracized and/or considered dangerous as in the The Scarlett Letter,
they should have to be colored red!
Red happens to also be a fattening color and easily identifiable.


Mia????????????? someone must look out for all the poor defensless submissives who can't look out for themselves.................as of now.the color red is banned!!

CzarMaster

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RE: Dangerous Dom/mes and should we have them highlighted? - 1/21/2008 2:45:21 PM   
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marshmallows are fattening...discuss....


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