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Strap-ons that makes ladies cum - 1/21/2008 4:34:39 AM   
JL9060


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Status: offline 		My girlfriend has show interest in strap-on play and I did a search but I did not find what I am looking for.  Maybe some of you could help me out with your experiences.  We want a strap on that stimulats the female anatomy as well.  Unfortunatly this is very subjective.  To get off she likes dull mild cliteral stimulation and a firm rubbing on the top of the inside of her vagina.

So I want to know which ones have worked for you and what do you thin she would like.  I am also looking for good quality and a moderatly low price (arn't we all).  Also since I am new to this I am wondering what is a reasonable size to begin at.

Thank you all for your help.


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RE: Strap-ons that makes ladies cum - 1/21/2008 4:59:45 AM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		Check out the Nexus and the Nexus Jr.
The Nexus has worked very well for me..
Another to look at is the Feeldoe (no harness is needed with it)


http://www.goodvibes.com/Item--i-1-3-BA-BE05--m-80


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RE: Strap-ons that makes ladies cum - 1/21/2008 5:05:50 AM   
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Status: offline 		http://www.goodvibes.com/Item--i-13BA08  I've heard very good things about the feeldoe as well.

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RE: Strap-ons that makes ladies cum - 1/21/2008 5:46:03 AM   
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Status: offline 		the only bad thing is they are not big enough  size does matter in strapon play and when you compare a bam with a nexus or feldoe there is none ...honey is it in yet ? definitely love the bigger strapons  have fun ..mal

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RE: Strap-ons that makes ladies cum - 1/21/2008 6:59:31 AM   
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Status: offline 		cool i would like to know too

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RE: Strap-ons that makes ladies cum - 1/21/2008 7:14:11 AM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		Another one that I've had good luck with...


http://www.sextoys.com/product/DJ1051-02/Ultra-Harness-2000-for-females/


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RE: Strap-ons that makes ladies cum - 1/21/2008 5:40:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		Women are different (OK, so flame me for stating the obvious :-P )

So, to find something that is perfect for her, you have two choices.  First, find a way for her to literally try various harnesses and their attachments, and, let her choose.  The second choice is to find and buy a harness with the most flexibility as far as adjustments and attachments, and, hope for the best.

As far as "looking for good quality and a moderately low price" - pick one.  Combine those two with the functionality that you want, the odds are that from where you are starting from, in the long run, you will have to give up one.  Therefore, you have to decide what is most important.


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RE: Strap-ons that makes ladies cum - 1/21/2008 6:03:04 PM   
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the only bad thing is they are not big enough  size does matter in strapon play and when you compare a bam with a nexus or feldoe there is none ...honey is it in yet ? definitely love the bigger strapons  have fun ..mal


Well, the feeldoe is in different sizes, too (slim, regular and large), unless you mean that you're referring to liking much larger things.

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RE: Strap-ons that makes ladies cum - 1/21/2008 7:59:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		The Feeldoe at my preferred sex shop, women owned and operated (really great women, in fact), and just a few blocks from me: (and a wee bit cheaper than goodvibes to boot!) http://www.smittenkittenonline.com/Products/Feeldoe_1501.cfm

I've also heard extraordinarily good things about the feeldoe, numerous times, from my last partner... as she was fucking me with it. And while what she said wasn't the kind of flowery prose you find in published reviews, nor was it always articulate, or even actual words, I assure you that if you were able to hear the review yourself, you would agree that it qualifies as a glowing recommendation.

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RE: Strap-ons that makes ladies cum - 1/22/2008 4:01:59 PM   
JL9060


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Status: offline 		Seems like average price is around $100.  It is hard to decide on something because it is impossible to tell if she will like it.  Does the nexus stay in place or do you have to hold it with a hand?  How about the feeldoe?

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RE: Strap-ons that makes ladies cum - 1/22/2008 5:20:07 PM   
JL9060


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Status: offline 		It seems the more I read the more I am liking the sound of the Feeldoe over the nexus.  Though my girl does get quite wet when she is worked up so I wonder about it slipping out becasue of the weight of the phallic end compared to the bulb end as well as the grip the vagina provides compared to the gri of the anus.



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RE: Strap-ons that makes ladies cum - 1/22/2008 10:00:55 PM   
Boondoggle


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Status: offline 		Everything I've read about the feeldoe clearly says a woman needs in-shape kegals to use it well. However, I've also noticed that the people I know into this lifestyle, especially those active in the local community, rarely seem to have trouble in that respect, probably because we're all already perverts. Also, in my experience and what I've heard elsewhere, don't use lube on the bulb. Last, but certainly not least, if all else fails, it's reported to work with most harnesses anyway. At least so say the lovely ladies at the Smitten Kitten.

And if that's not enough hype, apparently they're back-ordered because the manufacturer can't keep up with the high demand, despite it having been on the market at least 2 years now, possibly more.

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RE: Strap-ons that makes ladies cum - 1/22/2008 10:43:41 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: JL9060

My girlfriend has show interest in strap-on play and I did a search but I did not find what I am looking for.  Maybe some of you could help me out with your experiences.  We want a strap on that stimulats the female anatomy as well.  Unfortunatly this is very subjective.  To get off she likes dull mild cliteral stimulation and a firm rubbing on the top of the inside of her vagina.

So I want to know which ones have worked for you and what do you thin she would like.  I am also looking for good quality and a moderatly low price (arn't we all).  Also since I am new to this I am wondering what is a reasonable size to begin at.

Thank you all for your help.





Consider a highly adjustable strap on so that she can move the base of the dildo to provide pressure and friction where she needs it.   A dual dildo might provide too much stimulation.  I'm like your gf; I can cum, if I am really turned on, quite readily from dull pressure against the crotch or very light clitoral stimulation.  If I am turned on enough, I can cum from 'pretending' to fuck a man in the ass (via roleplay) as long as I am getting enough rythmic pressure against my crotch pounding against his ass.  That said, an adjustable harness where I can have the base of the dildo where I want it provides perfect stimluation with each thrust:

http://stockroom.com/KinkLab-Low-Rise-Leather-Strap-On-P2814.aspx

or 

http://stockroom.com/Ultimate-4-Strap-Dildo-Harness-P299.aspx

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RE: Strap-ons that makes ladies cum - 1/23/2008 11:39:55 AM   
Aubre


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Status: offline 		Diane,

When you use

http://www.sextoys.com/product/DJ1051-02/Ultra-Harness-2000-for-females/

do you use the optional vaginal and anal plugs?

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RE: Strap-ons that makes ladies cum - 1/23/2008 4:42:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

Another one that I've had good luck with...


http://www.sextoys.com/product/DJ1051-02/Ultra-Harness-2000-for-females/


Diane


I use the purple leather version of this.. with the attachments you can use what ever you like on the inside.

It is a really good strap on. However the wedgie factor can be high if you tend to be an aggressive lover. ( in other words the harder you pound them, the further that strap goes up your crack) LOL also if you are a pounding princess put extra padding on the back portion of the front attachment. Nothing like having your pubic bone bruised.


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RE: Strap-ons that makes ladies cum - 1/24/2008 3:58:58 AM   
LadySablesStable


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Status: offline 		Look for comfort with the harness type and for the strap on dildo: I like the silver curved one from Hustler brand. It's silicone-superior hygienically, nice size around 7", and just a great shape. I'd check it out.
http://www.edenfantasys.com/dildos/strap-on-dildos/hustler-silicone-strap-on
That just my personal favorite cuz it's what I have. The other silicone Hustler brand stuff is pretty wicked too.

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RE: Strap-ons that makes ladies cum - 1/25/2008 4:52:44 PM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		Just the vaginal plug...


Diane


quote:

ORIGINAL: Aubre

Diane,

When you use

http://www.sextoys.com/product/DJ1051-02/Ultra-Harness-2000-for-females/

do you use the optional vaginal and anal plugs?

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RE: Strap-ons that makes ladies cum - 1/25/2008 8:34:27 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		What kind of luck have y'all had with the feeldoe without a harness?  I love my nexus, and have made a harness from (of all things!) a modified control top thong panty, but I am not wild for the harness at all. 

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RE: Strap-ons that makes ladies cum - 1/26/2008 2:22:24 PM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		I never had much luck with the Feeldoe. It always wants to fall out when I'm humping on a sub as fast and as hard as I can..

The Nexus works great with the right harness...


Diane

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

What kind of luck have y'all had with the feeldoe without a harness?  I love my nexus, and have made a harness from (of all things!) a modified control top thong panty, but I am not wild for the harness at all. 

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RE: Strap-ons that makes ladies cum - 1/26/2008 11:07:05 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Sticking with my nexus, then!  They're too expensive to experiment with.  :)

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