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maturesub4use -> RE: Questions about profile management (1/21/2008 12:09:40 PM)
Very true - i have been here only 3-4 days and have received the same letter from dome of the same Doms multiple (not just a couple of) times.

brainiacsub -> RE: Questions about profile management (1/21/2008 12:21:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick Every time you edit your profile, you end up back in the "New Users" list on the left hand side of the screen. I figured this out the last time I edited my profile and suddenly there were a slew of emails from strangers (as opposed to forum peeps). I even got some of the same "form letters" that I got when I was new. Cali Just curious...is this also true if your profile is hidden and then you unhide it?

Darke -> RE: Questions about profile management (1/21/2008 8:02:22 PM)
Change your gender to male. Then you'll have the opposite/complementary problem.

sexyred1 -> RE: Questions about profile management (1/21/2008 8:10:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: maturesub4use How have you managed to get your points and desires/needs across without becoming a major turn-off "hell bitch"? maturesub But, but...I thought Doms LOVED that!!! Hmmmm...when did expressing needs and desires make one a "hell bitch"? I do appreciate the colorful term, though. Evokes fiery images of subs waving around torches and chasing Doms screaming their demands while the Doms hold their hands to their ears, muffling the deafening sounds of the hell bitches.

brainiacsub -> RE: Questions about profile management (1/21/2008 8:14:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Darke Change your gender to male. Then you'll have the opposite/complementary problem. Ah, too late. I just re-activated it this evening. I guess it's now come what may...

batshalom -> RE: Questions about profile management (1/22/2008 4:03:16 AM)
Fast Reply to the OP Keep it in perspective. Scan the message and if you think it's inappropriate, delete it. It's the Internet and it's a hook-up site - you're going to get a lot of mail you don't like. It is, happily, anonymous too so you don't have to keep up the pretense of tolerating junk you don't like. Simply don't respond.

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Questions about profile management (1/22/2008 4:34:54 AM)
sometimes you have to act like a "bitch" around here to get your point across to some of these hngs (horny net guys). why settle for someone who doesn't match what you're looking for instead of searching (patiently) for the right person? many don't know how to take rejection well and will persist consistently in hopes you change your mind. i had 2 bi-Domme/switch who couldn't take "no i'm not interested in women and/or being bi" rejection after messaging me for a couple of days - ignore/block/delete became my best friend. good luck

kittensangel -> RE: Questions about profile management (1/22/2008 5:12:26 AM)
seriouly, take the picture down. When i had a picture in mine all i got was nice tits, want to talk. I would also put in your porfile what you are looking for as far as the realinship goes. that way for those that are true when they read it will and know if you are possable match.

lalbobbilynn -> RE: Questions about profile management (1/22/2008 7:18:13 AM)
i agree with sexyred1, batshalom, as well as sambamanslilgirl. Scan, ignore, delete, and or block if needed. Although i have only been here a few years, i have only sounded off in my journal a handful of times. i chose not to put anything about what my Sir and i do in my journal for the reason stated by a previous poster ...... just turns into wanker material. Even writing about my Godfather (actual Uncle) dying was turned into something i can not repeat. At some point You just come to terms that other folks do not truly read Your profile, and more often than not, they just wish to get a rise out of You. As was said to me by a Dom friend after a bad week of retarded circus monkey emails ...... "Why are You allowing Yourself to get all worked up over them?? Why are You giving them any control here?? Why even volley back, thus continuing to engage them, even in Your journal??" Just my two cents. Keep Your chin above the bs, and best of luck lady! b.~

KatyLied -> RE: Questions about profile management (1/22/2008 7:18:32 AM)
quote: that way for those that are true when they read it will and know if you are possable match. People actually read profiles around here? Well maybe the true ones do. [:D]

DesFIP -> RE: Questions about profile management (1/22/2008 7:27:47 AM)
It doesn't much matter what you put in your profile. Because nobody reads it. They just see female in their general location and send out form letter 21B, or whatever one they're trying this week. My response lately is to write back to the more offensive ones demanding they forward it to their mother, and have her give a refresher course in manners. Basically, if they would be upset should their mother/sister/daughter receive such a vile piece of writing, then they shouldn't be sending it to someone else's mother/sister/daughter. I figure I can be triply offended since I qualify for all three categories. I never get nasty responses. Oddly enough, I've never gotten thanks either. [:D]

maturesub4use -> RE: Questions about profile management (1/22/2008 8:26:08 AM)
Again - thank you for all the constructive and good feedback! I have abandoned the thought of posting the photo and edited the content and interests to exclude anything that may be construed as sexual in nature, adding more about my general interests instead. And voila! I have seen an instant and drastic decline in dumbstick-driven emails! Be well, maturesub

sweetwenchie -> RE: Questions about profile management (1/22/2008 8:30:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 quote: ORIGINAL: maturesub4use How have you managed to get your points and desires/needs across without becoming a major turn-off "hell bitch"? maturesub But, but...I thought Doms LOVED that!!! Hmmmm...when did expressing needs and desires make one a "hell bitch"? I do appreciate the colorful term, though. Evokes fiery images of subs waving around torches and chasing Doms screaming their demands while the Doms hold their hands to their ears, muffling the deafening sounds of the hell bitches. omg That is quite the visual! LOL That is one that will now be popping into my mind throughout the day [;)] Now where the hell did i leave my torch and pitchfork?!?!?[:D]

maturesub4use -> RE: Questions about profile management (1/22/2008 8:38:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sweetwenchie Now where the hell did i leave my torch and pitchfork?!?!? One could make it even more dramatic and nickname the pitchfork "The Emasculator" [:D]

sweetwenchie -> RE: Questions about profile management (1/22/2008 9:27:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: maturesub4use One could make it even more dramatic and nickname the pitchfork "The Emasculator" [:D] i swear i could almost hear the stampede of Dominant feet... hmmmmmm i think i like your idea! All i have to do now is carve that into the handle [;)] oh yes, fear meeeeeeeee and my scary pitchfork!! [8\|]

sexyred1 -> RE: Questions about profile management (1/22/2008 5:31:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sweetwenchie quote: ORIGINAL: maturesub4use One could make it even more dramatic and nickname the pitchfork "The Emasculator" [:D] i swear i could almost hear the stampede of Dominant feet... hmmmmmm i think i like your idea! All i have to do now is carve that into the handle [;)] oh yes, fear meeeeeeeee and my scary pitchfork!! [8\|] I forgot to add that carved below The Emasculator would be, in tiny writing so that only the real Doms could see....this sub tops from the bottom, run now!

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