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CBT BALL CRUSHING - 1/21/2008 2:53:22 PM   
need4feet


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Status: offline 		Why is it so hard to find a lady willing to step on a mans balls that would simply enjoy doing this.  Is every one about money?
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RE: CBT BALL CRUSHING - 1/21/2008 4:34:25 PM   
LadyLolly


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RE: CBT BALL CRUSHING - 1/21/2008 4:37:31 PM   
MissMagnolia


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Status: offline 		Very typical bottom with a great desire to please and pleasure.

so many fakes on this site has me wondering if i am at the right place
 
Very typical bottom? Yes, very typical to find a sub who is more interested in his kink than anything else.

Fakes? Yes. All Dommes on here should line up to give you your wish.

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RE: CBT BALL CRUSHING - 1/21/2008 4:48:38 PM   
MamaDomme1


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Status: offline 		Good luck on finding that one Domme out there that is existing only to crush your balls sweetie!

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RE: CBT BALL CRUSHING - 1/21/2008 4:59:10 PM   
Politesub53


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quote:

ORIGINAL: need4feet

Why is it so hard to find a lady willing to step on a mans balls that would simply enjoy doing this.  Is every one about money?


You have been here just about 5 weeks ? What are you offering in exchange ? Will you be a service sub ? Do you want a relationship ? Either you need to specify what you can offer in return, and yes, if you want something kink specific then cash is a valid payment. Alternatively you need to start using the forums and let people see how you act and think. There really is no quick fix here, its a matter of selling yourself and waiting for the right person, much like vanilla dating.

Good luck with your search and welcome to the Forum.

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RE: CBT BALL CRUSHING - 1/21/2008 5:01:02 PM   
BossyShoeBitch


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quote:

ORIGINAL: need4feet

Why is it so hard to find a lady willing to step on a mans balls that would simply enjoy doing this.  Is every one about money?

No.  And we are also not about being your personal Fetish Delivery Device either.

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RE: CBT BALL CRUSHING - 1/21/2008 5:08:34 PM   
ThundersCry


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Status: offline 		If thats all you want then `ey...whats paying a few bones to get THAT!
 
SOME of the *things* I thought would be soooooooooo awesome to experience , fantasized about...etc...turned out to be real nightmares...=L=
 
Carefull what you ask for...
 
Oh....One day I had to step up to the plate and move from a small community to a city to get into local groups, etc...Thats when stuff begins to happen...
 
Good luck!
 
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RE: CBT BALL CRUSHING - 1/21/2008 5:32:42 PM   
LaMistressa


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quote:

ORIGINAL: need4feet

Why is it so hard to find a lady willing to step on a mans balls that would simply enjoy doing this.  Is every one about money?


I'm not about money, but I'm also not about doing things that don't interest me. Ball trampling doesn't interest me.

(People who claim that those who don't like what they like are fakes or in it for money also don't interest me.)

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RE: CBT BALL CRUSHING - 1/21/2008 5:54:53 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Does it require an emergency room visit afterward?  Then it's not for me!  Though I can do lots of fun stuff to balls.

If I like the person, and he is appreciative of what we are doing together. 

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RE: CBT BALL CRUSHING - 1/21/2008 11:52:40 PM   
GoddessTeaze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: need4feet
Why is it so hard to find a lady willing to step on a mans balls that would simply enjoy doing this.  Is every one about money?

Well come on over ya lilbitch,
and I will put My 7 inch heel into those lilballs of yours see if ya still want Me to go on...
Don't ya whine when ya go home ball-less ok?


GoddezzT`


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RE: CBT BALL CRUSHING - 1/22/2008 2:53:21 AM   
MsCfromMelbourne


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quote:

ORIGINAL: need4feet

Why is it so hard to find a lady willing to step on a mans balls that would simply enjoy doing this.  Is every one about money?


Well, I have done some ball kicking which is great fun, but have never tried "tomato juicing". I like CBT and wanted to learn the tricks to kick balls without bursting them.  A high profile masochist in New York was happy to teach me how. 

But he was a true gentleman, knowlegable and great fun.  Not a whining "why won't women do me for free" type.  Therefore lots of women wanted to do him for free!  Can you see the paradox? 

Make yourself a really great guy, meet sadistic women in real life and I am sure one day someone will like you enough to try ball crushing if you ask nicely.  Assuming you can reassure her how to do it safely. 

Ball crushing is an intimidating kink because no-one (who is sane) wants to permanently damage your family jewels.  Its no surprise to me that only (trained?) pro-dommes have offered to do it.

And pro-dommes are probably good value for money compared to letting a clueless newbie loose on your nuts.  By the time you have paid all the medicals, will you really save any money trying to get it for free ?


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RE: CBT BALL CRUSHING - 1/22/2008 4:37:52 AM   
petpete


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Status: offline 		Honestly chief... Have you got any nerves between your legs??

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RE: CBT BALL CRUSHING - 1/22/2008 9:05:28 AM   
LadyClaudiaVan


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Status: offline 		Well now needfeet the answer I would imagine is no ladies trust you enough and whose to say you won't turn around a file an assault and battery charge against them. I would have to say to you that you would be better off making friends with a lady first because if they dont know you, what I would ask, would be their incentive? Money or fun times. It's not fun, I gather, to scene with someone who holds no sentimental value.

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RE: CBT BALL CRUSHING - 1/22/2008 11:40:20 AM   
AtlantaMistress


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Status: offline 		I agree with all the comments posted - you seem to be looking to get something for nothing - and that rarely works. A suggestion would be to get out in your local community and perhaps volunteer as a bottom for demos on ball crushing - you will have an experienced Domme (pro or lifestyle) giving the demo, or go to such demos and offer yourself as a bottom to Dommes that are there to learn. Also, go out one night your local dungeon club and look for Domme's who may be wishing to play. Always be polite, appreciative, and respectful, and take it from the approach that you are not just trying to get your kink fulfilled, but offering them the chance to learn or expand their own experience - that can be something of value. Ask around and find out which Dommes in your community are experts, contact them, and also ask them if not only they want to use you as a bottom, but they may know Dommes just getting started that they can put you in touch with.  I am a Pro Domme, but everything I have done, I had to learn how to do, and this is something that definitely should not be done without knowing what you are doing. There is always a first, and I have certainly had bottoms who did not tribute but rather gave themselves as bottoms for me to try new things (. You may even "enhance" your own value by offering yourself up as a guinea pig for other areas if they will do the ball crushing for you as well. Again - you don't get something for nothing, and although that general attitude should get you a nice kick between the legs, it won't, so you need to make yourself as equal or greater value in what you will provide to get what you want.


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RE: CBT BALL CRUSHING - 1/23/2008 7:50:23 PM   
MistressFaye1


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessTeaze

quote:

ORIGINAL: need4feet
Why is it so hard to find a lady willing to step on a mans balls that would simply enjoy doing this.  Is every one about money?

Well come on over ya lilbitch,
and I will put My 7 inch heel into those lilballs of yours see if ya still want Me to go on...
Don't ya whine when ya go home ball-less ok?


GoddezzT`


I didn't need to respond to this post because the things that were said are pretty much my way of thinking!  I just wanted GoddezzT to know, your comment had me rolling when I read it.  I was feeling a little down today and this gave me my first smile and laugh of the day and it's almost 11:00 p.m.

Thanks!  LMAO still...

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RE: CBT BALL CRUSHING - 1/24/2008 3:32:11 AM   
GoddessTeaze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: petpete

Honestly chief... Have you got any nerves between your legs??

No,
he still hadn't had the balls to contact Me,
he just peeked!
*snickersz*

GoddezzT`


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RE: CBT BALL CRUSHING - 1/24/2008 3:34:00 AM   
GoddessTeaze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressFaye1

quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessTeaze

quote:

ORIGINAL: need4feet
Why is it so hard to find a lady willing to step on a mans balls that would simply enjoy doing this.  Is every one about money?

Well come on over ya lilbitch,
and I will put My 7 inch heel into those lilballs of yours see if ya still want Me to go on...
Don't ya whine when ya go home ball-less ok?


GoddezzT`



I didn't need to respond to this post because the things that were said are pretty much my way of thinking!  I just wanted GoddezzT to know, your comment had me rolling when I read it.  I was feeling a little down today and this gave me my first smile and laugh of the day and it's almost 11:00 p.m.

Thanks!  LMAO still...

I was happy to oblige MistressFaye1


have a Good one.

GoddezzT`


< Message edited by GoddessTeaze -- 1/24/2008 3:35:36 AM >

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RE: CBT BALL CRUSHING - 1/24/2008 6:20:14 AM   
stripmymanhood


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Status: offline 		and then....there are those of us who think about being ball-less...not sure that's the way i'd want it to happen though....

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RE: CBT BALL CRUSHING - 1/24/2008 8:19:58 AM   
LadyHathor


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quote:

ORIGINAL: need4feet

Why is it so hard to find a lady willing to step on a mans balls that would simply enjoy doing this.  Is every one about money?


Nope, there isnt enough money to make Me do this.

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RE: CBT BALL CRUSHING - 1/24/2008 11:08:54 AM   
boyforyouruse


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I've got an idea for you -- find an area with lots of women running / jumping around. Like a  women's volleyball league game. Take off your pants and underwear, and "accidently" fall underneath them. Tada! Balls crushed.
/end sarcasm

On a more serious note, you could
A: pay a professional dominatrix to do this.
B: Take the time to develop a relationship with a woman who has an interest in something like this. You're probably going to have to develop a high level of trust before she's going to have much interest in that, so be prepared to actually get to know someone and be willing to share fantasies, and then HAVE SOMETHING TO OFFER THEM IN RETURN.

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