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RE: Did you start out Daddy/little girl or did it evolve? - 4/17/2008 10:35:34 PM   
aphrodite5


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Status: offline 		I knew I wanted a Daddy long before I met my Daddy. I love to let my inner four-year-old out to play. And Daddy knew he was a Daddy before I came along. Still, neither of us were searching for those roles in each other. It actually came out after we started playing.

He's my fabulous Daddy-lover, and I'm his precious little one.

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RE: Did you start out Daddy/little girl or did it evolve? - 4/18/2008 1:44:23 AM   
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Status: offline 		Daddy and I didn't start out as Daddy/lg.  We started out as Dom/sub, then when I got pregnant with our son, I started calling him Daddy to get him used to the idea of becoming a father,but, as my pregnancy progressed and I became more and more dependant on him , he naturally became more and more paternally protective over me. Now, the Daddy/lg dynamic for us has never really involved actual age play.  I call him Daddy more because it places me in a more submissive mindset and for him to hear "Daddy" from me places him instantly in a more dominant mindset.  I personally have never really felt the need to act like a little girl ,but, Daddy certainly speaks to me in a very loving, firm, nurtering and paternal manner when he assumes and exercises his authority over me.  It works well for us....did I explain it ok?

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RE: Did you start out Daddy/little girl or did it evolve? - 4/18/2008 2:15:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		The Daddy/little girl aspect of Our dynamic is a natural one.. Just something that we inspire in each other and it made itself well known only a couple of days into the relationship.
i can't recall any need or craving for that kind of interaction before this, but i do recognise that it was there to some extent.. His paternal side just brought it out in me as thing's developed.


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RE: Did you start out Daddy/little girl or did it evolve? - 4/18/2008 3:06:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		he makes a good daddy; i can pout and whine all i want and i still don't get my way...

but seriously, he knew when he met me the type of man and relationship i was looking for, and so it's always been the way it is now.  it's a natural part of our internal wiring, so evolving into the roles or the relationship hasn't even been an after-thought.

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RE: Did you start out Daddy/little girl or did it evolve? - 4/18/2008 7:34:37 PM   
Zechriel


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Status: offline 		My first D/s realtionship was difficult but it was a Master/slave. The next one was also the same dynamic but I felt that i needed alot of emotion, love, and having things in common. Also I could be pretty pouty and petulant and I am sure Master was getting tired of that. So I think the traditional Master/slave was not for me.

I am looking into the Daddy/little girl "venue" as my needs and feelings seem to go along that way. Though I cannot dress the part yet, I do have the neediness, the brattiness, and all the feelings that go with it. I want a guiding hand, not a heavy hand and I think this is the right road for me. So maybe for me, it has evolved or more accurately I have re-examined myself and decided on this course. But I did not start out on the D/s path with the Daddy/little girl realm in mind. Have a great weekend!!

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RE: Did you start out Daddy/little girl or did it evolve? - 4/21/2008 7:44:09 AM   
PoisonBeatrice


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Status: offline 		My partner started as my rope top, became deeply D/s for about a year. Then he became my master for about a year, and now he is my Daddy and I am his girl. I think we found our way to be in D/s together that works for us both really well. I find it very loving and wonderful, and would never want to go back to any of the other ways I've had relationships in D/s ways, as this is what speaks deepest to me.

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RE: Did you start out Daddy/little girl or did it evolve? - 11/7/2011 8:28:27 PM   
DICKtatorDaddy


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RE: Did you start out Daddy/little girl or did it evolve? - 11/7/2011 8:33:00 PM   
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It's almost four years old, started January 2008!!

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RE: Did you start out Daddy/little girl or did it evolve? - 11/7/2011 8:34:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DICKtatorDaddy

I will find my babygirl!


Why in the world did you resurrect a thread from 2008 to say that?

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RE: Did you start out Daddy/little girl or did it evolve? - 11/8/2011 7:05:53 AM   
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RE: Did you start out Daddy/little girl or did it evolve? - 11/8/2011 9:13:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		Daddy and I started out as Master/slave. Last year, in March, Daddy asked about age play. I agreed to try it, but wasnt sure how I'd feel about it. Ever since that first time, the lil girl in me has been present. Daddy has bought me stuffed toys and a baby doll. I have them on our bed. My granddaughter gave me a stuffed froggie. That my dog tried to take from me. Evidently he likes green.........lol.

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RE: Did you start out Daddy/little girl or did it evolve? - 11/9/2011 11:39:39 PM   
ScottFreakshow


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Status: offline 		Due to the age difference between us, we get asked if we have a Daddy/daughter relationship dynamic alot. And while I would never consider calling him Daddy I sometimes feel that that is where we are headed. Again due to the age difference. Being 22 years my senior, it would be hard not to. At least that's how it feels to me...
Right now, we naturally fall into the D/s dynamic. Having just opened up the BDSM box that's about all we know.
Hope that at least partly answered your question...

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RE: Did you start out Daddy/little girl or did it evolve? - 11/9/2011 11:41:41 PM   
wittynamehere


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Status: offline 		The way you describe it rings true for me as well. With both my girls, it just seemed strange for it not to go there. Pretty rapidly once we became involved, actually.

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ORIGINAL: venusinblu

Curious to know because my relationship with my Master is veering more and more towards that dynamic.  It appears to have blossomed once our feelings for each other became established - it was never discussed, it just evolved.

Perhaps it was something we both craved and never before had an outlet for?  As a consequence of this relationship metamorphasis, i am more content, feel more loved, feel safe .. in a way i have never felt before. He admits to being changed by it too. 

Perhaps it is one of the attractions of D/s or BDSM, relationships are allow to develop more organically due to their emotional and sexual honesty .. but then again, maybe i am seaching too deeply for a Tuesday morning!

So, i am interested to know, did you start out with your Daddy as your Daddy or did your relationship bring the Daddy out in Him and the little girl out in you?



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