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Toys......... - 1/22/2008 5:03:12 AM   
Bamslilgirl


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Status: offline 		Ok-I guess this is the right section for this topic. If not, please forgive me. Anyway, Bam spent quite a few months in Iraq, & while He was there, He ordered me several toys from a website. The toys were grossly misrepresented, & when they got to me, it looked like I was pulling arms & legs out of the boxes!!! LOL My first reaction was to get rid of all of them, because I'm rather tight & would like to keep it that way. But, lately I've been hearing that even if you use large toys, your "body" shrinks back to its original size. Is this true? I love the pain of being stretched, & have been giving some thought lately to actually trying one of the toys. But, I want to be sure it isn't going to cause me to stay larger than normal. Can A/anyone help me???
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RE: Toys......... - 1/22/2008 5:07:27 AM   
crouchingtigress


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Status: offline 		vaginal muscles are more resilliant then anal....arms and leg sized toys in your rectum regularly could very possibly lead to anal leakage problems down the line.



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RE: Toys......... - 1/22/2008 5:09:59 AM   
lilabbotsfordgrl


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Status: offline 		Hun, if you like being stretched, why deny yourself that?  Myself I don't really want anything bigger than Daddy's cock, but that's just a personal preference.  Lots of girls love big toys and from what I hear they don't love the cock any less afterwards.  :)  I hear a lot of people use the "if you can be snug again after a BABY goes through there for 8 to 20 hours, you can still be snug after a toy goes through there for half an hour".  Seems reasonable.  I bet it'll be fun!

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RE: Toys......... - 1/22/2008 12:07:27 PM   
Bamslilgirl


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Status: offline 		Very true lilabbotsfordgrl, I appreciate your reply. And to crouchingtigress, thank for your reply also, but good Lord girl-I dont want those toys anywhere near my ass!!!!! LOL I'm only considering vaginal penetration. I'm still fairly new to anal, so that isn't an option. Looking forward to more replies.

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RE: Toys......... - 1/22/2008 12:26:16 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		I have some rather large toys he likes to use on me.  They were difficult and painful at first, but now while I still feel "full", I do not have the struggle with them that I used to.  However, I do not say permanently stretched, either.  I think my body has just become more adaptable and used to accomodating them.  I still stretch out each time, but it's not so scary as it used to be, so my body is less resistant to it.

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RE: Toys......... - 1/22/2008 1:16:17 PM   
Bamslilgirl


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Status: offline 		ownedgirlie-that's what i wanted to hear!!! Ok-so I am looking forward to trying this. Too bad the kids are awake!!! LOL

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RE: Toys......... - 1/22/2008 1:23:58 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		Glad I could help.  :)  My advice is to go slow, stay calm, and let your body relax around it.  What's scary today is fun tomorrow (ok, maybe longer than tomorrow...but...lol).

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RE: Toys......... - 1/22/2008 1:28:28 PM   
FRSguy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Bamslilgirl

Ok-I guess this is the right section for this topic. If not, please forgive me. Anyway, Bam spent quite a few months in Iraq, & while He was there, He ordered me several toys from a website. The toys were grossly misrepresented, & when they got to me, it looked like I was pulling arms & legs out of the boxes!!! LOL My first reaction was to get rid of all of them, because I'm rather tight & would like to keep it that way. But, lately I've been hearing that even if you use large toys, your "body" shrinks back to its original size. Is this true? I love the pain of being stretched, & have been giving some thought lately to actually trying one of the toys. But, I want to be sure it isn't going to cause me to stay larger than normal. Can A/anyone help me???


Awweeee a girl after my own heart... nothing like the site of a good woman stretched to the max...lol
To answer your question I would have to say yes and no.

Yes for the most part everything will stretch back if you are healthy and do kegal exercises.

It takes a while for a woman to stretch back so if you stretch it out all the time dont expect it to just snap back
where it was.  (In my book this a fringe benefit)

The part you want to stretch back is actually the part that is beyond the first three inches or so of your vagina... Its easyer to exercise the entrance but make sure your Dom checks that you are exercising the deeper areas and they do make machines for this by the way.

Extream sex allways requires that you keep better tabs on your health than some poor vanilla girl.  Make sure you have medical insurance allways.


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RE: Toys......... - 1/22/2008 1:32:31 PM   
Bamslilgirl


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Status: offline 		FRSguy-omfg. Medical insurance???? LOL I really doubt if it'll be that serious hun. You're hilarious!  But seriously, I'll give em a try whenever I get up the nerve, then if A/anyone's interested, I'll let them know how it goes.

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RE: Toys......... - 1/22/2008 1:46:20 PM   
FRSguy


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Status: offline 		Yeah sorry about that I allways plug the medical insurance for people involved in the lifestyle.... I get kind of cranky when I hear about subs with problems and no insurance and cant afford a hospital visit or who dont have a regular gyno... after all "SAFE".

There is a chance you could do some taring and get an infection but unlikely.  As a fan of really large objects being used on woman... definatly enjoy... I have never experienced a woman that could not bounce back from such thing except one but she refused to take care of herself and it was from before I was into the lifestyle. In the end however she was allways good for puting practice.

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RE: Toys......... - 1/22/2008 1:49:28 PM   
Bamslilgirl


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Status: offline 		FRSguy-that's one thing I ALWAYS do.......take care of myself. I mean, isn't that just common knowledge? Jeez-there are so many people out there, men as well as women, who never get a medical check-up, it's just not important to them. How can they live that way? It's very dangerous, as well as 100% NASTY. LOL Sorry, but I have NO tolerance for filth. *giggling to self.................damn-what were W/we talking about again? lmao

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RE: Toys......... - 1/22/2008 1:52:53 PM   
FRSguy


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Status: offline 		LOL......

I think you were about to plop yourself on something really big...lol

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RE: Toys......... - 1/22/2008 1:54:19 PM   
Bound2One


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Status: offline 		Did anyone mention using lubricant?  I'd strongly suggest it ...  Have fun!

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RE: Toys......... - 1/22/2008 2:18:21 PM   
Bamslilgirl


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Status: offline 		Bound2One-lube was a given! God can you even IMAGINE what would happen without it????? LOL

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RE: Toys......... - 1/22/2008 2:37:04 PM   
obagaar


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Status: offline 		I'm paranoid about big toys too. Mostly about how much they'd probably hurt.

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RE: Toys......... - 1/22/2008 2:53:31 PM   
FRSguy


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Status: offline 		If you have a good Dom... not much reason to worry.

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RE: Toys......... - 1/22/2008 5:37:16 PM   
TheLookingGirl


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ORIGINAL: Bamslilgirl

Bound2One-lube was a given! God can you even IMAGINE what would happen without it????? LOL


You'd put the medical insurance to use.

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RE: Toys......... - 1/22/2008 6:25:55 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		If it wasn't true, think of how large the vaginas of all the mothers out there would be.

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RE: Toys......... - 1/22/2008 6:42:36 PM   
Bound2One


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ORIGINAL: Bamslilgirl

Bound2One-lube was a given! God can you even IMAGINE what would happen without it????? LOL



LOL!  I can imagine it, but don't wanna! 

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