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Tempestspet -> RE: Submissive 24/7 (9/8/2005 3:45:40 PM)
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I'll join the group of 24/7 people...
"I find it interesting that Dom's underestimate the deference shown 24 hrs a day by a submissive. Even when the Dom is in sleep mode, its on the side of the bed that used to be mine, under his favourite quilt, not my feather one, where i sleep naked even when its freezing because he said so in Dom mode once, when i dont turn the light on to read so as not to wake my Sir at night. And this is just when it not D/s??? My Sir also will say that its available, but not always present. I disagree. The very nature of D/s or M/s is that it IS available all the time.
He may not request things of me in sleep/rest mode, but im still submitting, serving drink, food, fetching stuff. Perhaps its pampering thats 24/7 then? lol" -pandoravampire
The things that you are doing at night...because he said so in dom mode once.... that's Ds. I think that Ds is always...at least for Master and I.. available, and present. It's not always play, maybe it's when I am running his errands, fetching his food, drink, what have you. Maybe it's when I am reading, sitting next to him on the couch all curled up beside him, or sitting at his feet in the floor. All of these things are Ds to us, at least, because that's just the way it is. For us, this is the more nilla side of our Ds. Play is different from every day outside life. When it play, or private time, the Ds may be much much more pronounced.
Hope that helped a little.....
Tempest's pet
jennifer
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