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For those who are still looking - 1/22/2008 4:18:21 PM

takenbyjohnr07

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and have an active profile on Collar me. Do you think that the people who look up your profile, check what you write on the forums before they contact you? And if they do, do you think that influnences their decision on whether to contact you or not?

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RE: For those who are still looking - 1/22/2008 4:24:25 PM

swtnsparkling

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I think most just skim profiles and write before they ever know the person posts.

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RE: For those who are still looking - 1/22/2008 4:27:33 PM

takenbyjohnr07

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i think so too. For mne it was months later before i ever even looked at the message boards.

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RE: For those who are still looking - 1/22/2008 4:27:56 PM

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i get written to by alot of men..who apparently dont read my profile...since first line says "seek lifestyle Mistress".

have no clue if they are reading my forum posts or not but i do see alot of views from others who do post. most of the ones who post in the forums here dont write me.

some just compliment me on my tattoo's.

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RE: For those who are still looking - 1/22/2008 4:30:59 PM

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Thats hard to say since I am 28 different people.

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RE: For those who are still looking - 1/22/2008 4:33:49 PM

Sweet1Maybe4U

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...i dont think guys really read profiles..Mine clearly states collared and not looking but they write anyway asking to go out...

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RE: For those who are still looking - 1/22/2008 4:34:46 PM

MollyTroubletail

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I haven't noticed anyone reading forum posts when they contact me from email, but it sometimes happens that someone from the forum will email me after they read my post.

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RE: For those who are still looking - 1/22/2008 4:40:50 PM

Gwynvyd

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I would hope people read the message boards.. it gives you a much better idea of who you are dealing with personality wise.. but I would be happy if they just read the whole of my bloody profile. LOL

What about my profile says I want to view you shoving a champange bottle up your ass on webcam? Honestly? I looked it over recently.. hell part of it is alphabetized... webcam no where on there... LOL Or hey, I will be in Fl. on vacation maybe you can "do me" WTF! I am not a Disney Domme damnit... LOL can you imagine all the money the Pro dommes must make in Orlando while the wife and kiddies go see the Mouse?
or I am 18 and I want a mommie.. dude, you just dont want a job, or to go to college, and your mom wont let you live on her couch past the summer.

*end rant*

But honestly it would be nice if folks who were honestly and seriously about you read what you posted in forums.. I know a lot less people would get laid.. and a few more jems might get picked.

Gwyn,
who got those 3 examples in her in box today.

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RE: For those who are still looking - 1/22/2008 4:55:15 PM

Gwynvyd

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quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

i get written to by alot of men..who apparently dont read my profile...since first line says "seek lifestyle Mistress".

have no clue if they are reading my forum posts or not but i do see alot of views from others who do post. most of the ones who post in the forums here dont write me.

some just compliment me on my tattoo's.

Ok.. I perved your profile.. *smiles* sorry I had to...

Very nice. I *love* the tats... but you are in the Artic North.. Brrrrrr.... Geez girl!

BTW I think you are lovely.

Gwyn

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RE: For those who are still looking - 1/22/2008 5:00:03 PM

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Nope. I don't think any of the Doms who ever contacted me had ever been this side. I don't think half of them even knew it existed.......... If they didn't mention reading my posts, then I didn't bother to tell them either.

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RE: For those who are still looking - 1/22/2008 5:06:00 PM

CalifChick

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The one that I am going to meet in a couple of weeks first noticed my avatar, and I believe he said my "wit." Then to find out more about me, he read more of my posts. He still does.

<-- waves to him

I have some people from here that I consider to be special to me, and every one of them came from the forums. People that contact me strictly from the other side are ones that stumble across my journal and send me a comment or two about that.

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RE: For those who are still looking - 1/22/2008 5:06:44 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Gwynvyd

quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

i get written to by alot of men..who apparently dont read my profile...since first line says "seek lifestyle Mistress".

have no clue if they are reading my forum posts or not but i do see alot of views from others who do post. most of the ones who post in the forums here dont write me.

some just compliment me on my tattoo's.

Ok.. I perved your profile.. *smiles* sorry I had to...

Very nice. I *love* the tats... but you are in the Artic North.. Brrrrrr.... Geez girl!

BTW I think you are lovely.

Gwyn

guess you missed reading my journal....the one about the hot states.

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RE: For those who are still looking - 1/22/2008 5:14:22 PM

Gwynvyd

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quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: Gwynvyd

quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

i get written to by alot of men..who apparently dont read my profile...since first line says "seek lifestyle Mistress".

have no clue if they are reading my forum posts or not but i do see alot of views from others who do post. most of the ones who post in the forums here dont write me.

some just compliment me on my tattoo's.

Ok.. I perved your profile.. *smiles* sorry I had to...

Very nice. I *love* the tats... but you are in the Artic North.. Brrrrrr.... Geez girl!

BTW I think you are lovely.

Gwyn

guess you missed reading my journal....the one about the hot states.

hehe nope.. I saw that.. but I would have one pissed off lil Cuban girl to deal with if I brought another female into the house.. ( yes even to visit)
That is our one rule.. I can have droves of males.. ( yeah not so much there) but females.. nope.. just her...

Personaly the rule sucks... but she is right.. I am stupid when it comes to women.. I am " sure sweetie, oh, what do you want? Ok baby... "

I am *such* a guy that way. LOL

*winks*

so while Canada is a frozen tundra you are much better off up there.. and I am safe from my angry Cuban wife. LOL

Gwyn,
who likes all of her body parts intact.

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RE: For those who are still looking - 1/22/2008 5:16:15 PM

Playmate4aDevil

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Most of the Men that contact me haven't read the journal entries that I've made - nor do they respect the fact that I am focused on having certain things in my life - an older dom, someone local, experienced... etc.

It's frustrating, too, when submissive men write me or switches email me - asking me to consider them. I clearly state my intentions and desires. I'm not here to make friends - but to ideally find a Master. Sooooo that's when I get all NON submissive and write them a nasty-gram reply. (Then they tell me I'm not friendly.. Go figure!)

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