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This is Not meant as a Flame!!! but only MHO.

PP as I read your quote above, thoughts come to my mind...you say the only person you have tried to control is your daughter.
As I experience and from all your string of posts, 4 just on this page, that you have very deep control issues, IMHO.

This thread was begun by Lily, she asked about certain things in her original opening post.
How I have experienced this fora, and I have been here for some time is that a person starts a post and usually will ask for some kind of response...then in turn will respond to the answers they receive.

I am very confused why you feel you must comment on almost every single post that Lily receives to her opening post????
I feel it is Lily's place to do so. Not to say you shouldn't have your say to the OP, but that is where I think your response should be focused.
This, here, at CM I have considered and appreciated as a common courtesy.

Your profile states you have been here what 2 months? And have how many posts? 652 is what is says...I know people who have been here many more moons and have maybe a pair of handcuffs...because they post when they have the feeling they have something really important to graciously share with others, respectfully most often the OP.

I really appreciate hearing responses to the original posters inquiries and find it very intrusive to have someone else respond to people's responses outside of the original poster. This may be difficult for you to understand, just wanted to share what I have been noticing and hope people will have more respect for anothers thread by my sharing these thoughts.

It is my hope PP that you do not take this on a personal note, but instead as a eye opener, so that you may be less adament about needing everyone who posts hear your personal opinions on what they have to say as a response to the opening poster.

It seems to me kind of a manipulative way to hi-jack a thread and constantly bring the focus back to yourself,
when this thread I feel should be focused on what Lily started and how she choses to respond to the people who respond to her.

If you want to respond to everyone who posts I think it only courteous to start your own threads.
I know I make my mistakes, I try to learn from them and move on and you are not the only one here who can be a teacher to others.


To the Mods..I really did try and express my opinion with out flaming and I want you to know I have now blocked PP and will no longer have any reason react to her anywhere in this fora from now on, I only hope you understand my needing to say what I did.
This is Not meant as a Flame!!! but only MHO.

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