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Favourite thing with sub or slave - 1/23/2008 9:02:53 AM

Grimester

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I was just wondering whats your favourite thing that you do with your sub or slave when you are together

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RE: Favourite thing with sub or slave - 1/23/2008 9:14:16 AM

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i would think, contrary to most male subs fantasies, that for most it would be just talking and simply enjoying to being together. I may be wrong or overly romantic, these ladies can tell us.

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RE: Favourite thing with sub or slave - 1/23/2008 9:54:38 AM

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I agree with you, darch. Some of my favorite things to do with Mistress is to simply spend hours on the phone laughing and cutting up, telling each other about our day, and just enjoying the sound of Her voice. Since we haven't met yet, it's what gets us through to the next day. When we finally meet, it's going to feel so wonderful going somewhere with Her by my side. I can't wait to do little things like grocery shopping or going to the movies while we hold hands and give each other little kisses. She may be my owner, but I can't wait to show Her off!

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RE: Favourite thing with sub or slave - 1/23/2008 10:00:25 AM

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Ditto with what Darch and Rubberpet said. You haven't lived until you've clipped coupons with your Owner so you can get ultra savings at the local Kroger just in time for dinner. :-D

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RE: Favourite thing with sub or slave - 1/23/2008 10:03:48 AM

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You are mostly right in my household, darchChylde.

I love the evenings when Fox and I watch at least one television show together Monday to Friday. Just a time to chill out. He still fetches and serves at my command, but we're just being us and being happy.

In a slightly more kinky vein perhaps I love the fact that I have the complete freedom to smack Fox whenever I feel like it. This "smack" usually plays out as bottom spanking or playful slaps but it can lead to spontaneous more intense SM if the time is available.

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RE: Favourite thing with sub or slave - 1/23/2008 10:09:41 AM

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You are mostly right in my household, darchChylde.

I love the evenings when Fox and I watch at least one television show together Monday to Friday. Just a time to chill out. He still fetches and serves at my command, but we're just being us and being happy.

In a slightly more kinky vein perhaps I love the fact that I have the complete freedom to smack Fox whenever I feel like it. This "smack" usually plays out as bottom spanking or playful slaps but it can lead to spontaneous more intense SM if the time is available.

I like that idea. I can't wait to feel Mistress grope, poke, fondle, molesticate, smack, or any combination of those choices as I walk by Her in my catsuit or just sitting on the couch with Her in my arms.

She's already told me that She will have a very difficult time keeping Her hands off of me. It's so nice to know She desires me as a sex toy, a pet, and a devoted boyfriend. Ain't love grand?

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RE: Favourite thing with sub or slave - 1/23/2008 10:11:08 AM

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Being nerdy and playing video games or making horribly lame starwars jokes about everything.

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RE: Favourite thing with sub or slave - 1/23/2008 11:39:55 AM

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Wrapping him up in a blanket all snug & safe & cuddling him; either as cool-down from a scene or just for fun!
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RE: Favourite thing with sub or slave - 1/23/2008 12:12:00 PM

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Being nerdy and playing video games or making horribly lame starwars jokes about everything.

absolutely, i just adore it when we are just casual (in private, we're generally very low/no protocol; other than my treating Her with the utmost respect), either ourselves or with the entire family and extended family; all being geeks and nerds and dorks, except Ma'am of course (pssst: do i have something on my nose)

we, as a family, crack jokes on each other alot; the only downside is that there is one or two (sometimes i will get Sir) that are off limits to me... not by any rules set down, but i just can't see myself tearing Her a new one with a great punchline (also, since we've never really talked about that, i don't know what Her reaction would be)

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RE: Favourite thing with sub or slave - 1/23/2008 12:15:54 PM

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Fem Dom's and Masters seem to like the same things.

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RE: Favourite thing with sub or slave - 1/23/2008 12:25:16 PM

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Fem Dom's and Masters seem to like the same things.

Well yeah, i mean i know this is an over-simplification; but isn't Ds in the end just a loving relationship with more kinky subtext? As a matter of fact, i think the established boundaries between Dominant and Submissive (or whatever label you put on your lapel) actually makes more room for true (EEEK!!! i used the evil word, LoL) tenderness.

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RE: Favourite thing with sub or slave - 1/23/2008 1:29:31 PM

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You are mostly right in my household, darchChylde.

I love the evenings when Fox and I watch at least one television show together Monday to Friday. Just a time to chill out. He still fetches and serves at my command, but we're just being us and being happy.

In a slightly more kinky vein perhaps I love the fact that I have the complete freedom to smack Fox whenever I feel like it. This "smack" usually plays out as bottom spanking or playful slaps but it can lead to spontaneous more intense SM if the time is available.

I like that idea. I can't wait to feel Mistress grope, poke, fondle, molesticate, smack, or any combination of those choices as I walk by Her in my catsuit or just sitting on the couch with Her in my arms. She's already told me that She will have a very difficult time keeping Her hands off of me. It's so nice to know She desires me as a sex toy, a pet, and a devoted boyfriend. Ain't love grand?

You two have pretty acurately described what I picture as my ideal romantic/living situation.

Maybe a pair of leather shorts or panties in substitute for a catsuit ;)

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RE: Favourite thing with sub or slave - 1/23/2008 2:15:22 PM

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quote:

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Being nerdy and playing video games or making horribly lame starwars jokes about everything.

absolutely, i just adore it when we are just casual (in private, we're generally very low/no protocol; other than my treating Her with the utmost respect), either ourselves or with the entire family and extended family; all being geeks and nerds and dorks, except Ma'am of course (pssst: do i have something on my nose)

we, as a family, crack jokes on each other alot; the only downside is that there is one or two (sometimes i will get Sir) that are off limits to me... not by any rules set down, but i just can't see myself tearing Her a new one with a great punchline (also, since we've never really talked about that, i don't know what Her reaction would be)

Between David and I once the gloves come off it's all fair. He'll show no mercy, he knows I take it in good humor, and if my humor hasn't attended his greatest joke, then he's usually prepared to take the withering glare and resulting 'punishment'. He and I were friends first before the power dynamic though, so I suppose it's hard to really get rid of that pre-bond which often seems to underlay everything we do.

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RE: Favourite thing with sub or slave - 1/23/2008 2:51:29 PM

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Oh, here's something fun...reading together.

Just curling up together...me on the floor, most likely...and enjoying books seperately, or reading to each other.

Yeah...that's nice. *drifts off in his imagination*

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RE: Favourite thing with sub or slave - 1/23/2008 2:58:39 PM

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Between David and I once the gloves come off it's all fair. He'll show no mercy, he knows I take it in good humor, and if my humor hasn't attended his greatest joke, then he's usually prepared to take the withering glare and resulting 'punishment'. He and I were friends first before the power dynamic though, so I suppose it's hard to really get rid of that pre-bond which often seems to underlay everything we do.

Yes, Ma'am and i were friends before the Ds element; though not for very long. Also, i made it a point to be clear beforehand that, above all else, we are friends. But, with the Ds dynamic; i, myself, am unable to look at Her entirely as a friend. No matter how comfortable i am around Her, She is still my Dominant and i just don't feel like pushing the envelope too far would be worth the risk. Another thing about me, i'm liable to take something like that too far without intending to; She may be ok with it and forgive me, but i can be pretty hard on (hehe, i'm so juvenile) myself.

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RE: Favourite thing with sub or slave - 1/23/2008 3:02:36 PM

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but i can be pretty hard on (hehe, i'm so juvenile) myself.

That deserves a groan and an eye roll.

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RE: Favourite thing with sub or slave - 1/23/2008 3:22:26 PM

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going to stop hijacking this thread and take the conversation about joking/teasing between D's and s' to the General bdsm forums

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RE: Favourite thing with sub or slave - 1/23/2008 3:32:57 PM

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I was just wondering whats your favourite thing that you do with your sub or slave when you are together

Flying. We have our own aeroplane. It is pretty magical.

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RE: Favourite thing with sub or slave - 1/23/2008 4:41:09 PM

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I can't name just one, but here are a few of my favorite things: cuddling with her, doing her makeup and dressing her in what I want her to wear, having a cup of coffee and kahlua at her kitchen table while she makes me dinner, chatting about our respective days, watching football, "ordering" her to kiss the back of my neck while she hugs me from behind, discussing music, sleeping in, restraining her and taking pictures, shopping online together, lazing about on my couch, having a beer and a laugh together, making her blush, using my strap on with her, spanking her, watching her build a fire in the fireplace.

And, most important of my favorite things -- when she cleans the bathroom for me.

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RE: Favourite thing with sub or slave - 1/23/2008 7:22:57 PM

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I was just wondering whats your favourite thing that you do with your sub or slave when you are together

Oh,that one is easy. Verbal sparring. Fox and I have some of the most interesting, strangest, hardest to follow conversations known to man. He and I can follow, but we lose just about anyone around us. Between my constant uses of "5 point words" and his rnadom forays into star trek and movie references, it is almost like we speak our own language. That and cuddling. The kinkier stuff is gravy, but our vanilla every day stuff is my favorite. And of course, theres my OCD obsession with tupperware and coupons. He endulges me when he should and reminds me I dont need endulging when I shouldnt.

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