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What do you do to please your master? - 1/24/2008 1:54:41 AM   
schoenekitty


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Status: offline 		So, I feel like I haven't really been doing very much to please my master (personal reasons aside). I was wondering what everyone does to please their masters? I'm afraid I don't know what to do- what good slaves are supposed to do....
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RE: What do you do to please your master? - 1/24/2008 2:41:00 AM   
venusinblu


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Status: offline 		you could always ask him what he'd like .. the thing is, it could be argued that you are pleasing your own conscience by thinking of things to do for him, rather than concentrating on him and his wishes.  

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RE: What do you do to please your master? - 1/24/2008 2:59:53 AM   
MollyTroubletail


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Status: offline 		I'm hoping to keep things simple here and not delve into the why's of feeling like you're not doing enough.

- offer to give him a massage, or rub his feet
- be ready with a snack and drink for him, when he gets home
- give him a hug and kiss just for being in the same room with you
- make the bed with fresh smelling sheets and make it look inviting
- offer to help him with some tedious chore he was not looking forward to doing
- make him a special treat, whether it's cookies or something more elaborate
- write him a note telling him about something he recently did that made you feel wonderful
- listen attentively without arguing if he's talking about something passionately important to him

that was just a few things I could think of.

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RE: What do you do to please your master? - 1/24/2008 3:20:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ask him how you can better serve him.  We don't know what he wants all we can do is suggest.

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RE: What do you do to please your master? - 1/24/2008 4:15:42 AM   
topIrishsubm


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Status: offline 		I really believe looking after the small things is most important. We all have our odd preferences, dominants included. So whether it is "toast buttered to the edge" or nice lime for gin and tonic, you just need to know about these things and remember them.

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RE: What do you do to please your master? - 1/24/2008 5:17:55 AM   
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RE: What do you do to please your master? - 1/24/2008 5:39:41 AM   
fairerthanshe


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Status: offline 		When you eliminate the "I want" thoughts and replace them with a focus on your Master, you will be amazed at all the information he is already providing you about ways he would enjoy being served.  Taking the time to focus your energy on him, rather than how you are feeling, will help you accomplish your goal.

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RE: What do you do to please your master? - 1/24/2008 5:44:10 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: schoenekitty

So, I feel like I haven't really been doing very much to please my master (personal reasons aside). I was wondering what everyone does to please their masters? I'm afraid I don't know what to do- what good slaves are supposed to do....



I do what I am told to do, I'd offer that is always a good place to start. I accept I don't have to be doing for him all the time...he is stickler on that one. It is OK to just  relax and "be". Talk to your master, ask him, then follow-through.

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RE: What do you do to please your master? - 1/24/2008 8:07:19 AM   
rubberpet


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Status: offline 		What do I do to please my master?  Absolutely nothing...I have a Mistress to please!

Seriously though, I do whatever I can to help make Her life easier in any way I can.  At the moment, I'm 800+ miles away from Her, so my options are limited.  I send Her text messages during the day, talk to Her on Her lunch break, help Her with some of Her school work, and whatever else She asks of me.  I really enjoy doing things to help Her.  It shows that I'm an integral part of Her life and I have a purpose.

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RE: What do you do to please your master? - 1/24/2008 8:23:28 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		He was complaining about not knowing where any of his socks were. I took his pile of stuff he kept saying he would get to, and I shouldn't deal with it, I went through said pile and found four pairs of the expensive winter wool socks that don't itch. Then I crawled under various pieces of furniture and found other discarded socks.

Since then I've been an ear for him griping about car repairs. Helping him organize what to try next because nobody knows what's wrong and the car isn't worth what a garage would charge to repair it. I made suggestions about calling the dealer and asking for questions.

What I am for him changes day to day as he needs. I'm a helpmeet. I cook and clean and rub his feet. On a good day I'm a sex kitten. I'm an ear and shoulder when he needs one although preferably not at bedtime because I get wired by his venting and then I don't sleep. I run errands, proof read letters, am going to be given signatory power on his business account to help. Basically I'm a cross between a wife, an exec ass't, and a concierge at a top hotel.

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RE: What do you do to please your master? - 1/24/2008 8:29:58 AM   
charlotte12


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Status: offline 		I sometimes get those feelings of "I'm not doing enough to please Master." Usually if I ask him what i could be doing better he replies that if he wasn't pleased I wouldn't still be wearing his collar. So my suggestion to you would be to ask him if there's anything else you could be doing to please him and if he doesn't give you anything to do then probably the best thing you can do is relax. If you're happy and not stressed out you're likely to think of little things throughout the day that will make him smile. I try to remember to get beer on the way home if I know we're out. I know just how hot he likes his bath and that if i'm cleaning he likes me to wear heels. These are things you learn as you get to know him. The main thing you can do is show your desire to please him and then leave it up to him to determine if you are or not.

If it means anything he certainly seemed to be pleased with you this weekend. You two looked very happy together.

charlotte



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RE: What do you do to please your master? - 1/24/2008 8:33:21 AM   
Carmeldelight


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RE: What do you do to please your master? - 1/24/2008 8:47:27 AM   
Stephann


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Status: offline 		Heya kitty,

knowing what I do of your situation, I'd suggest that sometimes there's not much you can do beyond what you are.  As it is, your owner is working for most of his waking hours.  Trying to ensure that he has the chance to sleep in a warm comfortable bed, and making sure the space he does have when he's awake and not at work is enjoyable might be everything you can do.  Don't take it too hard; I'm certain he'd let you know if you were lacking in some way :)

Warm regards,

Stephan


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RE: What do you do to please your master? - 1/24/2008 9:15:47 AM   
LaMspeach


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ORIGINAL: charlotte12
The main thing you can do is show your desire to please him and then leave it up to him to determine if you are or not.


I think this is the key (at least for me it was). In the beginning I would drive both of us crazy worrying if I was pleasing him. I had to learn that I didn’t have any control over what was pleasing and what wasn’t. As long as I put forth my best I didn’t have to worry because he would correct me if I was doing or not doing something.  

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RE: What do you do to please your master? - 1/24/2008 10:03:49 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		What do i do to please My Master basically anything he asks of me.  I don't worry if i am pleasing him if i was not i know he would tell me.

Matt's littleone

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RE: What do you do to please your master? - 1/24/2008 10:29:24 AM   
BabyKittyKat


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Status: offline 		There`s no such thing as "what should a good slave do"... It`s individual. A good slave should do what a good person should do too - make him/her happy. It`s as simple as that.

Specifically.. I please my Daddy with new kiddy underwear, striptease, I cook Him sometimes, I give Him a good massage when He`s all tired and stiff, I always cheer Him up when He`s under the weather...  :)


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RE: What do you do to please your master? - 1/24/2008 7:33:32 PM   
piercedntattooed


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Status: offline 		when Master wants something, i try my hardest and do the best that i can, that pleases my Master
ill do what He wants, afterall He is the Master and gets what He wants

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RE: What do you do to please your master? - 1/24/2008 7:55:46 PM   
DominaRapport


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Status: offline 		I'm not a sub but I couldn't resist offering a reply.

The little things are sometimes the most important. Being there when he does want something, and looking after those little inconvinient things that always hang him up or seem tedious. In general, try to make his day more pleasent.

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