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RE: Some Things Never Change - 9/2/2005 11:28:54 PM

brightspot

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Hello lustiwench,

I agree.

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RE: Some Things Never Change - 9/3/2005 12:16:17 AM

DarkQuin

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ORIGINAL: WickedKev

It must be me? I allow my slave to put a profile up and she gets lots of emails from Doms asking her if she would like to meet play etc. Even though it says on her profile in big letters she is my slave. Her reply "Hadn't you better be asking my Master?" gets oh yes I'll do that and they never do or she is ordered to forward the emails to me as if I am going to take that as a respectful way of asking to use my slave. Now I have been in the lifestyle many years and have always believed if I wanted to play with anothers slave I should ask the Master first. Is this wrong or am I just expecting too much?

I know what you mean, me and mine get a kick out of the idiots that send her emails. Some are polite and others are just too hilarious to reply to.

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RE: Some Things Never Change - 9/3/2005 2:04:15 AM

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This problem doesn't just apply here or even to the lifestyle. I've seen similar situations where people dont rwead profiles in both medieval groups and pagan groups... I used to get bothered by the lack of basic manners people on line have (Well a good many of them anyway). These days I sit back and expect the worst and get pleasantly suprised when the worst doesn't occure. A mate of mine simply had those who demand that his slave play with them etc, give them an address which if they attend will find it to be a brothel.. None have ever replied to complain. Perhaps my mate should be claiming spotters fees????

Look mate dont expect much excert for those who you do know and talk to regularly.. As for the rest? Design a brush off post so you or your girl can do a fast copy/paste then off to the next.

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RE: Some Things Never Change - 9/3/2005 3:13:11 PM

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I have a simple method, and I state it clearly in my profile.

If it is clear to me, based on a message...that a person has not fully read my profile.

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RE: Some Things Never Change - 9/4/2005 3:24:52 PM

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I'll agree with you that your kink will be different than mine and choke on the label 'lifestyle' or not, it is just a label call it what you will. There are basic similarities that underpin what we do, and how we live our lives and basic respect should be one of the foremost courtisies that would cross every boundry. Too much experience has taught me not to expect it, just bemoaning the fact it would be nice.

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