RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in a first e-mail?

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Maya2001 -> RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in a first e-mail? (1/24/2008 2:53:35 PM)
quote: I would suggest that brash and degrading are two different appoaches. Did the subs explain what they meant by brash? I do agree that there can be quite a difference in being brash and rude. Sometimes an email the comes off as brash can stand out more the the polite and over outright rude emails to attract attention especially if one receives lots of emails, I did follow through on one the Dom wanted the 24/7 TPE and wanted a sub that would be objectified property which he could humiliate/degrade and which would include a lot sadism which I did not realize at first was I was sort of misled as I had explained what I wanted he avoid saying what he wanted and very new to the lifestyle and over time I ended it because I came to realize this was not the type of dynamic I wanted or felt comfortable with . But when I consider it now .... his approach suited the relationship dynamics he wanted, so would likely appeal more so to subs also wanting that type of dynamics also.. Looking at your profile that approach may not bring you much success with subs that would be compatible with what you are looking for

Jeffff -> RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in a first e-mail? (1/24/2008 2:58:16 PM)
Seems to me that if it actualy did get a positive response.....that would be a huge red flag. Who wants someone who just drops for anyone who asks? Jeff

RedMagic1 -> RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in a first e-mail? (1/24/2008 2:58:20 PM)
Who do you want to attract? Someone in such a frenzy she needs to submit to someone, anyone, whoever is most competitive, forceful and Domly RIGHT NOW? Or someone who respects herself and wants only to submit to a man who commands her desire and respect? Opening with "on your knees" is a little like a relationship-seeking woman sending pussy pics with her first email. Yeah, she'll get attention, but is it the kind of attention she wants? Maybe 95% of the women block you and the other 5% at least consider responding. How much does it benefit you if one of them responds? For the record, all the female profiles that have sent me a lot of pics fast were scammer profiles. So are you in this for the short term or the long haul? Respect hard-won can last for years, or a lifetime. And, on the other hand -- pun intended -- easy come, easy go.

lronitulstahp -> RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in a first e-mail? (1/24/2008 3:13:15 PM)
ummm...will post something later after i finish deleting the pussy pic i had reserved for Redmagic...obviously SOME people can't play nice with others....[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m23.gif[/image]

pettingdragons -> RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in a first e-mail? (1/24/2008 3:28:42 PM)
good luck in your search....there are girls and guys out there who like that... I get emails mostly from the male subs....I nicely inform them that I am or am not nterested...but only if they come across the email as intellegent...not something like "please beat me" ON the switch side [;)] I am not the girl that will tolerate anyone talking to me in that tone with out first knowing me...and agree with most of the girls here about getting a bad reaction ......Im a switch and if anyone took the time to notice that I wouldnt have to be a bitch to so many Dominants....:) jsut my 2 cents... Pamela

trina100 -> RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in a first e-mail? (1/24/2008 3:29:08 PM)
try

Jeffff -> RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in a first e-mail? (1/24/2008 3:29:21 PM)
Ouch......before you just delete it.....may I make a suggestion? Jeff

lronitulstahp -> RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in a first e-mail? (1/24/2008 3:30:16 PM)
intrigued...

CalifChick -> RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in a first e-mail? (1/24/2008 3:32:08 PM)
No Jeff, you may not make a suggestion, because you did not raise your hand to be recognized before speaking. Cali

lronitulstahp -> RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in a first e-mail? (1/24/2008 3:36:03 PM)
quote: may I make a suggestion? quote: No Jeff, you may not make a suggestion, because you did not raise your hand to be recognized before speaking. worlds are colliding...i don't know who's Dom or sub anymore!!![image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m28.gif[/image]

IrishMist -> RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in a first e-mail? (1/24/2008 4:28:48 PM)
You are not missing anything. Believe me, 99% of us out there perfer the gentleman approach, and with the exception of a very few...we perfer to be treated as human beings.

zhouwuatsien -> RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in a first e-mail? (1/24/2008 5:02:08 PM)
I remember a time when it worked. I used to do it. When I was fourteen In adult Chatrooms With other teenagers all of us posing as adults. --- Likewise, I'm pretty sure that it's still functioning. You've got a lot of people in Collarme who are very mature. Lots of 50 year olds will do that to a site. And lots of people who are very immature. The younger crowd like me. I just can't see being called a slut working on someone whose older, and has gone down that road before a million billion times. But to younger people just getting into it. That shit is GOLD. Like SOLID GOLD. Like California Gold rush Gold. With Gold Sprinkles on top. --- I'll bet it works on one type of person, who are a little low self confident, young, naive. A lot of of submissives on this site are not naive. But naivety adds an EXTREME spice to submission. I would think (no statistics or proof here, mind you) that no Master wants a Slave who knows more than them and the Master can't really protect or guide or even pleasure in new ways. At least protect or guide them beyond what the slave can do for herself. So in it's own way I'll bet it works on many levels. But it's very hard for a relationship to go from borderline abusive to well and surviving and loving, I think.

Kalista07 -> RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in a first e-mail? (1/24/2008 5:03:13 PM)
Mist???!!! What's this human being thing You speak of???!!! And how come no one told me we changed the protocal???!!!

BlackKnight -> RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in a first e-mail? (1/24/2008 5:08:47 PM)
On your Knees Bitch!

Kalista07 -> RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in a first e-mail? (1/24/2008 5:12:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BlackKnight On your Knees Bitch! UHM.....Excuse me!!! i know that was not directed at me!!! Because i'm *the* slutty bitch...Not just a bitch!!!

IndPrincess -> RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in a first e-mail? (1/24/2008 5:21:36 PM)
No it does not work, even after we've met a few times it will not work for me simply because we haven't established a repore with other or examined our limits which my one first limit is not playing until we get to know one another.There are somethings I will do after a few intital meetings as far as sex goes but I feel that a Dom requesting a sub to get on her knees in service is to early in the involvement. Now with that being said if I want to get on my knees at my own free will that's is exactly what I will do.But as far as it being requested no.I do enjoy the whore aspect of being a submissive but that's only because I feel comfortable being in that mode.I enjoy that part of humiliation.I was once told by a very wise man that a man likes a woman to be a whore in bed and a lady in public and I have stood by that theory for a good many years.Sorry, I got off the beaten track here, but even still a submissive has the right to keep her independence when it involves what she will do and won't do especially at first.And I do believe it is totally stupid to control a submissive online my god people how in the hell does that work tell me please, online submissive/slave involvements are a waste of time unless after a while you both know that it's going to go somewhere.I mean how do you know they are being honest,loyal,dependable,devoted.It's just not fesiable where I am concerned. But that's just my opinion isn't it.

soul2share -> RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in a first e-mail? (1/24/2008 5:23:56 PM)
Depends...if he's looking to make me laugh out loud, then mission accomplished! If he's looking for me to actually DO it.....pfffft.... I'll just roll my eyes and hit "DELETE"!

zhouwuatsien -> RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in a first e-mail? (1/24/2008 5:26:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kalista07 quote: ORIGINAL: BlackKnight On your Knees Bitch! UHM.....Excuse me!!! i know that was not directed at me!!! Because i'm *the* slutty bitch...Not just a bitch!!! ON YOUR KNEES YOU... THE... (How is this even grammatically possible?) SLUTTY BITCH... please? <-- The sensitive approach.

HarleyKitty69 -> RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in a first e-mail? (1/24/2008 5:36:39 PM)
I feel like sooo left out ......... I never got a "on your knees bitch e-mail [:(]"

Owner4SexSlave -> RE: Does "On your knees, Bitch!" EVER work in a first e-mail? (1/24/2008 5:36:41 PM)
This thread got to wondering how I would respond to an email by a prospective sub/slave. Such as "I'm down on my fucking knees now for you Sir. I will be your worthless fucking bitch, take me now Master"... I think I would be somewhat shocked, and well I might not take them all that serious, in fact I would probally believe it was just somebody screwing around online. I think it would be great to express an interest in Verbal humilation, without actually engaging in it.

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