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RE: BDSM SNOBS - 1/25/2008 6:12:36 AM   
Jeffff


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Yes, I am insulting. Yes, I am rude. Yes, I am harsh. Along with all that though, I am honest.


And why are you insulting, harsh and rude? With what goal?



She needs a goal?....why?.....what if that IS her goal.does she need approval?...who's?...yours?.......mine?........huh??????????

Jeff

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RE: BDSM SNOBS - 1/25/2008 6:13:05 AM   
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Your analogy is somewhat flawed. Look at the example as you presented it, and note the part that I put in bold. You say yourself that you'd seek out an expert and talk to them so as to figure out what you're doing before you try to jump into the middle of things.

I would say, by extension, that asking on collarme for advise and suggestions before going to local clubs or doing your own play is the exact same thing. Seeking out an expert and asking them.

Now, I will admit that one major difference is that your hypothetical golf pro is getting paid to offer up his insight and knowledge whereas we here are not (anyone that wants to pay me for advise is welcome!), but we're also not obligated to provide any help, so I think the two evens out. All volunteer.

The next paragraph you go on about asking other people for help...which is what the new people are doing. So what's the problem with it?




Rough, apparently I wasn't clear. I applaud those who come in, are frank about being newbies and ask for advice. The ones who come in, declare that at age 18 they have years of experience, and then tell everyone else the one true way are the ones who get flamed and rightfully. Actually, anyone who shows up at any age and says they are the only true dominants because they trained in ancient European houses, are old leather despite being young and straight, or have read two whole books and now know everything deserve to be treated the same way they're treating the rest of us, which is rudely.

We were all new at one time. The difference is being honest about it, asking people you admire for help, or come in afraid to be shown up as not knowing anything and then opening their mouths and proving it. I was never flamed as a newbie because I didn't tell everyone else what they were doing was wrong. I just stated what we do and then asked a specific question. Oh yes, and I was careful that my question was what I meant, and didn't flame others for not being able to read my mind.

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RE: BDSM SNOBS - 1/25/2008 6:13:30 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Justme696

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Yes, I am insulting. Yes, I am rude. Yes, I am harsh. Along with all that though, I am honest.


And why are you insulting, harsh and rude? With what goal?


You have not earned the right to know that answer. Take that any way you want to.



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RE: BDSM SNOBS - 1/25/2008 6:14:55 AM   
IrishMist


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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

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ORIGINAL: Justme696

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Yes, I am insulting. Yes, I am rude. Yes, I am harsh. Along with all that though, I am honest.


And why are you insulting, harsh and rude? With what goal?



She needs a goal?....why?.....what if that IS her goal.does she need approval?...who's?...yours?.......mine?........huh??????????

Jeff

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RE: BDSM SNOBS - 1/25/2008 6:15:48 AM   
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BTW the old "Go read this and then come back and we'll talk about it."  is more often than not a method of culling out those who really want the information from those who want the "free ride".



It is also a way to teach them to fish rather than handing them fish.  I much prefer this method of passing on information.

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RE: BDSM SNOBS - 1/25/2008 6:17:31 AM   
Justme696


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ORIGINAL: IrishMist

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ORIGINAL: Justme696

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Yes, I am insulting. Yes, I am rude. Yes, I am harsh. Along with all that though, I am honest.


And why are you insulting, harsh and rude? With what goal?


You have not earned the right to know that answer. Take that any way you want to.




lol you are a great example for this threat


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RE: BDSM SNOBS - 1/25/2008 6:20:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Justme696

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ORIGINAL: IrishMist

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ORIGINAL: Justme696

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Yes, I am insulting. Yes, I am rude. Yes, I am harsh. Along with all that though, I am honest.


And why are you insulting, harsh and rude? With what goal?


You have not earned the right to know that answer. Take that any way you want to.




lol you are a great example for this threat



oh I don't know...constantly harping on people that they are rude isn't really actually polite...pot...kettle...HELLO?

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RE: BDSM SNOBS - 1/25/2008 6:20:49 AM   
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lol you are a great example for this threat

/shrug

If you go back to all of my posts in this thread you will notice a consistency in what I said. It's not hard to understand my meaning.

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RE: BDSM SNOBS - 1/25/2008 6:21:25 AM   
Jeffff


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Status: offline 		The same could be said about you...let me get this straight..so I understand. Someone comes onto these boards, declares themselves dominant, so all the submissives must respect them and believe everything they say is fact?

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RE: BDSM SNOBS - 1/25/2008 6:21:32 AM   
soul2share


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He must be typing in the dark too!

laurel, I'm so glad that I wasn't the only one thinking that.....I was sort of thinking "dead horse"!



< Message edited by soul2share -- 1/25/2008 6:23:34 AM >

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RE: BDSM SNOBS - 1/25/2008 6:23:09 AM   
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ORIGINAL: laurell3

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ORIGINAL: Justme696

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ORIGINAL: IrishMist

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ORIGINAL: Justme696

quote:

Yes, I am insulting. Yes, I am rude. Yes, I am harsh. Along with all that though, I am honest.


And why are you insulting, harsh and rude? With what goal?


You have not earned the right to know that answer. Take that any way you want to.




lol you are a great example for this threat



oh I don't know...constantly harping on people that they are rude isn't really actually polite...pot...kettle...HELLO?


is that true?  I just quote soem saying beeing rude. If you find that normal, ok. I am curious why one is like that.
I didn't say he/she was rude. The person itself did.

and laurell, he/she is damn fine with words and is capable to defend him/herself.


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RE: BDSM SNOBS - 1/25/2008 6:25:56 AM   
Jeffff


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RE: BDSM SNOBS - 1/25/2008 6:27:26 AM   
laurell3


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Status: offline 		well let me make this clear to you....a) spell check - typos are fine, but often I can't discern what the hell you are saying it's so bad  b) don't tell me what to post c) your song and dance is getting old especially where you attacked me for being the only one actually being nice to someone on the boards.  Before you go there, yeah I know you SAY it was just a fast reponse, however, it was TWO responses and you responding to me actually asking why are you on me and saying the same thing.  You are either incredibly unintelligent or are just being the type of "snob" that this thread is actually about by attempting to set yourself apart as some savior.  You ain't all that bud and finally d) "normal" is an overused phrase that means nothing here.

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RE: BDSM SNOBS - 1/25/2008 6:27:46 AM   
IrishMist


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I am a he/she

Can I wear my knives now?
Please?



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RE: BDSM SNOBS - 1/25/2008 6:29:14 AM   
laurell3


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RE: BDSM SNOBS - 1/25/2008 6:30:36 AM   
soul2share


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it should read "is capable OF DEFENDING"........

C'mon Hon.....if you're going to fling gauntlets around, at least do it right......



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RE: BDSM SNOBS - 1/25/2008 6:31:25 AM   
Jeffff


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Hot fuck LMAO

I am a he/she

Can I wear my knives now?
Please?




I don't mean to be judgemeantal........and I am speaking only for me. But the he/she thing.....takes some of the...hot out of you......

Jeff

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RE: BDSM SNOBS - 1/25/2008 6:31:43 AM   
Justme696


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Status: offline 		lol funny how soem of you have no opinion as person, but defend eachother.
Makes it more fun, but please focus on the contents if you can. Lately the threads just get filled with off topic thoughts, that is a shame.
I am willing to listen to anything, keep t it on topic.

@Jeff
what has rude, harsh to do with "The same could be said about you...let me get this straight..so I understand. Someone comes onto these boards, declares themselves dominant, so all the submissives must respect them and believe everything they say is fact?  "

I know friends defend eachother, that is nice...but please..facts...don't attack because you disagree








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RE: BDSM SNOBS - 1/25/2008 6:31:46 AM   
IrishMist


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(takes the knife and runs away before someone gets hurt)


Dayum. I was not quick enough.
That's ok. I still have my guns

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RE: BDSM SNOBS - 1/25/2008 6:33:08 AM   
IrishMist


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I don't mean to be judgemeantal........and I am speaking only for me. But hte he/she thing.....takes some of the...hot out of you......

Jeff

LMAO
Well fiddlefuck


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