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sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Is our life style disintegrating so fast that there is no hope? (1/25/2008 11:38:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mastergcs The Disintegration of a Lifestyle Is our life style disintegrating so fast that there is no hope? Are the ALT.com’s and the collarme.com’s etc. so dilluting my beloved life style, that there is no chance of recovery? Can any real Master or slave survive the onslaught of miss information and just plain wrong people? I cannot truly imagine what the “NEW” Master’s must be going through in order to find their way, in a lifestyle that has become filled with slaves telling Masters what to do, with Masters handing out collars of consideration, with “weekend” slaves? And I will not even start with my thoughts on collared submissive’s. Am I the only one who is feeling this way? 20 years ago this was a Lifestyle that had an occasional fetish, and NOW it seems to be a Fetish with the occasional Lifestyle. Master G Master of the House of G -------------------------------------------------------- I thank God for every day he lets me be in my chosen lifestyle, and so will my slaves.[sm=whoa.gif] - MasterGcs well i guess not if you're not a rweal and twue master yourself. so sorry that you feel that your lifestyle (which btw didn't know belonged solely to you) is being wasted away without any hope of recovering back to what it was 20yrs ago for you. i suppose you'll be whining again in another 20yrs about how your lifestyle has crashed and burned.

hisannabelle -> RE: Is our life style disintegrating so fast that there is no hope? (1/25/2008 11:39:45 AM)
uh oh, madrabbit. here i was under the impression it was still about beer (well, gin), drugs, and rough sex. annabelle, the leather wannabe.

mnottertail -> RE: Is our life style disintegrating so fast that there is no hope? (1/25/2008 11:49:10 AM)
Real Fast Reply Ja, the whole thing makes me fucking puke. It is so foetid and putrid. ForensicMaster

xxblushesxx -> RE: Is our life style disintegrating so fast that there is no hope? (1/25/2008 11:49:20 AM)
I don't know if it is disintegrating or not. When HoneyMaster gets home I will order Him to get on His knees, look up this post, and respond to it. He will know the answer.... [:-][8\|] ~SlaveChrissy

WillowRain -> RE: Is our life style disintegrating so fast that there is no hope? (1/25/2008 12:29:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub ~Fast Reply~ Nope. You might as well give up now because we are all utter fakes, liars and wanna-bes. You are the last one left. I'm actually a large piece of butterscotch candy just pretending to be a human pretending to be owned. OOOOhhh, a large... piece of BUTTERSCOTCH candy... drool I want to do unspeakable things to you now. I shall go retire and think placid thoughts until I recover.

MadRabbit -> RE: Is our life style disintegrating so fast that there is no hope? (1/25/2008 2:07:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hisannabelle uh oh, madrabbit. here i was under the impression it was still about beer (well, gin), drugs, and rough sex. annabelle, the leather wannabe. It's about cleaner, safer rough sex without beer and drugs! Oh how the lifestyle has deteriatored! I long for the good old days of free exchange of STDs and dirty, unsterilized toys!

IrishMist -> RE: Is our life style disintegrating so fast that there is no hope? (1/25/2008 3:18:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LordVelvet Irish, Where are you aiming? I may step up. [;)] LordVelvet LOL hmm...what would you like me to aim at? I am umm...very good with knives [8D]

hisannabelle -> RE: Is our life style disintegrating so fast that there is no hope? (1/25/2008 3:44:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MadRabbit quote: ORIGINAL: hisannabelle uh oh, madrabbit. here i was under the impression it was still about beer (well, gin), drugs, and rough sex. annabelle, the leather wannabe. It's about cleaner, safer rough sex without beer and drugs! Oh how the lifestyle has deteriatored! I long for the good old days of free exchange of STDs and dirty, unsterilized toys! well, hell. i completely missed the memo. :( is afraid she's going to be excommunicated from the secret most noble and ancient house of lifestyle-ing

LordVelvet -> RE: Is our life style disintegrating so fast that there is no hope? (1/25/2008 4:09:46 PM)
Mist, I guess just start throwing and we will take it from there. What is the worst that happens, we get dirty and sweaty. [:D] LordVelvet

DesFIP -> RE: Is our life style disintegrating so fast that there is no hope? (1/25/2008 4:42:28 PM)
I want to know how you read anything on a cell phone. You get all of four words to a line if that much. It would drive me batty.

masterlink65 -> RE: Is our life style disintegrating so fast that there is no hope? (1/25/2008 5:48:56 PM)
i am not sure it is disintegrating, but terms are used alot more loosely than they used to be. its easier to hide behind the screen of your PC and claim you are this or that, but who would know any different? i agree with you about the weekend slaves, and the temporary collars, and the D/s orgies. i see that as fetish more than lifestyle. and you will most likely get all kinds of comments about twue, and how, who are you with your 3rd post getting all in our faces with your absolute way of master/slave puritan BS. the misinformation is going to be found most anywhere, but i know what you mean about how it would be nice to hear some wisdom, rather than sarcasm, and ignorance. my slave found some old checkmate, and dungeonmaster mags. and right now the fashion minded are getting prepared for IML coming up in may. some will have to get used to wearing boots again after all those night in heels.

sweetsub1986 -> RE: Is our life style disintegrating so fast that there is no hope? (1/25/2008 6:25:31 PM)
hmm wasn't aware I was fake...I'm saddened by this. I could absolutely SWEAR that my lifestyle is very real and alive...but maybe I'm crazy...to the OP oh great and powerful Sir full of himself...get over your self! Just because not everyone plays by your rules doesn't mean that they are ruining "our lifestyle" no two lifestyles are the same...there are lots of different styles within BDSM. Blessed be all!

IrishMist -> RE: Is our life style disintegrating so fast that there is no hope? (1/25/2008 7:54:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LordVelvet Mist, I guess just start throwing and we will take it from there. What is the worst that happens, we get dirty and sweaty. [:D] LordVelvet LMAO Hot dayum....bring it on

daddyncherry -> RE: Is our life style disintegrating so fast that there is no hope? (1/25/2008 11:53:36 PM)
D/s orgies? Where was our invite????? Now i'm all hurt, i'm gonna have to go eat worms. But would whoever is selling the mood rings pleeease let me know...i lost mine and now i have no idea what mood i'm in....and im so blonde and confused.[:)][:'(][:@][:D][:(][&:]...but im twue...so its okay if im confused

fluffyswitch -> RE: Is our life style disintegrating so fast that there is no hope? (1/26/2008 5:39:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: masterlink65 i am not sure it is disintegrating, but terms are used alot more loosely than they used to be. its easier to hide behind the screen of your PC and claim you are this or that, but who would know any different? i agree with you about the weekend slaves, and the temporary collars, and the D/s orgies. i see that as fetish more than lifestyle. and you will most likely get all kinds of comments about twue, and how, who are you with your 3rd post getting all in our faces with your absolute way of master/slave puritan BS. the misinformation is going to be found most anywhere, but i know what you mean about how it would be nice to hear some wisdom, rather than sarcasm, and ignorance. my slave found some old checkmate, and dungeonmaster mags. and right now the fashion minded are getting prepared for IML coming up in may. some will have to get used to wearing boots again after all those night in heels. guess i didn't realize my footwear had anything to do with it. but oh was that an ignorant comment? sometimes wisdom and sarcasm are not mutually exclusive.

LordVelvet -> RE: Is our life style disintegrating so fast that there is no hope? (1/26/2008 5:41:06 AM)
cherry, I never said you coouldn't play too. There are better things to eat that worms, well depending on who's worm I guess [:)] LordVelvet

IrishMist -> RE: Is our life style disintegrating so fast that there is no hope? (1/26/2008 5:52:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: daddyncherry D/s orgies? Where was our invite????? Now i'm all hurt, i'm gonna have to go eat worms. But would whoever is selling the mood rings pleeease let me know...i lost mine and now i have no idea what mood i'm in....and im so blonde and confused.[:)][:'(][:@][:D][:(][&:]...but im twue...so its okay if im confused You have an open invitation miss cherry [:)]

CreativeDominant -> RE: Is our life style disintegrating so fast that there is no hope? (1/26/2008 11:53:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mastergcs The Disintegration of a Lifestyle Is our life style disintegrating so fast that there is no hope? Are the ALT.com’s and the collarme.com’s etc. so dilluting my beloved life style, that there is no chance of recovery? Can any real Master or slave survive the onslaught of miss information and just plain wrong people? I cannot truly imagine what the “NEW” Master’s must be going through in order to find their way, in a lifestyle that has become filled with slaves telling Masters what to do, with Masters handing out collars of consideration, with “weekend” slaves? And I will not even start with my thoughts on collared submissive’s. Am I the only one who is feeling this way? 20 years ago this was a Lifestyle that had an occasional fetish, and NOW it seems to be a Fetish with the occasional Lifestyle. Master G Master of the House of G -------------------------------------------------------- I thank God for every day he lets me be in my chosen lifestyle, and so will my slaves.[sm=whoa.gif] - MasterGcs To respond to your sig line...Good for you and yours. If that is what makes you happy, then go for it. To respond to your post above this. You know, on a certain level, I get what you are saying but the level I am getting it from is not the level you probably intended. Like a lot of people, I look around at everything today and say "Whoooaaaaaaaaaaa!!! what happened to this...and that...and the other?" And much of what has replaced this and that and the other leaves me cold. But calling others fakes or wannabes because they do not match up to what you expect nor to your lifestyle does NOT make them fakes or wannabes...except in YOUR own eyes. And should that not be what is important to you? Now, does that mean I won't argue a point of D/s or BDSM with others on here? Does that mean I won't argue a point of morality on here? Nooooooooo...but it means that I am careful to state that where I am coming from when I do so is MY world. What I say lets people know that this is what I expect in my world and lets them know...if they are submissive...what works in my world and what does not. If that does not suit them, they are free to move on or engage me in conversation and either show me the error of my ways or become convinced of the error of theirs. I have both taught and learned from submissives/slaves. (I know...learning from submissives/slaves...what a concept, eh? Bit of sarcasm there) If they are other dominants, then they know where I am coming from and areas where we might have to agree to disagree but that does not stop us from engaging in conversation with each other and acting like the refined species we are supposed to be and discussing our differences rationally rather than choosing to label the other as fake.

daddyncherry -> RE: Is our life style disintegrating so fast that there is no hope? (1/26/2008 12:20:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IrishMist quote: ORIGINAL: daddyncherry D/s orgies? Where was our invite????? Now i'm all hurt, i'm gonna have to go eat worms. But would whoever is selling the mood rings pleeease let me know...i lost mine and now i have no idea what mood i'm in....and im so blonde and confused.[:)][:'(][:@][:D][:(][&:]...but im twue...so its okay if im confused You have an open invitation miss cherry [:)] Thank you thank you oh wonderful IM......does super happy-super sexy dance.....cause those worms were soooo not tasty

SunLord -> RE: Is our life style disintegrating so fast that there is no hope? (1/26/2008 4:26:21 PM)
I’m going to weigh in on this being a relative newbie to the scene (6months) and all apologies for any stumbling. Intially what I found was a lack of depth, many desiring to play dress-up or those motivated by the mighty dollar. As my perspective changed I realized the lack of depth is inherient in quite a few areas of life, liking dress-up is fine and far better than chucking hand grenades plus the mighty dollar with its pursuits are everywhere in this society. So now I get to define my relationship to the life and to my sweet love… now comes the tricky part…..quality information and teaching motivated in earnest appreciation of the art of BDSM. It is a quest but one that has to be undertaken if one desires to move beyond the superficial, to move beyond the over-ridng sexual drums beating in our souls. To the depths I desire to take her, it pleases me and thrills her. It’s not about gizmos and dressing up like Batman, it’s about the psychology that if ingrained and presented right is akin to whispers that strike like lightning. In the end we get to choose the level we’re at, deceide our position in the life if we are truly Masters of our destiny. To think and choose, not just react to the stimulus in front of us. Then we can dictate and provide proper guidance to those who desire to serve us. The canvas is blank and it can be many things. Scribblings, scrawlings, a crude collection of paint smears or it can be a Master piece. If you are in true control, is not the choice yours? SunLord

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