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RE: daddy - 1/25/2008 4:46:18 PM

TheLookingGirl

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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

Hey...no fair changing the title of the thread after I've responded.

Muhahaha! =D

I'll admit I was confused when I started reading this...because it made sense to me.

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/26/2008 1:16:53 PM

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My Dom sometimes refers to himself as Daddy. Just inthe fact that I am safe and he will listen to me. As for bod mod, we haven't gotten that far yet.

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/26/2008 1:27:53 PM

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I call him Daddy more than any other name. Age play is an occasional facet of our Daddy/lg relationship and it's mostly wrapped up in my slut deamenor. It works for us!

He doesn't like piercings. We have considered a tattoo but haven't gotten very far in making a real decision about it. I would not tattoo the words "Daddy's Little Girl," on my butt because I don't want to reveal that much info to my doctor or mortician.

I would rather get a tattoo of something symbolic for us and generic to the rest of the world.

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/26/2008 1:42:15 PM

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I went out on my own and got my nipples pierced, but I did it hoping that M would like it.
My tongue piercing was at his behest, he paid for it. I might have gotten it done at a later date, but at the time it was him asking me to do it, for him, and I said yes.
I've thought long and hard about tattoos and never found a pattern that I liked that held enough symbolism for me. I would very unlikely ever get text tattooed on my body at another's behest, definitely not a name or title.

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/26/2008 1:49:17 PM

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age play ... in the right time and the right head space .. i can get it ... but not for a way of life for me

few years back i was seriously involved with a Dominant, and we planned to get me tattooed ... we designed a very beautiful tattoo together with lots of discussion about size and design and location. We both loved it. Before we got it done however we split for other reasons ... i recently go the tattoo done .. using the design we created together because i STILL love it even though i no longer love him. Yes it reminds me of him to an extent .. but it reminds me of me more. before you mark your body forever ... make sure whatever you mark it with would be just as lovely to you when He has gone. If you dont think it will, my advice dont get it done or be prepared for some expensive, painful and often ineffective corrective surgery.

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/26/2008 2:04:10 PM

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I concur, which is why I'd be so unlikely to get text. I might get an image at someone else's behest but only if I enjoyed it as well. Thankfully, my partner feels the same way, and should he ever desire to see me tatooed he would make sure to pick something ~with~ me, and make it something I'd want whether he was around or not.

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/26/2008 2:13:52 PM

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bod mod:
I have a tatoo ( azure butterfly) above my left ankle, and my ears are both pierced twice, the left one has a 3rd hole that Tyson pierced and placed his permanent collar through.
I have dreams and fantasies of further markings, Tyson is reserved about it though..

Daddy/lilgirl relationships:
That is not our relationship dynamic. I do find it interesting to read about and hear about.

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/26/2008 2:27:46 PM

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I love ageplay, only I don't consider my self an age player persay, cause it's not play to me, it's a very real and prominant part of my personality to be child like. I call it emotionally real inner child, for me personally.

I love calling my Dominant Daddy, it's 90 percent the only thing I address him as, unless we're around his family or co workers. Which is very rare. Body modifications are a hard limit. I have no desire and no interest in being pierced or tattoo'd.

quote:

subs feel about calling their master (male doms, that is) Daddy??? And also... how do you feel about body modification??

I was just wondering how subs feel about calling their master (male doms, that is) Daddy??? And also... how do you feel about body modification??

So... after all that explaining... i guess my question is... how do people feel about age play?? About calling your master "Daddy"??

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/26/2008 2:38:17 PM

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I call my Father Daddy so I dont feel comfortable calling a partner that...I will use papa instead...

Body mod..Im all for what ever goes at the time...except maybe losing a limb or an eye.

..and ear with be ok...but then I wouldnt be able to hear my (Master/Dom/ Play partner of the moment)...very well then would I...LOLPamela

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/26/2008 3:27:18 PM

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On Calling your Dom "Daddy"-No...just not for me personally.
On body mod- Make sure it's what you really want then go for it.

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/26/2008 4:38:47 PM

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The "daddy" thing - mmmno. I'm glad this isn't something my pet goes for (then again, you don't really hear about daddy/little boy dynamics much, do you?) because it'd weird me out. And not just because he's two years older

Body mods - Love em. I would absolutely love to see my pet with some kind of permanent mark, a piercing or tattoo with some significance to us. The idea of matching or similar ones is also appealing. I am wary about it, though, just because it -is- permanent and life can take unexpected turns.

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/26/2008 5:09:47 PM

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This OP is kind of all over the place, but I'll throw in my two cents...

I have a Daddy, and we do not participate in age play. It's just not our thing. Last year for my birthday He had my nipples pierced, but it was more of a gift than some sort of symbolism. I really wanted them done for a long time, and He purchased the service.

As far as a tattoo is concerned, well, I have plans to get one marking our relationship because of its importance. I really don't like text, so it will likely be a symbol that means something to the both of us...it also has to be something that has significance to me, as an individual. I never want to regret any of my ink, so this tattoo will be in keeping with me as an individual and a mark noting our relationship...hope all that makes sense...

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/26/2008 5:16:13 PM

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I'm not sure the tattoo is a great idea. You're 20 years old. What if things change and you split up?

Anyway, how is it going to remind you of who you are? It's on your bum. Unless you can get into some pretty amazing positions to see it. In which case, carry on

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/26/2008 7:50:17 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: softness
few years back i was seriously involved with a Dominant, and we planned to get me tattooed ... we designed a very beautiful tattoo together with lots of discussion about size and design and location. We both loved it. Before we got it done however we split for other reasons ... i recently go the tattoo done .. using the design we created together because i STILL love it even though i no longer love him. Yes it reminds me of him to an extent .. but it reminds me of me more. before you mark your body forever ... make sure whatever you mark it with would be just as lovely to you when He has gone. If you dont think it will, my advice dont get it done or be prepared for some expensive, painful and often ineffective corrective surgery.

you know...that made me think a bit. i have a very meaningful-to-me tattoo on my left breast, right above my heart. its a stag's head with the phases of the moon over it. it was drawn up by a man who once meant a lot to me....unfortunately his wife had a conniption that he was speaking to me online, and after he told her i'd gotten the tat, he was not allowed to speak to me again, or get it inked on himself. silliness.

it doesnt make me think of him much, he made his bed and lies in it unhappily...it makes me happy though. and just as the design Daddy draws up would make me happy to have inked, that would make me happy too, and would be one more reminder that i belong to him....or as i generally sign my emails to him "yours, heart mind body and soul".

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/26/2008 11:33:36 PM

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I call my Dom "Daddy," and almost always have. He was known to so many as "Big Daddy" and He referred to Himself as such, so it just caught on. I call Him that most of the time, but we are not into age play at all. He is only a year older than me, but He is protective and corrective of me, so the dynamic is there.

As for body mods, I have 4 tattoos, all of which, I have created myself. The tattoo of handcuffs on my shoulder was to cover up the intertwined wedding bands that I had put on me to represent the relationship with my (now) ex-husband. The handcuffs were my decision and Daddy knew nothing of it. When my ex-hub saw it, he freaked and asked what I had done. I told him that being married to him was like serving a life sentence, so why not put it in ink? He was pissed, but Daddy loved it. He also knew that I had gotten this design bc it meant that we were travelling down this road together.

I'd just make really good and sure it's something that you don't end up regretting later.

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/29/2008 5:23:49 PM

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I really do appreciate all the feedback that i have gotten from you guys!!! I know my own opinions... and Master's, but it's nice to hear lots of different views. I have always been into body modification, and with every tattoo and piercing that i get, i love my body even more. I have vowed to myself to never get someones name tattooed on me, and i will hold that vow. I find it tacky, and it can cause issues later in life if you decide you dont feel for that person anymore. With my previous piercings and tats, i have thought very long and hard about them ahead of time... i dont do something on the spur of the moment. Also, Master has promised me that he will not permanently do anything to my body unless i am also absolutely sure that i will want it forever. Both of us know that those things are permanent, and that no relationship is perfect. But, we do love each other enough to make a huge commitment to one another, and i love the fact that he also loves body modification, and that he wants to see me get more of it. So we'll play it by ear.

As for those who have warned against finding a tat/piercing artist that is trustworthy.... i feel the same way. I am SUPER picky about who i let permanently mark my body, and i have an artist that i know and trust very much. She has many years of experience, and i researched her work ahead of time. So, im safe. Also, i have been researching the clitoral hood piercing for years... from both the medical and appearance aspects.

The age play issue... like i explained, the Daddy/daughter role just fits for us. Without even thinking about it... ill just call him Daddy in normal conversation. I know that its not for everyone... but to each his own. Thanks again for all of your responses, i really do appreciate the feedback!!!

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/29/2008 7:31:09 PM

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The "Daddy" thing... no. NO WAY. I only call one person Daddy... and that is my PaPa, my Father, my pal and my friend... the only one. I have known too many friends whose fathers had them "do things" and call them Daddy... nope.

Now the tattoo... yeah! I only ever had one tattoo and swore I would never do another one because my skin rejected the ink... (OH BAD!) but If I were to consult with someone professionally I understand I could have another tattoo, sterilize the ink... etc... and I would want one that my Dom wished of me... It would have to be someone I am to be with on a "life together" level though, marriage, or some permanent thing... I would be willing to do this...

now piercing... natachance. I have my ears pierced. I love my Vanilla Piercings. Thank You Very Much. My clit has better things to have done to it... I am a "firm" believer of this.

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/30/2008 2:20:06 AM

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Hello to everyone.

I like the idea to put owner marks in the slave body but as everything is under consensus with her. Tatoos and piercings are good marks, to brand is better and more meaningful for me and precisely for that reason must be a better thinking idea. I will never transform the body of my slave in a collection of piercings or tatoos, I think two or three of them are in off. For the beginers and unsure there are water tatoos anyway.

The Dady/daughter play don't like me really because I can't see to my slave as daughter or little princess, the age no matter, the sex will be an important part of our relationship and precisely for that I can't see at my slave as daughter, I can see her as slave, as pupil, as girlfriend, as maid, as lover, but never as a daughter. For the same reason I would feel uncomfrtable if she call me "daddy", I prefer to be called Master, Lord, Sir, or any other title but never "daddy".

But if someone enjoy it, well, just enjoy it ;)

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/30/2008 2:57:34 AM

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I enjoy my tatoos and have my next two already planned and if I had been with him when I had them done I would have had his initials worked into the flames discreetly and I would not have regretted it but as we are no more it will not happen ... I would not agree to a permanent marking that was blatant unless we had been together for a hell of a long time and I could see us old together ... just my two cents worth

As for the daddy thing ... I am not into age play as such but there is a lot of child like characterists in my makeup and I find a certain amt of the Daddy Dom brings feelings of security and safety .. comfort ... but it takes trust and lots of it for someone to be given that title by me ... it may never happen again.

all the best to you

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RE: daddy/body mod - 1/30/2008 7:00:09 AM

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My sub got her nipples pierced at my request. There was a long healing time with no play which wasn't fun .One of the piercings did start migrating and therefore she was left with one but likes it very much. Probably was more a symbol of our relationship rather than a dom/sub thing.

Not crazy about tats or daddy, though I do get an occasional old fart.

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