married 3 years and frustrated! in my marriage. I DID

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bella320 -> married 3 years and frustrated! in my marriage. I DID (1/25/2008 11:33:46 PM)
[sm=whap.gif] I'm 28 and pretty frustrated w/ everything in my marriage. I DID marry a Dom, or at least someone who was dominant. The problem is we have completely different fetishes. ZHe likes to tie me up, but when he gives me a spanking, its more as he's doing it because its what I want, rather than a true spanking. We had talked about discipline early on, but I think it's always secretly turned him off. And I've come to accept that he's never going to have it in him to give me what I really need. Anybody have any ideas.

BikerDom4 -> RE: married 3 years and frustrated! in my marriage. I DID (1/26/2008 4:00:29 AM)
Talk to him and tell him how you feel.....communication is the key ...ask him how he feels and tell him how you feel... do not give up at the first hurdle.. k :)

subheart07 -> RE: married 3 years and frustrated! in my marriage. I DID (1/26/2008 4:06:21 AM)
Yes, talk, life is to short to be stuck in a bad marriage.

piperpilot -> RE: married 3 years and frustrated! in my marriage. I DID (1/26/2008 4:14:00 AM)
Life is too short. You need to talk with him and if he cannot provide you with the punishment you need, bring another into the scene. Another Master that will work with one or both of you. You have needs that must be met or you will both end up miserable. I would be happy to chat with you or him if you like, I am sirflagulate on alt.com or piperpilot on collarme. Best of luck, Master Robert

OldBastardly1 -> RE: married 3 years and frustrated! in my marriage. I DID (1/26/2008 6:47:46 AM)
Talk....or contact Me. [sm=banana.gif]

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