LuckyAlbatross -> RE: slave rights vs subs 2 (1/27/2008 4:59:36 PM)
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Sounds like issues of commitment- your issue has nothing to do with flirting with other girls, and all about making commitments they honestly want to hold to. I'll also add that this isn't necessarily an Ms issue. I can and do ask for my partners cellphone all the time, to look up a number or check something else on his phone. There's no problem at all. He can and does do the same on mine. We're not Ms with eachother. "lack of privacy" isn't some great sign of slavery, it's just one piece that some people enjoy and some don't. When I talked to my partner on the phone in front of my sister she said "Jeez, you're like a stalker, why don't you ask about his bathroom schedule?" and I replied "Well I already know that." and she was minorly disgusted while my partner and I laughed- it's just something we share and know about eachother. My manner of thinking is why WOULDN'T you want to know about that when it's someone you love and live with? So again, this issue has nothing to do with Ms, or even really privacy or rights- it's about working together in a cohesive relationship with everyone working towards the security and betterment of the commitment involved.
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