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CasaDeLaWookie -> Service scene ideas (1/27/2008 7:51:59 PM)
I would like to hear some ideas on different service scenes, and would like to draw on the wealth of knowledge from the community! So much of the lifestyle seems to filled with the concept of the Dom/Top doing "things" to the sub/bottom, but something that seems lacking (at least in my relationship) is ways that the scene can be done in such a way where service was done to or for his/her Dom/Top. One idea here I had was something that my grrl and I recently did was before a party, we took a bath where my grrl bathed me, washed my hair, dried me, and dressed me. This was a fantastic way to start the evening, and she REALLY liked it. However, to be completely honest, I've never had any sub or bottom express any ideas on ways that they would LIKE to serve me. I know a lot of folks really get all freaked out about the idea of the subbie expressing desires or wants, or that such a scene would somehow infringe upon the Dom/Tops aura of command and control. So, for a moment, let's just say these are ideas where you could tell a Dom things that you have been commanded or asked to do, in addition to maybe something you thought you'd enjoy or that you know that they did enjoy. I mean, while I LIKE that my grrl will occasionally do the dishes, vacuum, laundry, pay a bill, run an errand, or whatever... I wouldn't exactly call that a scene now. Maybe others would, but that's just not what excites ME about being served. I could really use the perspective here from the other end of the relationship, so would like to hear some honest and good feedback here on ideas for scenes. I would love to heard form others and see what help others may have to offer here. Thank-you! [:)]

Archer -> RE: Service scene ideas (1/27/2008 9:16:00 PM)
Plenty of services that can be done. Think of your day from start to finish. Wake up service, what time do you need her to wake you? What clothing would you like laid out for you? Bathing you have already Shaving? Breakfast? Driver to work? Pick Up from work Clothing laid out for evening Reading material set out (or maybe even read aloud to you) Meals always have service potential (why else would their be so many waiteresses and waiters?) Dressing and undressing always a potential for hotness as well as service

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Service scene ideas (1/27/2008 10:05:45 PM)
Your girl was very cute and told awesome stories on Friday :) I honestly think it's only someone insecure who really worries that "OMG my sub is doing something FOR/TO me, this is ALL WRONG!" It really depends on whether you simply live together and service is an expected thing, or whether you only see eachother on visits and service can be a special time you share together. If it's an expected thing, it will take a bit more conscious effort and preparation to make cooking dinner into something special and a "scene." Otherwise- anything can be service, and anything can be a scene.

Bound2One -> RE: Service scene ideas (1/27/2008 11:03:30 PM)
It does depend on what sort of service you would like to be performed on you. My Master had a very stressful, crazy week, so when we met yesterday I treated him to a 'lingam' massage (see below link). It's a form of tantra and he found it both enjoyable and relaxing. I love, as his slave, to be able to serve him in such a way that is beneficial to his overall health and peace of mind. I also gave him with a foot rub/massage. http://www.whitelotuseast.com/LingamMassage.htm ...

CasaDeLaWookie -> RE: Service scene ideas (1/27/2008 11:34:32 PM)
These ideas are a WONDERFUL start, thank-you for that feedback. I look forward to hearing from others on their ideas. I especially like the ideas of foot massage (we do this already, so I _should_ have thought to mention that) and reading aloud to me. The idea of the lingam massage is an interesting one, and may need to be considered indeed. And yes Lucky Albatross, she is very cute and oh does she ever love to talk and be the center of attention and tell stories. I can only dread what she's been spreading around about me... lies and half truths to be sure! LOL Well, unless it's good things. Heh. I also agree that any dom who has a lot of problems with being served like this by their grrl (or boy) who is threatened by it, likely has serious issues with self confidence at least... something I'm seldom accused of. LOL Again, thank-you for the feedback thus far, this is exactly the sort of thing I was hoping to hear about! I should also say tho, that I would welcome ideas also that need not be something which my grrl would HAVE to do TO me. Things like massage are certainly terrific ones, and I could certainly turn that into a scene (instead of just a massage after a long day working on the acerage) but even ideas where it's something being done for (like reading aloud, that's a great idea!) and not to is terrific! [:)]

Bound2One -> RE: Service scene ideas (1/28/2008 12:06:11 AM)
I love the idea of her reading to you. It depends on your interests and her talents. Can she dance and perform for you? Perhaps in a way to entice you? How about more house-related chores - like being sure your bed is made with fresh, beautiful sheets turned down for you at night, so that when you're ready to take her to bed everything is prepared for you. She could wash your car/truck for you in a cute skimpy outfit, having it ready for inspection when you come in from work. That gets your vehicle clean and the start of a scene... especially if she misses a spot! [;)]

Elegant -> RE: Service scene ideas (1/28/2008 5:46:53 AM)
I give pedicures to Master Archer but since I hate toes I guess this could be a humiliation scene. grin Does a female in business attire make you hot? Have her dress up in subtle but sexy business outfit as she checks your email, pys the bills...take dictation...etc.

kyraofMists -> RE: Service scene ideas (1/28/2008 6:04:28 AM)
My entire day is spent being of service to him. As far as ideas for a scene... Full body massage Manicure and pedicure with a foot bath Washing your feet and foot worship Boot blacking Shampoo with scalp massage and hair cut Shaving with a straight razor Some of these things require certain skills and learning them could be part of the service as well. Knight's Kyra

proudsub -> RE: Service scene ideas (1/28/2008 2:59:43 PM)
I've never thought of service as a scene, but i suppose it could be if the chores were done naked or in fetish wear.[:)] I'm another one who is in His service all day long making life as easy as possible for Him.

fairerthanshe -> RE: Service scene ideas (1/28/2008 3:11:02 PM)
Greetings, Service is something I deeply enjoy and whether its folding clothes or giving pedicures its for him, so I get the same sort of pleasure from both, just in varying levels of intensity. Senor Jaime does like his pedicures and to be dressed. He has only recently been allowing me to brush out his mane. Each of those does have that sense of immersion, if you will, that exchange of emotion, silent though it may be. Backrubs and massages in the mornings are also very special and intimate. One thing, and it seems so simple, when we watch TV, he likes for me to lie with my head in his lap and every once in a while, he will bring his hand over my mouth for a combination of breath play and kisses. It's a tiny gesture which evokes a great connection and powerful emotions (on my end at least). well wishes and hope to see you again soon ~ fairer than she

CasaDeLaWookie -> RE: Service scene ideas (1/28/2008 3:17:28 PM)
I think that's a lot easier when your in some sort of live in or 24/7 situation... but with my situation she comes and visits. Sometimes for a night, sometimes a weekend, but it's a short duration, high intensity, time together. For someting like doing dishes (or vaccuum, or other home chores) while nakkid, fish clothes, chastity belt (for the boys) and the like is fun, and does allow the activity to become more erotic than it would be otherwise, my hope was to find ideas for scenes (activities, what have you) which were a bit more outside of the perhaps run of the mill stuff which I can do myself just as easily before or after she's here. I mean, I more than capable of doing my own dishes... lol, so things like the massage (foot, body, lingam), reading alound, bathing, meal service... where it's something that they can do for or to me which I can either not do myself or that is someting I would find very pleasurable is what I'm after. The wife handles the vast bulk of the chores, and I certianly do my share as "husband", but when we bring home a grrl, I don't need her to do dusting or something like that. That's not going to be something I would find erotic. I can hire a maid to do those things if it's something the wife and I really didn't want to do. I'm just trying to figure out ways of enhancing our time together but in an area where it's not something which involves me doing something to her. Hopefully that makes sence... LOL

CasaDeLaWookie -> RE: Service scene ideas (1/28/2008 3:25:17 PM)
We did recently discuss a pedicure, tho only because she found one of my toenails too long... lol It's certainly a good idea tho. I love it when we are watching a movie in bed, as she lays head toward the TV, and I lay feet toward... so I'll toss her the massage oil and tell her to make herself useful. Luckily she was over a few weeks ago during some Physical Therapy for me, and she got to learn a few techniques for doing feet and neck that should be very helpful and relaxing. Glad to see others are getting their feet rubs on as well. [:D]

NorthernGent -> RE: Service scene ideas (1/28/2008 4:32:28 PM)
It's all a matter of personal taste. I have no desire for someone to clean, tidy, do the washing etc; it's my home and they're my clothes, so I want to manage them as I see fit. Plus, I'm very independent, so I trust myself do a better job. Now, I'm an average cook, but I love food and wine. When I eat, I don't want to be messing around with ordering or pouring wine. Whether eating at home or in a restaurant, I expect to be served, and I don't expect to have to ask for my wine to be poured or have to repeat how I like my food cooked - I expect it to be second nature. If you like food and wine, have her cook for you and have her pour your wine. Think of her as a geisha girl, she's there to converse and tend to your food and wine needs.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Service scene ideas (1/28/2008 9:25:17 PM)
A suggestion is something I love doing with my partner- go shoe shopping. Have him go fetch shoes I like, some he likes, have him kneel and put them on me, then I model them around, and repeat. Easily modified if you don't want to be the one modeling :) Trust me, no one hardly notices, and if they do, all they see is a couple smiling and laughing with eachother while trying on shoes.

parttimehotty -> RE: Service scene ideas (1/29/2008 10:10:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CasaDeLaWookie I would like to hear some ideas on different service scenes, and would like to draw on the wealth of knowledge from the community! So much of the lifestyle seems to filled with the concept of the Dom/Top doing "things" to the sub/bottom, but something that seems lacking (at least in my relationship) is ways that the scene can be done in such a way where service was done to or for his/her Dom/Top. One idea here I had was something that my grrl and I recently did was before a party, we took a bath where my grrl bathed me, washed my hair, dried me, and dressed me. This was a fantastic way to start the evening, and she REALLY liked it. However, to be completely honest, I've never had any sub or bottom express any ideas on ways that they would LIKE to serve me. I know a lot of folks really get all freaked out about the idea of the subbie expressing desires or wants, or that such a scene would somehow infringe upon the Dom/Tops aura of command and control. So, for a moment, let's just say these are ideas where you could tell a Dom things that you have been commanded or asked to do, in addition to maybe something you thought you'd enjoy or that you know that they did enjoy. I mean, while I LIKE that my grrl will occasionally do the dishes, vacuum, laundry, pay a bill, run an errand, or whatever... I wouldn't exactly call that a scene now. Maybe others would, but that's just not what excites ME about being served. I could really use the perspective here from the other end of the relationship, so would like to hear some honest and good feedback here on ideas for scenes. I would love to heard form others and see what help others may have to offer here. Thank-you! [:)] If you take a look at my profile pics, the one w/the pig snout specifically, he had me dress up in that new gown/4 in heels topped off w/the pig snout. i served him dinner, drinks, kneeled at his feet while he used my hair as his napkin/of course the usual foot stool/table usage ;)

parttimehotty -> RE: Service scene ideas (1/29/2008 10:12:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CasaDeLaWookie These ideas are a WONDERFUL start, thank-you for that feedback. I look forward to hearing from others on their ideas. I especially like the ideas of foot massage (we do this already, so I _should_ have thought to mention that) and reading aloud to me. The idea of the lingam massage is an interesting one, and may need to be considered indeed. And yes Lucky Albatross, she is very cute and oh does she ever love to talk and be the center of attention and tell stories. I can only dread what she's been spreading around about me... lies and half truths to be sure! LOL Well, unless it's good things. Heh. I also agree that any dom who has a lot of problems with being served like this by their grrl (or boy) who is threatened by it, likely has serious issues with self confidence at least... something I'm seldom accused of. LOL Again, thank-you for the feedback thus far, this is exactly the sort of thing I was hoping to hear about! I should also say tho, that I would welcome ideas also that need not be something which my grrl would HAVE to do TO me. Things like massage are certainly terrific ones, and I could certainly turn that into a scene (instead of just a massage after a long day working on the acerage) but even ideas where it's something being done for (like reading aloud, that's a great idea!) and not to is terrific! [:)] If you like the foot massage, add a sanding ;) i did that once/made his feet nice & smooth. Sanded his feet down & then rubbed them w/peppermint foot cream. Very cool/relaxing for him.

greyangelus -> RE: Service scene ideas (1/29/2008 11:02:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross A suggestion is something I love doing with my partner- go shoe shopping. Have him go fetch shoes I like, some he likes, have him kneel and put them on me, then I model them around, and repeat. Easily modified if you don't want to be the one modeling :) Trust me, no one hardly notices, and if they do, all they see is a couple smiling and laughing with eachother while trying on shoes. Hmm, must steal this idea. I could see us doing this for hours [:D]. (Oh, please BDSM hedonists gods, let me end up with a woman whos tastes mirror mine when it comes to this).

CasaDeLaWookie -> RE: Service scene ideas (1/30/2008 8:09:36 AM)
This idea of shoe shopping wouild be an enormous reward for her, and an abject torture for me... so I think I'll pass on that one, but can certainly see how others would enjoy it. I drive the wife NUTS with opinions on shoes which seem to have either of two possible ratings: a) I hate them b) Don't care When "Don't care" is the best possible rating, it's a rather large let down for someone who's REALLY into playing dress-up... try as I might, I've just NEVER been able to get the shoe thing. If others enjoy it, terrific, but it's just not _my_ thing.

Owner4SexSlave -> RE: Service scene ideas (1/30/2008 8:48:54 AM)
The whole bathing scene you shared with us is great. I assume you are looking for one on one things to do, where your sub is of service. How about somebody who assists you with your wardrobe? Ok, going with you on a shopping trip. Have her pick out some things that would make you look good, if she selects something you hate, you can say, not for me. She basically gets to learn your taste in clothing (a little field training in the store), and you get to learn about her personal tastes in clothing. She can hold onto things for you, or organize things for you to try on, plus she can always return the items back to the racks and etc.. for you. Who knows, you might even be able to get wild in some dressing room along the way. There are many ways to expand this one activitity to include other activities at the same time. You could have her dressed up really slutty or sleazy. You know that whole thing about attracting attention from other people, getting the looks and reactions. Hell, you could even go into the stores in high level protocal. With her addressing you as Master and blah blah blah.. basically pulling it off as if she was your servant or slave. The whole showing off of your property bit can go on here. You could even hit up stores looking for sexy or wild things you want to pick out for her to wear as well. You could make her show off her body in various poses to total strangers as well. Hell, all kinds of things to do at a place like a Mall. Here's another twisted thing, you could attented an Adult Swing club together, were she services you in front of other people. Nobody else involved. But you get to show off the whole Power Exchange thing in front of other people. However, not a place to be dragging in floggers and whips and chains. Have her be your personal erotic dancer at home for the night, is another idea. Hell, you could even go out to a strip club for the night and have her get up on stage (some places allow it). You could go to a strip club and have her go up to the bar for getting drinks and all. Basically, have her be your personal waitress. Sort of replacement for the club waitress. Hell, you can even do this at a bar/night club not just a strip club. Personal massages, always great! I have a think for temp body art, and love to be drawn on. So, that's a service I enjoy and love. Think of the many things people hire other people to do. Personal assistents, Home Organizers, Interior Decorating and blah blah blah. Yes, give you sub/slave an assignment to come up with a couple of ideas for redoing the decor in a room in a house. Where she gets to make a presentation to you regarding the changes and her ideas. You get to select which one you like best, or say, nah.. I don't like those... express what you do or don't like about her ideas. Have her go back an revise the ideas or come up with new ones. This may give her added sense of value and usefulness as a sub/slave. Plus, it allows her to explore her creative sides. Helps them grow as a person and all. Many of these thoughts all depend upon the relationship dynamic and limits and personalities involved in a relationship.

kyraofMists -> RE: Service scene ideas (1/30/2008 8:51:01 AM)
In his new dungeon, he has set up a reclining chair. Next to it is a small end table and then the cage he built. He can sit in the chair and look into the cage. I have written about different plays we have done in the cage before and for me it is a very comforting place to be. One of my other favorite services for him is to read to him. We have only done this when we have been apart over the phone. However, I would love to be locked in the cage and read to him while he relaxes in his chair. Knight's Kyra

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