MaamJay
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I find Myself agreeing with those who say it was an unreasonable expectation doomed to failure ... those darned things have a mind of their own and steal the blood from the brain to think with ... as soon as the main brain recalls some blood in order to process some other sensations ... well, it was just the Almighty's cruelty to give men 2 things that need blood to work and only enough blood to supply one at a time! While I also agree that setting someone up to fail can be relationship-damaging ... that is only the case IF there is no debriefing and explanation that it was just a game! And that the Mistress enjoyed it all very much! That's where this One made a bit of a boo-boo in My opinion, during the aftercare and debriefing, that should have been cleared up so that ATP could have a good chuckle and feel reassured.
I have played in much the same way and it IS fun to see them try to keep it up ... and fun to tease a bit ... but I am not into humiliation scenes so I reassure them that it's really OK and I have ways of encouraging it back out of hiding  Works for Me!
Maam Jay aka violet[A]
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Life is a song ... and I love singing it! (By me!)
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RE: Maintaining it through the pain - 
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