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SubMelb29 -> Live in situations (1/28/2008 1:06:28 AM)

As a Mistress what would it take for you to consider a live in situation with a Slave/Playmate?

I am due to aquire a two or three bedroom place soon and would like some oppinions and ideas please.




Lashra -> RE: Live in situations (1/28/2008 5:12:02 AM)

I could live with my sub after we discussed all the financial matters and set up a house bank account which we both would contribute to so that the bills got paid on time (I would handle them) I would have specific duties set up for him such as cleaning chores, yard work and the like. I would love to have my own dungeon setup so that we could play whenever we wanted too and sound proofed so that my teen couldn't hear what was going on.

~Lashra




thetammyjo -> RE: Live in situations (1/28/2008 5:18:15 AM)

Before making sure that spacewise anyone added to the household has some private space, usually their own bedroom, I have to make sure we are on the same page about what ownership means, what service means, and am otherwise compatible all around.

I can't imagine doing that sooner than six months for a trial live-in of a couple of months and at least another year beyond that before the move would be year round.

I personally would not move into a slave's house. They move into mine/ours. For me it's part of maintaining the authority dynamic.

Now after 8 years together the next house my slave will also put money into the down payment and be listed on the mortgage but I figure that Fox has earned that with his proven loyalty and commitment to me and to the entire family. We'll see a lawyer about mundane matters and probably reaffirm and revise our contract as well to help limit any effects this might have on the Ds side of things.




SubMelb29 -> RE: Live in situations (1/29/2008 2:22:02 AM)

Thank you both for your feedback, you have both given me some food for thought




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