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ItzKat -> Fighting back (9/2/2005 9:56:06 AM)
Just out of curiosity, how many of you subbies like to fight back now and then? Personally, I love it. I love to feel my struggles against him. I like to tire myself out resisting. I like that moment when I can't fight anymore. Going through that helps me get to the right place mentally. But in talking with others, it doesn't seem like many others out there like to fight back. Kat

OsideGirl -> RE: Fighting back (9/2/2005 10:11:39 AM)
Yup. Master is an ex-linebacker. 6' 2", 240lbs, very little body fat and fantastic strength. We play kinda rough sometimes where I'll end up pinned down and struggle. It's so much fun to feel his strength.

MissTy -> RE: Fighting back (9/2/2005 10:33:50 AM)
Oh yeah I love to feel that the man is so much stronger than me. THats a lovely corset btw ItzKat.... Wish I had one like that... Hmmmm... [;)]

plantlady64 -> RE: Fighting back (9/2/2005 10:50:58 AM)
Hello There, Sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. One of the Mentors, other than my Master, I play with loves to wrestle. Not only have we wrestled, but I've won both matches. Of course we didn't play the traditional game but rather the first was a contest of He or she that could spank the other the most in ten minutes wins. The second was He or she who could get the others clothing off first won. My prize for winning both matches was a full body deep massage in the dungeon by this Dom. I was in hog heaven to be pampered so in public. Usually when this friend of mine and I play he likes me to physically fight back. It turns us on greatly. But I still do what he requests of me in scenes to the letter out of respect and do not fight back verbally or mentally challenge him. With my Master I limitedly do things like block him when he tickles me, and I'm allowed to tweak his nipples at home in private. I even got to give him a pink belly one day when we were wrestling with his kids in the living room floor. When in public I would not block him from anything, pinch or smack anything, not even playfully out of respect for him though. I have another friend that only permits my opinion when requested, and wants me to stay still and quiet as possible to please him during scenes, and another who really wants to see me wiggle around, make noises, and give feedback during the scene. I think it depends on the kink of the Dom/sub relationship as far as being seen as resistance or as being sexy and not considered topping. It's level of acceptance in scenes would vary greatly from relationship to relationship in my opinion. Sincerely, sub suzanne

ItzKat -> RE: Fighting back (9/2/2005 10:59:24 AM)
quote: THats a lovely corset btw ItzKat.... Wish I had one like that... Hmmmm... Well, thank you. It is one of my favorites. It has these 4 lovely D rings along the bottom, two in front and two in back, that my Master just loves to add fun and interesting ropes too. Yummy.

littleone35 -> RE: Fighting back (9/2/2005 11:43:34 AM)
it depended on my ;late Masters mood sometimes he like me to rum so hr could chase me he usually ended up getting my long hair. Other time he just like me to be quiet and still not passive but still (well he knoe i can never be quiet). littleone

quietlilone -> RE: Fighting back (9/2/2005 1:08:12 PM)
I enjoy a good struggle every now and again, but only when it is accepted. It gets the blood going, the skin warm, and the excitment flowing. I am not the type that would struggle just to fight back for my own pleasure though, that would probably get me into to more trouble then anything else, or at least it has in the past. But if it is agreed upon before hand...mmmmmmmm wink

Nuke718 -> RE: Fighting back (9/2/2005 3:00:48 PM)
Thank you for the iside info ladies, and for the record when I Dom I like a littel struggle. When I sub it's another matter. I am a big guy, and while not a weightlifter or athelete most of the Dommes I have spent time with would be unable to subdue me in the traditional sense. So to make up for that lack of fighting, I do usually strain against any bondage. I am clear about that up front. I will twist and wiggle and pull, whatever I can. Of course, in non-bondage scenes her control needs to be more mental and I don't fight a bit. Just a liitle from the guys side... Nuke }:-

EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: Fighting back (9/2/2005 3:42:07 PM)
I love resistance/force/non consensual consent/wrestling play. I just have to ask permission from the Owner first if it's him and I.

Dracironsgirl -> RE: Fighting back (9/2/2005 3:51:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2 I love resistance/force/non consensual consent/wrestling play. I just have to ask permission from the Owner first if it's him and I. oh so do i soooo yummy

kyraofMists -> RE: Fighting back (9/2/2005 3:52:40 PM)
my Lord enjoys what He calls primal play; He likes to push His bottoms and encourages us to react in whatever manner that we wish. These times generally end up being the ones that He recalls the most. The first time He played with me in the cage, I grabbed His flogger and ripped falls off of it; I attempted to snatch the crop out of His hand (don't know what I would have done if I had been successful!) and while He was stalking around the cage I tried to grab Him by the balls but my hands were restrained so I didn't have much of a reach and He stayed just out of it. Other times I have slapped Him in the face. There was no thought in that one, He did something and I just reacted. Afterwards the thought, "oh shit!!! What did I just do?" I believe His reaction was one of disbelief and then laughter. I have punched Him; that got laughter too since He says I hit like a girl. I have also pulled hair (He is still whining over that one), scratched, bit... In play anything is fair game for my Lord. One of my fantasies is an aggressive fight/rape scene where both of us are bloody in the end. I am sure that will happen one day. Knight's kyra

Tempestspet -> RE: Fighting back (9/2/2005 3:58:55 PM)
I love to struggle, wrestle. I'm pretty playful. Master likes it most of the time. Then other times.... well I pretty much know when he isn't having it. Tempest's pet jennifer

LeatherRose -> RE: Fighting back (9/2/2005 5:23:39 PM)
I am Domme, but I will bottom for my husband. We absolutely love to do resistance/rape play. He loves going primal, I like giving a good fight. And I do mean fight! I don't submit, it has to be taken from me forcefully. I will say though in my neck of the neighborhood we are the only ones that do it. Wondering if maybe it is a regional thing? Who knows. LeatherRose

mossy -> RE: Fighting back (9/3/2005 4:16:20 AM)
ItzKat...not me personally...but i scened with friends...and i never saw it myself, but the husband and wife both agreed, she struggled until she could no more, then she submitted.

Dracironsgirl -> RE: Fighting back (9/4/2005 5:14:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ItzKat Just out of curiosity, how many of you subbies like to fight back now and then? Personally, I love it. I love to feel my struggles against him. I like to tire myself out resisting. I like that moment when I can't fight anymore. Going through that helps me get to the right place mentally. But in talking with others, it doesn't seem like many others out there like to fight back. Kat i love to fight back every now and then too ....major turn on for me feeling His strength like that.

Fawne -> RE: Fighting back (9/4/2005 9:52:14 AM)
One thing I hated about vanilla was passive aggressive insecure guys who always wanted to "best" me. Like "nana- nanaa.. I am so a man, i can whup a girl" especially in anything physical. I dislike competition in relationships. I "play" wrestle, bite, goof around, try and escape sometimes; but I can't even imagine slapping, kicking or truly fighting with my Dom, or any Dom I would even consider being submissive to.

nonuts4thshoney -> RE: Fighting back (9/4/2005 9:04:26 PM)
i love it when Master forcefully pins me down because i don't keep my hands where i should. Every time she does this i struggle a little and then her grasp becomes alot firmer. i always try this and i think She knows i enjoy it so She doesnt get upset by it. [8D]

Hissweetshiv -> RE: Fighting back (9/5/2005 8:22:13 AM)
Grins BIG! I love it when Master and i have a force play scene! There's nothing quite like the feeling of giving everything you have into fighting Him off and losing. Of course, i consider it a win-win situation lol, so i don't really lose. But "making" Him use all His strength to subdue me is a big rush for both of us.

pandoravampire -> RE: Fighting back (9/5/2005 4:19:51 PM)
fighting back is deliscious and gets a huge thumbs up from me[8D] im feeling my way with my Sir for this right now. If its done with fun, it seems ok, if its viewed as being done in refusal of him, its suddenly not tolerated at all and the fun is over. Non consentual playing is not a comfortable place for him. Yet.

NakedOnMyChain -> RE: Fighting back (9/5/2005 11:59:56 PM)
Lots of times, the fight is half my enjoyment of a scene. It's an awesome thing to know that, regardless of how much I struggle, Master's going to have his way with me anyway. Then again, I've always enjoyed the play rape fantasy. It's wonderful to submit utterly, but it's just as fun to give him a run for his money.

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