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spanking = butt fetish? - 1/28/2008 4:27:39 PM

CintiDomGuy1

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Mistresses - do you find that spanking and butt fetishes are normally found in the same person? I like to spank - but I also like general butt play, face-sitting, etc and thought that probably many who like to spank like general "butt play". I have also found that although I DOM, I also like to orally please my female slaves through butt kissing/rimming. Not sure if this is a submissive act or just feeding my overall butt fetish - but in the end (pardon the pun) -who cares.

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RE: spanking = butt fetish? - 1/28/2008 10:20:15 PM

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ORIGINAL: CintiDomGuy1

Mistresses - do you find that spanking and butt fetishes are normally found in the same person? I like to spank - but I also like general butt play, face-sitting, etc and thought that probably many who like to spank like general "butt play". I have also found that although I DOM, I also like to orally please my female slaves through butt kissing/rimming. Not sure if this is a submissive act or just feeding my overall butt fetish - but in the end (pardon the pun) -who cares.

Thoughts?

I can't say that I have noticed a direct correlation, some of my boys like being spanked, but other than that butt play doesn't interest them, and some really like the idea of strapons, rimmin, queening, and spanking.

Personally I think its just personal preference

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RE: spanking = butt fetish? - 1/28/2008 10:31:17 PM

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I like being spanked, and quite frankly I like butts in general.

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RE: spanking = butt fetish? - 1/29/2008 1:23:16 AM

MistressFaye1

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CintiDomGuy,

I like big butts and I cannot lie! That song came to mind when I read the post.

Seriously... I applaud you for admitting you do what you do! I know a few Doms that would NEVER admit that and in their insecurity as "Master" would say it's pretty submissive. I say, what better way to have our fetish needs met, than to have a willing and obedient submissive/slave? I wouldn't quantify a correlation between the two or say one doesn't exist in the majority.

I will say this, I love spanking butts but I personally don't have a butt fetish per say, however a man's butt can be the thing that attracts me.

Turn around sweetie... *wink*

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RE: spanking = butt fetish? - 1/29/2008 5:30:24 AM

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I love butts, in fact when I am checking out a man/woman its one of the first things I look at.

My sub loves butts, I am talking ghetto booty! Which I have much to his delight. My ass is like a magnet for his lips, his tongue, his hands and he loves having his ass touched, bitten, spanked, groped etc. Is there a correlation? Hmm maybe, its hard to be sure, I really think its just another hot spot for some people.

As for rimming do I think its a submissive act? Nope, are you begging her to do it? I doubt it, more likely your doing it because YOU desire too which is one of the perks of being the Dom/me.

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RE: spanking = butt fetish? - 1/29/2008 2:18:22 PM

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Nothing better than face sitting a deserving slave girl. Sub ladies need to appreciate guys butts - up close. Its a dead-tie between spanking a deserving butt and having mine worshipped. If I do the kissing/licking it is because I feel like it - not because its a submissive act per se.

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