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newish to het and new to s/m - 1/29/2008 6:22:44 AM

ruthiexxxx

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hi, i'm ruthie and i'm very new to this scene. i'm also pretty new to heterosexuality after many years living in lesbian relationships.
as a Chaos Witch and High Priestess i am used to power [and from my profession], and the excitement of the possibility of giving up power is enormous!! i have now had several experiences of being Dommed on line and one [by an inexperienced Master] in reality. i enjoyed all incredibly much.
i'm told my role in s/m is 'subbie brat'....sounds about right!

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RE: newish to het and new to s/m - 1/29/2008 6:55:46 AM

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welcome to collarme

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RE: newish to het and new to s/m - 1/29/2008 8:49:08 AM

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Welcome ruthie.....I'm new here also and it seems to be a cool place so far.

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RE: newish to het and new to s/m - 1/29/2008 9:04:02 AM

ruthiexxxx

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thanks both of you for the lovely welcome! i joined the Dungeon a while ago and it was a great welcome there as well...............i just love the s/m community!! it's so warm and supportive
maybe talk again?
ruthie

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RE: newish to het and new to s/m - 1/29/2008 9:10:55 AM

CarrieO

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I'd love to talk....I'm very new to the whole scene and I was sent here by a Dom friend who is helping me to "find my way". He told me to talk with other subs to learn....so.....welcome ruthie and we can talk :)
However, self-disipline needs to come into play and I need to force myself back to work...(heavy sigh). Enjoy!

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RE: newish to het and new to s/m - 1/29/2008 10:11:56 AM

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As another new member welcome. And welcome to the wonderful world of Domination.

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RE: newish to het and new to s/m - 1/29/2008 2:44:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: ruthiexxxx
i'm told my role in s/m is 'subbie brat'....sounds about right!

Hello and welcome to the collarme forums. I hope you find friends and fun here and do not let to participate. Enjoy the forums. Well I have a question for you. I had seen the "brat" term in many profiles but I don't know what it means in the BDSM context. I know there are some dolls called "brats" and I understand than that word is used for fussy kids or something like that. So my question is: Can you explain me the meaning of the "brat" word in the BDSM context? Whan means to be a brat sub in this case?.

Thanks for your answer

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RE: newish to het and new to s/m - 1/30/2008 3:06:02 AM

ruthiexxxx

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what is a brat?! well in The Dungeon i was told that was the label appropriate for me. Yes there is a part of me that desperately needs to submit, and i am beginning to explore this. but i have always been, and in most of my life continue to be, VERY powerful and fully enjoy my power.
it is not easy for me to submit...i am used to others submitting to me...especially in my role of High Priestess.
so the submission is strong but can be resisted by that part of me which has NEVER before bowed my head. i can be proud to the point of arrogance...it is partly to mitigate this that i am exploring submission in the hope of becoming a more rounded person.
hope this explains 'subbie brat' Sir
ruthie

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RE: newish to het and new to s/m - 1/30/2008 3:30:39 AM

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welcome, having fun with the fonts?

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RE: newish to het and new to s/m - 2/18/2008 4:05:35 AM

ruthiexxxx

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yes, just love the fonts!
and i've discovered that i'm not just a sub or even a subbie brat but a switch! i have left my Dom [not strong enough to handle a bitch like me] and now have a slave and a subbie. life is sweet!

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RE: newish to het and new to s/m - 2/18/2008 10:03:45 AM

MASTERINARMS

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I hope u find what you seek. Do u find yourself able and willing to 'submit' to younger men?

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RE: newish to het and new to s/m - 2/21/2008 7:27:49 PM

ruthiexxxx

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oh i hope so Master in Arms!

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RE: newish to het and new to s/m - 2/21/2008 8:29:01 PM

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Greetings and salutations from Pa....Is an interesting site, great forums of all kinds....plenty to laugh about, get into heated discussions with, and even find likeminded souls.....all in all, CM is a good hotspot to be.....with those eyes of yours, im sure you will have no troubles at all......

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RE: newish to het and new to s/m - 2/21/2008 9:47:39 PM

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welcome, ruthie :)

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