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Dressed/Undressed - 1/29/2008 11:06:40 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		Many times my Master wants me naked whan he is fully dressed down to his shoes and scoks.  When i tease him and say why do i have to be naked when you are not?  His answer is simple you are the sub and i am not.  It does not really bother me i actually like it that he loves my body enough to want to see me naked.  He eventually joins me in shedding his clothes.  I guess it is a control thing.

My question should be obvious by now.  How many of you have Masters/ Mistresses that do this also?

Matt's littleone
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RE: Dressed/Undressed - 1/29/2008 11:20:37 AM   
childoftheshadow


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Status: offline 		Mine doesn't "demand" the I be naked, well, ever really, regardless of if he's dressed or not . . . but that's because he knows I have some serious body issues, and it would be emotionally damaging to force me to do that. He will prompt, and lead but never demand.


We were married for nearly a year before he saw me totally naked.

edited to add a little bit

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RE: Dressed/Undressed - 1/29/2008 11:31:35 AM   
OmegaG


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

Many times my Master wants me naked whan he is fully dressed down to his shoes and scoks.  When i tease him and say why do i have to be naked when you are not?  His answer is simple you are the sub and i am not.  It does not really bother me i actually like it that he loves my body enough to want to see me naked.  He eventually joins me in shedding his clothes.  I guess it is a control thing.

My question should be obvious by now.  How many of you have Masters/ Mistresses that do this also?

Matt's littleone


it's a preference not a demand, but right now, unless he wants to turn up the heat I will generally be wearing more clothes then him, by his request as he hates to see me shiver.

I generally have body issues but I'm more comfortable in my state of undress around him then I've been with anyone in years regardless of what he's wearing, and honestly, I like that he enjoys looking at me.

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RE: Dressed/Undressed - 1/29/2008 12:16:20 PM   
juliaoceania


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From: Somewhere Over the Rainbow
Status: offline 		I love being naked, he doesn't need to order me to be so, I cannot wait to shed my clothing and I am often in varying degrees of undress around his place. He is the same as me

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RE: Dressed/Undressed - 1/29/2008 12:24:16 PM   
meticulousgirl


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Status: offline 		i'm almost always undressed when with Him (assuming there is no 3rd party around).  It's done for the control and as a reminder of my place because He knows i hate being naked.

~meticulous~

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RE: Dressed/Undressed - 1/29/2008 12:28:18 PM   
Wildfleurs


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

Many times my Master wants me naked whan he is fully dressed down to his shoes and scoks.  When i tease him and say why do i have to be naked when you are not?  His answer is simple you are the sub and i am not.  It does not really bother me i actually like it that he loves my body enough to want to see me naked.  He eventually joins me in shedding his clothes.  I guess it is a control thing.

My question should be obvious by now.  How many of you have Masters/ Mistresses that do this also?

Matt's littleone


My owner rarely gets fully naked - and for the most part he tends to stay fairly clothed.  He's just not into getting naked and after having raised children he's used to always wearing a t-shirt and shorts at least.  I tend to always sit around naked, its just the way I feel comfortable and was that way before him.

C~


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RE: Dressed/Undressed - 1/29/2008 12:40:39 PM   
littlebitxxx


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Status: offline 		We are both pretty comfortable naked actually.  It's not a D/s thing with us, just the way it is.  However.....having said that.....and a BIG but!!......this is the frozen north and a whole bunch below zero (-40 something with wind chill) and naked is just not a real comfortable thing to be right now, not even indoors...lol.

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RE: Dressed/Undressed - 1/29/2008 12:47:19 PM   
tkenslve


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We are the total opposite, my Master tends to be in various stages of undress to nakedness more then i am. It focuses me in a different way, reminds me that i am there to serve Him and to not expect anything more then that (no sex, no caressing, etc.)

< Message edited by tkenslve -- 1/29/2008 12:55:27 PM >

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RE: Dressed/Undressed - 1/29/2008 1:22:36 PM   
schoenekitty


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From: Marina del Rey, CA
Status: offline 		My master wouldlike that I be naked but doesn't require it becaise he knows how much I hate my body and how terrible I find it to be naked- although I have a feeling he won't be so lenient for long 

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RE: Dressed/Undressed - 1/29/2008 1:34:19 PM   
1969slave


Posts: 40
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Status: offline 		i am kept naked in the house 24/7. this means their scene friends as well as carpet cleaners, repair men etc. for their vanilla friends i'm still left without panties or shoes.   it does get cold.   m

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RE: Dressed/Undressed - 1/29/2008 1:37:13 PM   
mbes


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Status: offline 		I get cold too easily. And mine doesn't like it when my hands or feet get cold, I tend to want to put them in warm places.
He does know he gets to see whatever he wants, whenever he wants. It would just take some of the fun out of gettin' nekkid, if I always was.

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RE: Dressed/Undressed - 1/29/2008 1:39:29 PM   
CalifChick


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quote:

ORIGINAL: 1969slave

i am kept naked in the house 24/7. this means their scene friends as well as carpet cleaners, repair men etc. for their vanilla friends i'm still left without panties or shoes.   it does get cold.   m


Involving others without their consent.  Sigh.

Cali


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RE: Dressed/Undressed - 1/29/2008 2:05:24 PM   
Vampyrefledgling


Posts: 91
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Status: offline 		My Master does prefer nudity on my part, at least partial. I definitely have some body issues, so it is a challenge for me to be naked consistently (especially when just watching tv or eating), but my desire to please is stronger than my dislike of my own nudity.

~Fledgling

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RE: Dressed/Undressed - 1/29/2008 2:05:34 PM   
suessub


Posts: 71
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Status: offline 		funny this question showed up today. Last night, since Mistress was busy, she locked me standing up downstairs, naked, and left me thus. After she was done, she released me and we spent the rest of the evening watching TV together. Me still naked, but at her feet, given them a nice rub. This morning she let me know she thought this was great. So, we will see if this is something new in our relationship.

Oh, if we are playing, then of course I am naked. She, not so much. It is winter and she hates the cold.

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RE: Dressed/Undressed - 1/29/2008 2:16:39 PM   
sambamanslilgirl


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From: Chicago, IL
Status: offline 		*raises hand*

this afternoon, i did with my SO and it was the most freeing and exciting experience for me.

i'm quite shy about my body however when he used the fuzzy cuffs and held my wrists above my head, i wasn't as nervous or shy that i originally thought i was. he had me blushing and giggling as he described every intimate detail of me.

*sighs*




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RE: Dressed/Undressed - 1/29/2008 2:22:29 PM   
Justme696


Posts: 3236
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From: Royal kingdom of the Netherlands
Status: offline 		I Love to see a nice curvy female body...to me she is art...can stare it for hours.
Hmmm and when I tell her to undress...well she has to obey. But she won't catch a cold :P


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RE: Dressed/Undressed - 1/29/2008 2:28:28 PM   
fullofgrace69


Posts: 99
Joined: 7/22/2006
Status: offline 		i have body issues, so hate being naked, im lucky the Doms ive been with seem to prefer having me in a corset and frilly pants to being naked, i think its cos of how much i tense up if naked, im naked during play but get to wear clothes the rest of the time which is good :)

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RE: Dressed/Undressed - 1/29/2008 2:34:34 PM   
Thorns82


Posts: 92
Joined: 9/7/2007
From: Los Angeles, CA
Status: offline 		I prefer being naked, but almost never wear more than a shirt (for warmth).  He frequently requests that I be naked for him and I am always happy to comply.

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RE: Dressed/Undressed - 1/29/2008 2:38:21 PM   
sambamanslilgirl


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From: Chicago, IL
Status: offline 		i discovered more about my curvy self today that i didn't know before  *smiles*

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RE: Dressed/Undressed - 1/29/2008 2:46:33 PM   
Justme696


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From: Royal kingdom of the Netherlands
Status: offline 		I would never make a female uncomfy..if she has body issues..I know how hard it is for ladies (from experience).  It is good as Owner to tell the one how you enjoy the body and carress it...then in time it will be eassier.

(at above posts in general)

< Message edited by Justme696 -- 1/29/2008 2:47:49 PM >

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