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AquaticSub -> RE: i think this is a new one... (1/29/2008 9:33:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ownedandcollared

so, i know a girl in my area...owned by a man i also know.

so, the funny part is, really, that the girl has started prostituting herself, without her Master's knowledge.

what would You do if You found out Your slave was whoring?


Unless it was something really dire, like "My Mom was sold into white slavery and if I told anyone they would kill her, I'm just trying to make the money to get her back" and it was actually true, I'd be out on my ass.




AquaticSub -> RE: i think this is a new one... (1/29/2008 9:34:23 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ownedandcollared

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ORIGINAL: SirMIkeSD

There are some things not worth fixing.


you would have obviously thought the slave was worth it if you took him/her to begin with.


Yeah... and sometimes people pick up pyrite thinking it's gold. Then they toss it back on the ground.




FRSguy -> RE: i think this is a new one... (1/31/2008 1:57:26 PM)

would definatly dump her.  I dont even think I would have anything to say to her other than bye.




MercTech -> RE: i think this is a new one... (1/31/2008 1:58:42 PM)

I have to wonder why she is whoring.
Is the Dom unable to handle the upkeep of his household?
Is that the only way the slave knows to get funds?
Or, does the slave have a habit she is funding the Dom doesn't know about.
Or, is the slave funding a habit of the Dom. <seen it>

Stefan




gorgeous1 -> RE: i think this is a new one... (1/31/2008 2:18:00 PM)


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ORIGINAL: BlackPhx

Not a Master or a Mistress but frankly, it would be the lie that would get her tossed out here. That and the risk she has put Master and myself in with all the nasties out there. Antibiotic resistant STD's, HIV, Herpes, are nothing to play around with. Condoms break. Not always but it only takes once. Additionally even if she is sneaking the money into the account to pay bills, that is also a Lie.  I would have to wonder at the "Master" who was so oblivious to the state of the household finances that something like this could happen. He knows what he earns, should know what she earns, and despite the turn the economy has taken and the fact we tend to all live a bit beyond our immediate means, have adjusted the qaulity of living to meet the income.

poenkitten (shivering and willing to do without cable, new clothes, and heat save on the coldest of mornings when she warms the house for Master's bath to stay in means)



I can't believe it took 39 posts for somebody to say this! My thoughts EXACTLY! When you're in a sexual relationship with someone, I think they have the right to know whether or not there are other people involved. I cannot imagine being involved with somebody and then finding out they were having casual and random sex with other people. I'd want to know!

I have a relative who has herpes because her ex husband cheated on her and got herpes. That's kind of a forever thing, ya know? She has been very up-front about it, and she is now happily married to a man who also has herpes.

I feel really strongly about this- I once had a friend who was a virgin and she was dating a guy that told me that he had genital warts. I asked him if he was going to tell my friend about his condition. He said he wasn't sure. I decided to go ahead and do them both a favor and tell her. She appreciated it, he hated my guts. Some of you might think I stepped over the line, but I still have no regrets for having done that. How could I NOT tell my friend what I knew? I sure as hell would have wanted to know if I was dating somebody that I was considering having sex with had HIV or warts or herpes.

I want to have a choice in the matter and know what my risks are and decide whether or not it's worth it. This woman who is prostituting herself and not telling her partner isn't giving him a choice!

TO THE OP: You possess dangerous information, and if you don't tell this woman's partner that he is at risk, you could have blood on your hands if he gets sick.




SirMIkeSD -> RE: i think this is a new one... (1/31/2008 3:15:28 PM)

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TO THE OP: You possess dangerous information, and if you don't tell this woman's partner that he is at risk, you could have blood on your hands if he gets sick.
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ORIGINAL: gorgeous1

I am a firm believer that I do not have the right to inform someone else of what is going on in there household.   The same as I would send someone packing that came with me about something that is not there concern.

Mike





SailingBum -> RE: i think this is a new one... (1/31/2008 4:27:39 PM)

I think the OP is a jerry srpinger "talent scout"

BadOne




sunshinemiss -> RE: i think this is a new one... (1/31/2008 5:50:33 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SailingBum

I think the OP is a jerry srpinger "talent scout"

BadOne



You know... I got a love hate relationship with this... Love the laughter, hate the tea spitting all ove the computer.




gorgeous1 -> RE: i think this is a new one... (1/31/2008 7:02:09 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: SirMIkeSD

quote:


TO THE OP: You possess dangerous information, and if you don't tell this woman's partner that he is at risk, you could have blood on your hands if he gets sick.
quote:

ORIGINAL: gorgeous1

I am a firm believer that I do not have the right to inform someone else of what is going on in there household.   The same as I would send someone packing that came with me about something that is not there concern.

Mike





And I would tend to agree with you, but this goes beyond what I am comfortable with keeping to myself. I AM the type of person who will step forward as a witness to a crime, I AM the kind of person who would tell a friend if their partner was out there doing things that could cost my friend their life.

I have witnessed or have been the one chosen to hear a confession many times, and have honored many a secret, or decided to not be the bearer of bad news, but I tend to value human life, and at the cost of being hated, I choose to spend the time to tell a friend.

QUESTION: What would you do if your friend contracted HIV and was completely baffled- could not understand how he got sick. Let's say you knew for a fact his most recent but now out of the picture partner was HIV +, but your friend didn't know. What would you do? Would you say nothing? Would you feel guilty for having known all along the other guy was HIV+, yet you said nothing? Wouldn't you feel almost as if you were a silent witness to a murder?




LittleLotte -> RE: i think this is a new one... (1/31/2008 8:51:52 PM)

 
quote:

ORIGINAL: SailingBum

I think the OP is a jerry srpinger "talent scout"

BadOne


nope.  




adoracat -> RE: i think this is a new one... (2/1/2008 6:04:12 AM)

~fast reply~

funny that you said this.  Daddy and i were talking yesterday about this subject, since i have a third partner (i'm also married) and Daddy knows.  he said "i dont mind sharing you, but i will know that you are safe, and i will NOT be lied to about what my slave is doing".

i'd be out on my ass in a heartbeat.  it doesnt matter *why* the extra money was being brought into the household.  wolf wouldnt have it of me, and Daddy SURE wouldnt stand for it.

i belong to Daddy.  period.  and while my body is mine....he has the right to say who can and cannot use it, as i have given him that power over me. 

i dont have the right to make that sort of decision.  no matter what  the household finances are like.  (and yes, that has been discussed while in the middle of an argument with wolf once.  he said he'd throw me out of the house so fast my head would spin.)

kitten




conquer4love -> RE: i think this is a new one... (2/2/2008 9:48:39 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SirMIkeSD
There are some things not worth fixing.

I agree! There are "No, I didn't buy you a Christmas gift" lies and then there are "I am sleeping with everyone in town, perhaps getting an STD and don't care enough about you, your health or your life to let you know" lies.






conquer4love -> RE: i think this is a new one... (2/2/2008 10:21:12 PM)

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ORIGINAL: gorgeous1
TO THE OP: You possess dangerous information, and if you don't tell this woman's partner that he is at risk, you could have blood on your hands if he gets sick.


I agree with you, it could cost a relationship,

or it could cost a life.. its shouldn't be that hard of a decision.




MistressOfGa -> RE: i think this is a new one... (2/3/2008 12:17:28 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedandcollared

so, i know a girl in my area...owned by a man i also know.

so, the funny part is, really, that the girl has started prostituting herself, without her Master's knowledge.

what would You do if You found out Your slave was whoring?


It would depend on how long I have had him. If I had several years invested in his training I would punish him for sure. The strength of his punishment would be determined by his being truthful with me as to what he had been doing. If I had to hear it from someone other than him, I would be more pissed off. But if he came to me on all fours confessing to me what he had been doing and begging my forgiveness and vowing to never do it again, I may give him a second chance. I just don't believe in throwing the baby out with the bath water.
 
MoGa




Justme696 -> RE: i think this is a new one... (2/3/2008 1:57:38 AM)

Wasn't she a whore already, but you just discovered it now?
Does he know?
IF the MAster is a dear friend... I would tell him...then he can decide to keep her..or...leave her.
Besides that..IF some one is special...and she does soemthing wrong....it is still not easy to leave if they are in your heart.




Sub03 -> RE: i think this is a new one... (2/3/2008 2:56:53 PM)

My Master would leave me so fast it would make my head spin...when I was looking for a job I jokingly said I could be a stripper and he was NOT amused in the least, forbade me to do it. Whoring behind his back? He wouldnt even consider speaking to me again.




Kana -> RE: i think this is a new one... (2/3/2008 9:34:19 PM)

Are you kidding me?
Gone daddy gone.
Ignoring the trust factor, ignoring the fact that she is out cheating on me, fuck, ignoring the basic human indecency of the whole thing,
for the health reason alone she would be gone.
And you can bet your ass I wouldn't be nice about it. Not even the least bit.
The spinning of truth aside, when you violate trust to that extent you foreit any thought that I am going to treat you with decency.
No way.




Thorns82 -> RE: i think this is a new one... (2/4/2008 12:15:39 AM)

I'm a sub, but in this case it wouldn't matter.  I would tell them to have all their stuff out of my apartment before I got back from being tested for STDs.




mstrj69 -> RE: i think this is a new one... (2/4/2008 3:46:54 PM)

Might be she would be just as happy without him as he would be without her.  I would tell her to get lost.




Owner4SexSlave -> RE: i think this is a new one... (2/4/2008 11:39:41 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedandcollared

so, i know a girl in my area...owned by a man i also know.

so, the funny part is, really, that the girl has started prostituting herself, without her Master's knowledge.

what would You do if You found out Your slave was whoring?


Ahhhhh... now I finally understand what cages are really used for! LOL....




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