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RE: i think this is a new one... - 2/4/2008 11:51:26 PM

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so, i know a girl in my area...owned by a man i also know.

so, the funny part is, really, that the girl has started prostituting herself, without her Master's knowledge.

what would You do if You found out Your slave was whoring?

Ahhhhh... now I finally understand what cages are really used for! LOL....

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RE: i think this is a new one... - 2/6/2008 12:18:12 AM

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so, i know a girl in my area...owned by a man i also know.

so, the funny part is, really, that the girl has started prostituting herself, without her Master's knowledge.

what would You do if You found out Your slave was whoring?

Grrr...Again i'm not intentionally trying to come off as a bitch here....However, i find it not only distasteful but really sad that You think so little of friends or acquaintances that You would not let them know what You know to be occuring in their relationship....In my opinion, You are no better than the whore in this situation...

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RE: i think this is a new one... - 2/6/2008 7:04:54 AM

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owned,

The most basic ot D/s tenants has been broken, for my part I would ask her why and then explain that trust once broken is too fragile to put back together.

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RE: i think this is a new one... - 2/6/2008 7:26:22 AM

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how do you know it is without his knowledge??

if a friend no matter what life style did that and didn't tell their respective other i would tell their respective other i think....

but then you could also look at it if they are good friends take a stand back till the whole thing is cleared up and resolved - you stand to get hurt whether you say something or not if they are good friends of yours.

surely you would want to know if your partner was doing it?

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RE: i think this is a new one... - 2/6/2008 7:26:49 AM

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Howdy Girl,

Interesting situation here. Now bear in mind I am a Gorean and while I see nothing wrong with the reactions anyone is having, I have my own feelings as well.

First I'm looking at the girl as a slave, perhaps that isn't the case. I know that definitions loose consistancy from one lifestyle to the next. Here's the thing; a slave is supposed to crave the touch of men, she is supposed to be a slut. her ache to be pleasing and love the taste of men is to be all consuming for her. It is the discipline instilled and fear of our punishment as men(gender neutral) that keeps her from doing something behind our backs.

A slut is a slut is a slut, as is a slave is a slave is a slave. See the pattern starting to develope. You would be foolish to think you can remove the desires of a wench. Wouldn't it serve you best to stop faling in love with your slaves and start making use of their awesome qualities. Hell look at the economical asset she is. Now I understand that you might not want to share in her new found ability to contract illness do to her ever larger volume of partners. Just don't fuck her. You're her master/owner not her lover, right? You also have the ability to be testing her more often with the added income.

Not all wenches are meant to be tied down.

Just another perspective...

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RE: i think this is a new one... - 2/6/2008 12:35:41 PM

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Howdy Girl,

Interesting situation here. Now bear in mind I am a Gorean and while I see nothing wrong with the reactions anyone is having, I have my own feelings as well.

First I'm looking at the girl as a slave, perhaps that isn't the case. I know that definitions loose consistancy from one lifestyle to the next. Here's the thing; a slave is supposed to crave the touch of men, she is supposed to be a slut. her ache to be pleasing and love the taste of men is to be all consuming for her. It is the discipline instilled and fear of our punishment as men(gender neutral) that keeps her from doing something behind our backs.

A slut is a slut is a slut, as is a slave is a slave is a slave. See the pattern starting to develope. You would be foolish to think you can remove the desires of a wench. Wouldn't it serve you best to stop faling in love with your slaves and start making use of their awesome qualities. Hell look at the economical asset she is. Now I understand that you might not want to share in her new found ability to contract illness do to her ever larger volume of partners. Just don't fuck her. You're her master/owner not her lover, right? You also have the ability to be testing her more often with the added income.

Not all wenches are meant to be tied down.

Just another perspective...

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RE: i think this is a new one... - 2/6/2008 12:39:35 PM

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ORIGINAL: xBullx

Not all wenches are meant to be tied down.

Just another perspective...

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Bull

we aren't? Damn, i have been going about my life all wrong in that case!

~biting my tongue hard enough to draw blood on the rest of that.... response~

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RE: i think this is a new one... - 2/6/2008 2:49:01 PM

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Perhaps you should consider the fact that being tied up, and tied down aren't always concurrent subjects.

Holding back anything else was a mere formality, you have exposed your intent quite well. I would also imagine your tongue is fine. Do you realize the amount of self control and discipline it would actually require a person to intentionally bite into their tongue? At least in the context that you descibe.

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we aren't? Damn, i have been going about my life all wrong in that case!

~biting my tongue hard enough to draw blood on the rest of that.... response~

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RE: i think this is a new one... - 2/6/2008 3:03:39 PM

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You first...

Such a well cultured lassy you are.

I am left to assume that you are suggesting I have reality issues with your bait or flame tactic here. Though it is possible that you are being playful, I missed that in your jest. How can you be so sure that my reality isn't simply that and you are the one that is playing roles and at that with an endeavor to validate your perspective you are left flailing about pitiful attempts at chastising the comments of another.

I'm often amazed at people that demand that someone respect their perceived rights and yet atttempt to ridicule or censure anothers through shallow and inenlightened judgement and comment.

Impressive wouldn't you say?

But in the end it doesn't really matter, you are who you are and that for the good of it, is well away from me.

Cheerio...

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RE: i think this is a new one... - 2/6/2008 3:53:54 PM

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You first...

Such a well cultured lassy you are.

I am left to assume that you are suggesting I have reality issues with your bait or flame tactic here. Though it is possible that you are being playful, I missed that in your jest. How can you be so sure that my reality isn't simply that and you are the one that is playing roles and at that with an endeavor to validate your perspective you are left flailing about pitiful attempts at chastising the comments of another.

I'm often amazed at people that demand that someone respect their perceived rights and yet atttempt to ridicule or censure anothers through shallow and inenlightened judgement and comment.

Impressive wouldn't you say?

But in the end it doesn't really matter, you are who you are and that for the good of it, is well away from me.

Cheerio...

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RE: i think this is a new one... - 2/6/2008 4:07:58 PM

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I am inclined to agree with the analysis and counsel of Bull.

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RE: i think this is a new one... - 2/6/2008 5:31:48 PM

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I am inclined to be insulted, as any group should not have 'always' attached to them. Doesn't matter if the group you are speaking of is a gender, race, religion, or sexual orientation. Most of us don't fit neatly in to those little boxes. Not even so-called doms...

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RE: i think this is a new one... - 2/6/2008 5:33:09 PM

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Send her a very a very "special" john to sort her ass out.

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RE: i think this is a new one... - 2/6/2008 6:20:50 PM

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I am inclined to be insulted, as any group should not have 'always' attached to them. Doesn't matter if the group you are speaking of is a gender, race, religion, or sexual orientation. Most of us don't fit neatly in to those little boxes. Not even so-called doms...

To what always are you referring, as the only other always on this page is this one:

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Perhaps you should consider the fact that being tied up, and tied down aren't always concurrent subjects.

and that always is here not attached to a group?

And to what so-called doms are you referring?

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RE: i think this is a new one... - 2/6/2008 6:31:45 PM

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ORIGINAL: ownedandcollared

so, i know a girl in my area...owned by a man i also know.

so, the funny part is, really, that the girl has started prostituting herself, without her Master's knowledge.

what would You do if You found out Your slave was whoring?

Grrr...Again i'm not intentionally trying to come off as a bitch here....However, i find it not only distasteful but really sad that You think so little of friends or acquaintances that You would not let them know what You know to be occuring in their relationship....In my opinion, You are no better than the whore in this situation...

Excuse me dear but no where in the post did she say this person she knew was a friend. It is not her job to get involved in someeone elses relationship regardless and even less so with an aqaintance.

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RE: i think this is a new one... - 2/7/2008 8:56:25 AM

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Dump her then see a shrink because I would be woundering why am I with a woman when I am gay male

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RE: i think this is a new one... - 2/7/2008 9:36:41 AM

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so, i know a girl in my area...owned by a man i also know.

so, the funny part is, really, that the girl has started prostituting herself, without her Master's knowledge.

what would You do if You found out Your slave was whoring?

How can you know that her Master is not her pimp? That she is not doing it with his knowledge or encouragement, tacit or explicit?

It's not a scene I've done, but I've had a few girls whom I suspect would have done it for me if I'd told them to.

If he does know, or instigated the whole thing, it's hardly likely he will advertise the fact openly!

It is, after all, one of the classic BDSM scenarios, much as many of the internet generation would suggest otherwise.

Clearly if my girl was prostituting herself without my knowledge I'd take action.

But what that action would be would depend very much on the girl and our situation, so I cannot say.

But I must agree with the comments in response to the Gorean oaf. I recall that John Norman, author of the Gor books, considered them to be pot-boilers.

He thought "Goreans" had missed the satiric point of his 'philosophising' and were absolutely raving mad, (as most of us do)!

But, of course, they've a right to believe what they do; it seems no more crazy than the jewish, christian, muslim or other superstition or political theory.

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RE: i think this is a new one... - 2/7/2008 10:47:10 AM

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Punish her and then dump her.

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RE: i think this is a new one... - 2/7/2008 7:48:03 PM

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If I didn't know, the Hoe is on the street, and i don't care how much of a roll she has, that just a reckless renegade. Dropping it like it hot won't due.

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RE: i think this is a new one... - 2/7/2008 7:52:41 PM

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Ecuse me dear but no where in the post did she say this person she knew was a friend. It is not her job to get involved in someeone elses relationship regardless and even less so with an aqaintance.

*checks self for antlers* :D
Luscious, on some level i agree with You...However, given that she has first hand knowledge of it and finds it amusing enough and interesting enough to post it on a public forum, i'd say she already got herself involved...In fact, in my opinion, i'd say she threw herself in the middle of the whole damn mess...

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