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Clothing for BDSM club - 1/30/2008 1:42:59 PM

Hauptmann

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Hi

this is my first post on here. Glad to meet you all.

I was just wondering if people could suggest a good (UK) supplier of clothing for a dominant male. To be honest I do not really as a rule go to clubs or anything in the scene, my usual preference being to keep things at home. And let's face it, it is not about showtime there, really :)

However my little one has expressed an interst in going out, and while there is a bewildering variety of amazing clothes for her, it seems to me that male attire seems to be either black plastic pants or inflatable rubber masks: which is brilliant, but just not for me.

I was thinking of something stylish in PVC and have looked on the web, but have not yet found anything that doesn't look rather cheaply made.

Any suggestions?

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RE: Clothing for BDSM club - 1/30/2008 1:58:12 PM

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When in doubt, wear black. Serious. You need to be comfortable, and you hate to run out and buy a bunch of outfits if you're not sure.

You're first time, black jeans, black shoes, and a black Tshirt (no logos on anything) and you'll fit in perfect. From there, you can see what others are wearing and know better what fits in in that club. Each club might be a little different (those with a leather theme, for example, you might want a black leather vest as well).

Basicly, when in doubt, wear black, and you'll be good until you know the specific nuances :)

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RE: Clothing for BDSM club - 1/30/2008 6:20:33 PM

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HI there and welcome to the baords Hauptmann
Take a look at http://www.westbound.com
They have some awesome gear and they are located in Plymouth
good quality, and prices.
whatever you do have fun.
Lucy

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RE: Clothing for BDSM club - 1/31/2008 12:52:37 AM

Quirk

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The hottest, best dressed Dom attire I've ever seen is a black cashmere turtleneck and some beautifly cut black slacks. I've seen Doms in suits and open collar shirts, it's all about what you like to wear. Just stick to all black- and of course if you're doing something messy that's a consideration. But it's Ok to Dom well dressed. Nice black jeans and a well cut shirt- but not a T shirt! It's a Big Saturday Night Out, so dress, it's more fun. And it's a big deal for your girl.
That dark suit you have for weddings and funerals might be perfect... Start in your closet.

As for PVC? Some people have fetishes for it, but some hate it! It's very hot, you can sweat gallons inside it and have a miserable evening so think about that twice. I'd wear it around at home first. It's the same plastic as plumbing pipes- water and air proof.

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RE: Clothing for BDSM club - 1/31/2008 1:58:18 AM

Hauptmann

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hey some good advice there. The trouble with a suit is that I'll look like some uptight control freak ... erm ok gotcha lol ;)

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RE: Clothing for BDSM club - 2/3/2008 8:09:38 PM

LunaticDesign

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okay here's the standard Dom uniform.

Loose black pants preferably cargos or BDU style.

Tight black T Shirt

Black shoes

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RE: Clothing for BDSM club - 2/14/2008 3:41:41 AM

shiazn03

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does the "when in doubt, wear black" advice apply to female (subs/slave) as well? if not, any sites anyone can suggest? oh, also, kind of off topic but can anyone suggest a not too hardcore bdsm club? just so i can get the feel of things. :) thanks!

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