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Do You - 1/30/2008 10:10:32 PM   
takenbyjohnr07


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Status: offline 		think of Yourself as a romantic Dominant, and if You do what are some of the ways You romance Your sub/slave.property?

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RE: Do You - 1/30/2008 10:51:53 PM   
celticlord2112


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ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

think of Yourself as a romantic Dominant, and if You do what are some of the ways You romance Your sub/slave.property?


I suspect I am a very romantic Dominant. I love my slave passionately.

How do I romance her? I indulge my penchant for poetry with e-cards that I email her at random moments, just because I can. It's not original and it's probably severely sappy, but it's me!

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RE: Do You - 1/30/2008 11:13:02 PM   
takenbyjohnr07


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Status: offline 		Sappy is a good thing :)

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RE: Do You - 1/30/2008 11:16:14 PM   
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I have yet to hear any complaints from the slave quarters!

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RE: Do You - 1/30/2008 11:37:04 PM   
takenbyjohnr07


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Status: offline 		And rightly You never should. :)

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RE: Do You - 1/31/2008 3:13:36 AM   
Justme696


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Status: offline 		flowers, eating in a restaurant, sms her goodmorning, once in a while a card or letter, regular card from hallmark website, daily email, bring a gift when I visit, hugging her,just holding her.

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RE: Do You - 1/31/2008 5:03:08 AM   
TotalState


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Status: offline 		I'm mostly very vanilla in the way I romance my submissive fiancée, which can be anything from endearing pet names, daily email and silly gifts.  Then again, I have some very non-vanilla ways of melting her as well, but I don't know if I would call that romance, exactly.  

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RE: Do You - 1/31/2008 5:20:07 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		I quit being romantic to women. There were a couple of times near romantic holidays (this can be verified by my co workers) that there have been panties and flowers hung by my time card. I got a laugh out of it but a lot of ribbing also.

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RE: Do You - 1/31/2008 5:58:51 AM   
Rover


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Status: offline 		I don't believe that being romantic is at all related to my Dominance (which is not to say that I'm not romantic).  No more so than asking if I'm a walking Dominant, or a sighted Dominant, or.... you get the point.  I'm a human being with an immeasurable number of qualities and characteristics, amongst which I am Dominant.
 
Consequently, I muddy up rather simple questions such as those posed by the OP.
 
John

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RE: Do You - 1/31/2008 6:05:19 AM   
Jeffff


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ORIGINAL: Rover

I don't believe that being romantic is at all related to my Dominance (which is not to say that I'm not romantic).  No more so than asking if I'm a walking Dominant, or a sighted Dominant, or.... you get the point.  I'm a human being with an immeasurable number of qualities and characteristics, amongst which I am Dominant.
 
Consequently, I muddy up rather simple questions such as those posed by the OP.
 
John


I would say the question it self is....muddy. It goes back to the point that somehow
wiitwd, makes us, "special".  Like most people, who are not sociopaths or psychopaths, I am capable of a wide range of feelings. Almost none of those have anything to do with my dominance

Jeff

< Message edited by Jeffff -- 1/31/2008 6:06:02 AM >

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RE: Do You - 1/31/2008 6:07:55 AM   
Aileen1968


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Status: offline 		I find romantic doms to be a turn off.  I like evil motherfuckers much more.
That type of personality and domination meshes better with my personality.

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RE: Do You - 1/31/2008 6:10:05 AM   
KatyLied


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Almost none of those have anything to do with my dominance


Well that's a sad shame.  You should embrace your domliness.  It should be apparent in every act you commit and every word uttered from your mouth.  To do anything less shows that you, sir, are no dominant!


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RE: Do You - 1/31/2008 6:11:51 AM   
Jeffff


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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

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Almost none of those have anything to do with my dominance


Well that's a sad shame.  You should embrace your domliness.  It should be apparent in every act you commit and every word uttered from your mouth.  To do anything less shows that you, sir, are no dominant!



Ahem...next time...cap the Sir please

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RE: Do You - 1/31/2008 6:23:21 AM   
Justme696


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ORIGINAL: Rover

I don't believe that being romantic is at all related to my Dominance (which is not to say that I'm not romantic).  No more so than asking if I'm a walking Dominant, or a sighted Dominant, or.... you get the point.  I'm a human being with an immeasurable number of qualities and characteristics, amongst which I am Dominant.
 
Consequently, I muddy up rather simple questions such as those posed by the OP.
 
John


Agree..I know what you say...but I see myself just as me...trying to make my girl happy with romance..and beeing her Dom.
But yes,,outside BDSM..I still want to make her happy.

(I don't see the "normal" life and my "bdsm" part as seperated )

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RE: Do You - 1/31/2008 6:56:54 AM   
OmegaG


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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

I find romantic doms to be a turn off.  I like evil motherfuckers much more.
That type of personality and domination meshes better with my personality.


Agreed-- not all women are wired to want roses and poetry.

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RE: Do You - 1/31/2008 7:37:07 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		Justme of course you have to seperate the vanilla from the other. Beat a person in vanilla and they call the cops. Do it in the other lifestyle and they beg for more.

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RE: Do You - 1/31/2008 7:40:41 AM   
Jeffff


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Status: offline 		Yes.....you can only REALLY rape the willing.......... and...I just got your name..lol

Jeff

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RE: Do You - 1/31/2008 7:49:38 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I have my moments but they are fleeting and far between. Most guys are more romantic than I am apparently.

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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Do You - 1/31/2008 8:03:18 AM   
kinkypuppy2


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RE: Do You - 1/31/2008 8:51:47 AM   
SirMIkeSD


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Status: offline 		I am about as romantic as a slug that you just stepped on in bare feet.

Mike


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