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subguyca2000 -> Hitachi Wand Vibrator (1/31/2008 10:30:58 AM)

I have a question for all the ladies out there.  My partner and I have a very good sex life.  I able to please her orally with my tongue by giving her a very good orgasm.  I assume shaking and moaning is a sign that I am doing something right.

My question is whether an Hitachi Wand vibrator is worth the purchase when everything is perfectly ok with our oral sex.  Is an oral sex orgasm always better than a vibrator experience?  I have never been able to stimulate her to a G spot orgams.  I was wondering if the Wand would be able to do this for her with the attachment. 

Any help is appreciated.  I just to want to get better at whatt I do and how I give her pleasure.  Also, is it common to NOT be able to provide an orgasm to a lady through intercourse?  My partner says that she never does have an orgasm and she just does it for me when I am good.



darchChylde -> RE: Hitachi Wand Vibrator (1/31/2008 10:51:12 AM)

Many women do not, or are unable to climax through vaginal intercourse; as most do not actually climax through actual vaginal stimulation but actual clitoral.  In that case. there are particular positions that stimulate the clitoris more effectively than missionary.  For example, her on top and facing towards you; if she moves in more of a grinding motion than raising and lowering herself; she can stimulate her clitoris on the base of your penis.  Also, using a thumb (well manicured; trust me, it's appreciated.) or finger to stimulate the clitoris through vaginal stimulation.

Also, there are women who don't climax through g-spot stimulation; though this is rarer, i'd recommend exploring her more clinically if she allows instead of just trying to stimulate her.  Make certain you've really found the g-spot.  In the end, i would say that practice makes perfect, or at least better used to her body and what does work for her.

As for a vibrator?  I don't know the one you're talking about, but they tend to be effective for added stimulation during whatever activity you are involved in.  Though using it during oral can cut short the oral as your tongue can seriously get to itching with the vibrations.  Most vibrators are not intended for g-spot stimulation, but vaginal and/or clitoral.  And one of the wonderful things about a vibrator, she can use that when you're not there.

Edited to add: the best person to ask in order to better pleasure her, is her.



lockmeupplease -> RE: Hitachi Wand Vibrator (1/31/2008 10:57:44 AM)

I have used the Hitachi magic wand on partners and they love it.  It is very powerful, so start on the lowest setting and go from there.  Even if you're great with your tongue, there's nothing wrong with a little variety!



gorgeous1 -> RE: Hitachi Wand Vibrator (1/31/2008 11:01:14 AM)

I looooooooooove my Magic Wand! It is now my absolute favorite, and I have a box full of vibrators. I highly recommend it, but it's not for everyone. It's very powerful, and some women find it to be to intense, and some need a barrier to cut the intensity down, like a pair of panties.

To answer some of your questions, that's really great that you can bring her to orgasm orally. I hated being gone down on, until I met my husband! He's quite talented and I had never had an orgasm via oral stimulation until he rocked my world. There's no reason to NOT purchase a vibrator just because she can already achieve orgasm a different way.

I personally can achieve orgasm from several ways- sometimes I can orgasm from penetration (intercourse). These are smaller, less intense orgasms. My orgasms from oral sex are much more intense, and the intensity is increased if my g-spot is being stimulated. An orgasm from the Magic Wand is what I consider to be the MOTHER OF ALL ORGASMS. I have the most intense and long-lasting orgasms, to the point of crying and screaming because they are so intense, and sometimes I can get on a roll where I'll cum ten times and it's just non stop.

A word of warning though- bumping and grinding on your Magic Wand feels great, but your kitty will be sore the next day!



thetammyjo -> RE: Hitachi Wand Vibrator (1/31/2008 11:24:58 AM)

I found that the best way for me to figure out what worked for me in terms of orgasms was to explore my own body. A vibrator was part of that.

My ability to pleasure myself did not replace the enjoyment of being with another person but I think it made me more confident in myself, my body, and my sexuality.

perhaps if your partner took the time to explore herself she might have similar results?



RCdc -> RE: Hitachi Wand Vibrator (1/31/2008 11:34:12 AM)

Magic Wand rocks.
I am making the assumption that your partner is you dominant?  If so, and if she likes and accepts gifts, buy the magic wand with attachments.
Not only is it a good vibrator(and if she is a clitoral orgasmer it will certainly work) it's a brilliant all over massage tool as well.
 
Yes, some woman cannot orgasm via intercourse, there are so many 'types' of orgasm its good to explore to find out what works.  And the magic wand will definately help out there.
 
the.dark.



bbwbutterfly -> RE: Hitachi Wand Vibrator (1/31/2008 11:41:04 AM)

Gorgeous1 I have to agree with you. The Magic Wand is absolutely wonderful! I had received mine as a gift and I loved it! The orgasms are intense and mind-blowing in my opinion.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Hitachi Wand Vibrator (1/31/2008 12:56:38 PM)

Mine is a Sunbeam, but on the same order as the Hitachi.  I prefer coil vibes that are more focused in their vibration.  My only complaint is that they don't come with a high enough setting!  I would check out blowfish.com and goodvibes.com for lots of great options.



gorgeous1 -> RE: Hitachi Wand Vibrator (1/31/2008 1:49:46 PM)

Yes, Dark and Butterfly...isn't the Magic Wand fabulous? I had never seen one until I started watching videos from Kink.com and it seemed like all the girls were having a good time, and I thought, "Dang I gotta get one of those"! As some of you know, Master and I have a bdsm goes DIY website, and the next project he wants me to work on is creating some sort of harness that will hold the Hitachi firmly in place. We also have converted an old camera tripod into a Magic Wand stand...you can see the photos here:

http://www.kinkycrafts.info/diybdsmguides/magicwandstand/stand_p1.html

It allows Master to have both hands free to do other naughty things!



bbwbutterfly -> RE: Hitachi Wand Vibrator (1/31/2008 2:39:54 PM)

Good luck with the designs! After owning one, I don't want any other kind. I am spoiled.



RumpusParable -> RE: Hitachi Wand Vibrator (1/31/2008 3:25:44 PM)

Another voicing her love of the Hitachi Magic Wand!  My spouse gave one to me for a gift after me oohing and aaahing over it for ages online. 

If there hasn't been an update since my last check on such info, 60% of females cannot reach orgasm through intercourse alone.  So you're partner, OP, isn't odd at all in that. 

I have to echo others, too, in saying that:  1) Getting toys like the Hitachi is great just for the fun and variety of it, 2) It gives me the most intense orgasms I've ever had, and 3) It's an excellent all over massage tool.

It hasn't helped me with more G-spot related orgasms, I tend to have those on rare occasions during intercourse only, but the attachment for it is fun for external use as well.

I strongly recommend the Hitatchi Magic Wand to anyone interested in trying it.  Excellent toy!




subguyca2000 -> RE: Hitachi Wand Vibrator (1/31/2008 4:50:00 PM)

Thank you for all of your comments.  I ordered one today with the attachments.  And I guess I was right about intercourse and orgasms.  I had heard but never really had facts about this.

The one thing I would also like to do is to learn differnet techniques for oral and experiment.  For example, doing the alphabet does not work on her.  The best technique so far is nipple stimualtion and then softly clit licking with moments of sucking on clit from soft to hard.  I saw that Good Vibrations has a class on this from a lesbian couple.  I like to learn!!



azropedntied -> RE: Hitachi Wand Vibrator (1/31/2008 5:46:40 PM)

That is the only vibe i shall sell , it has attachments you can also use .I wish i could buy them wholesale by the case again , soon i hope to get those in again .I tell ya all when i get them in i can sell them all  as fast as i get um . I have had repeat customers  Many times not  due to breakage but people buy as gifts or  want a second wand . Trust me you maybe great at oral but you can not work as fast as this gem does and it does not get  tired .Yes in short i say buy one or two , get the attachments too ..enjoy 



DiannaVesta -> RE: Hitachi Wand Vibrator (1/31/2008 6:08:20 PM)

A Magic Wand is a MUST have. If my house was burning down that is one thing I would definately grab. 



Jasmyn -> RE: Hitachi Wand Vibrator (1/31/2008 7:30:31 PM)

lol Dianna ...

We can't use them here in NZ ....something to do with the voltage differences or something along those lines ... makes a girl want to cry



MisPandora -> RE: Hitachi Wand Vibrator (1/31/2008 8:46:49 PM)

I can see women all over the world bypassing travel to NZ because of the country's ban on Hitachi vibrators.  That'll be a CNN headline to capture.



Jasmyn -> RE: Hitachi Wand Vibrator (1/31/2008 9:26:49 PM)

lol Tourism New Zealand will linch me



sammiebabygirl -> RE: Hitachi Wand Vibrator (1/31/2008 10:30:28 PM)

My wand is plugged in and at my bedside at all times.
 
There are only 2 problems with it.
 
1. My clit is now desensitized to oral sex.
 
2. The people I live with complain that it messes up their TVs.
 
jen



RCdc -> RE: Hitachi Wand Vibrator (2/1/2008 1:49:33 AM)

This is Darcy

From a male POV, I can heartily recommend having your s-type use the Magic Wand on you, both in a sexual and non-sexual way. [:D]

*hopes the.dark has packed the Wand for later* [;)]



RCdc -> RE: Hitachi Wand Vibrator (2/1/2008 2:50:51 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jasmyn
We can't use them here in NZ ....something to do with the voltage differences or something along those lines ... makes a girl want to cry


You can get the rare voltage altered one, but they usually cost twice as much. Its the same in the UK because the voltage is different - you just have to buy an extra power adapter which only cost around 5-10 pounds over here.

the.dark.



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