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jase26 -> humiliation (1/31/2008 1:04:29 PM)

Mistresses and Goddesses,
i am a 26 year old male sub looking for humiliation ideas, i cant say that i will do all ideas but i will try to do as many as possible.
i am also looking for ideas for a whole day of humiliation. if possible this would include what im permitted to eat, drink and how long im allowed to sleep for (if at all) during the 24 hour period.
any help that You can give me will be greatly excepted.




AtlantaMistress -> RE: humiliation (1/31/2008 1:16:51 PM)

so many ideas...so little time!

Are you planning on doing this alone or in public? What is the purpose? If you are more specific - it will be easier to give ideas that will accomplish whatever goal you have.




jase26 -> RE: humiliation (1/31/2008 2:10:07 PM)

it does not matter if it is private or public but i would prefer private to start with just to get myself prept for public humiliation i am doing this as i believe this is my destiny and its scary before and during the experience but it is such a good feeling when i have completed my humiliation there is only one thing that i will not do and that is put anything up my rear i hope this helps You Mistress Sandy and All else




MsCfromMelbourne -> RE: humiliation (1/31/2008 3:05:45 PM)

jase

I think you want us to give you online domination for free.

Nice try.

However its a bad idea for any of us to try to humiliate you.  We don't know you.  You could be emotionally or psychologically unstable. 

And only you know what really pushes your humiliation buttons.  Humiliation is a feeling and only you can control how you will - or will not - feel. 

How about sticking around and reading about humiliation for a while?  You only joined 2 days ago.  Learn a little from the forums and then meet someone in real life.




TickledToDeath -> RE: humiliation (1/31/2008 3:16:59 PM)

Just curious. If a sub is tied and tickled tortured mercilessly and continuously to the point of peeing....(the tickling continues even after), is that considered humiliation?

TTD




MsCfromMelbourne -> RE: humiliation (1/31/2008 3:24:32 PM)

TTD

If you find it humiliating, it is humiliation

If you don't find it humiliating, it isn't

Humiliation is a state of mind in the individual, not a list of 'things" Mistresses do

I have had subs that could not wait to be stripped naked and show off their nudity (exhibitionism)

And I have had subs that cringed with embarassment when told to strip (humiliation)

Same play: totally different psychological response

Mistresses cannot read minds.  Humiliation needs to be carefully tailored to the individual.  That takes communication. 

If you are really turned on by wee-ing yourself TTD, I doubt that is humilaition.  But I don't know you.




TickledToDeath -> RE: humiliation (1/31/2008 4:51:16 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne

TTD

If you find it humiliating, it is humiliation

If you don't find it humiliating, it isn't

Humiliation is a state of mind in the individual, not a list of 'things" Mistresses do

I have had subs that could not wait to be stripped naked and show off their nudity (exhibitionism)

And I have had subs that cringed with embarassment when told to strip (humiliation)

Same play: totally different psychological response

Mistresses cannot read minds.  Humiliation needs to be carefully tailored to the individual.  That takes communication. 

If you are really turned on by wee-ing yourself TTD, I doubt that is humilaition.  But I don't know you.



Thanks for your response.
No I am not at all turned on by "wee-ing" myself.  If I were gang tickled into peeing myself it would indeed be humilliating,  however it is a curious feeling I have to be tickle tortured to that point as the ler in me has done it to others so the lee in me is curious to know what that feels like while at the same time it would be embarassing !
Hope you can understand that catch 22 scenario!

Interesting yes?




MissMagnolia -> RE: humiliation (1/31/2008 4:55:19 PM)

Interesting? No.

I'm with you MsC. The OP's question smacks of "gimme some freebie humiliation (aka wank material)" online.




Shawn1066 -> RE: humiliation (1/31/2008 5:12:48 PM)

Hmm...  I have an idea.

Go find some cereal and eat it WITHOUT any milk.  Not only is that humiliating, but it also makes you a stinking hoodlum. :-p

Sixty bajillion points to anybody who gets the most random reference I've ever made, by the way.

DV's Fox




ItalianSMistress -> RE: humiliation (1/31/2008 6:41:35 PM)

I just think that both jase26 and TickledToDeath should just be thankful for the advice that MsC already gave them, as it sounds like the best they have gotten so far.  And then take their search for wank material elsewhere!




TickledToDeath -> RE: humiliation (1/31/2008 7:17:26 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

Interesting? No.

I'm with you MsC. The OP's question smacks of "gimme some freebie humiliation (aka wank material)" online.

Now just the thought of that scenario repulses me. I DO NOT WANK on LINE NOR was I seeking WANK ON LINE material! I was making an inquiry and made a statement in reference to said inquiry and the response received to it.
I take offense to the accusation and expected more respect from this forum but I see I was wrong in presuming such and have given too much credit to the people here.

PISS OFF.




TickledToDeath -> RE: humiliation (1/31/2008 7:19:37 PM)

Same response to you as given above. Show a bit more respect then YOU can PISS off as well.
quote:

ORIGINAL: ItalianSMistress

I just think that both jase26 and TickledToDeath should just be thankful for the advice that MsC already gave them, as it sounds like the best they have gotten so far.  And then take their search for wank material elsewhere!





Aimtoplease101 -> RE: humiliation (1/31/2008 7:32:34 PM)

jase-- Pretend to be TickledToDeath's good friend, who has to accompany him to public social gatherings and apologize for his behavior.  Now THAT would be extreme humiliation!

Regards, ATP




AtlantaMistress -> RE: humiliation (1/31/2008 8:30:34 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: TickledToDeath

quote:

ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

Interesting? No.

I'm with you MsC. The OP's question smacks of "gimme some freebie humiliation (aka wank material)" online.

Now just the thought of that scenario repulses me. I DO NOT WANK on LINE NOR was I seeking WANK ON LINE material! I was making an inquiry and made a statement in reference to said inquiry and the response received to it.
I take offense to the accusation and expected more respect from this forum but I see I was wrong in presuming such and have given too much credit to the people here.

PISS OFF.



Tickled - I believe Ms. C was actually referring to the OP (even directed her response to him), and gave you GOOD ADVICE. Perhaps you should realize the forum you are in, and if you expect to learn anything from some very knowledgable Ladies kind enough to give quite good advice often (such as Ms. C) you should admit you acted hastily, immature [sm=moon.gif], and sincerely apologize! [sm=trident.gif]




jase26 -> RE: humiliation (2/1/2008 10:21:50 AM)

i would just like to say that i am not looking for wank material i am old enough to have enough of that already but thats life people with small minds think it is always about sex and wanking when it is not but then again thats life small minded people always think it is just to do with sex and wanking and there is nothing anyone (with real minds) can do




TickledToDeath -> RE: humiliation (2/2/2008 7:29:01 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: AtlantaMistress

quote:

ORIGINAL: TickledToDeath

quote:

ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

Interesting? No.

I'm with you MsC. The OP's question smacks of "gimme some freebie humiliation (aka wank material)" online.

Now just the thought of that scenario repulses me. I DO NOT WANK on LINE NOR was I seeking WANK ON LINE material! I was making an inquiry and made a statement in reference to said inquiry and the response received to it.
I take offense to the accusation and expected more respect from this forum but I see I was wrong in presuming such and have given too much credit to the people here.

PISS OFF.



Tickled - I believe Ms. C was actually referring to the OP (even directed her response to him), and gave you GOOD ADVICE. Perhaps you should realize the forum you are in, and if you expect to learn anything from some very knowledgable Ladies kind enough to give quite good advice often (such as Ms. C) you should admit you acted hastily, immature [sm=moon.gif], and sincerely apologize! [sm=trident.gif]



My responses were to ItalianMistress and to Magnolia who directed their snide remarks and insinuations that I wanted " wank material"  and not to the Mistress who initally responded ergo I need not apologize to anyone.  Perhaps you misunderstood at whom the remarks were intended. Good to know folks look out for one another here though although at times it may be mis guided.
I too , even though I am a switch, although all DOM in the straight out BDSM world and situations, I am only a switch when it comes to tickle torture, I do too deserve some respect.
Thanks and have a great weekened!

TTD




MisPandora -> RE: humiliation (2/2/2008 10:11:18 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne

jase

I think you want us to give you online domination for free.

Nice try.

Yep, I thought this immediately when I read his post.  It's nice that they come right out and show their ass on the first few posts so we don't waste our time on them, believing them to be interested in our "help."  I wonder what he thinks we might get out of this whole exchange that he proposed?




Dari -> RE: humiliation (2/2/2008 10:20:55 AM)

quote:

Go find some cereal and eat it WITHOUT any milk. Not only is that humiliating, but it also makes you a stinking hoodlum.


And perhaps being called Norb would also be a tad humiliating.  I mean - Norb?  Who calls themselves Norb, anyway?  Honestly now!




ItalianSMistress -> RE: humiliation (2/2/2008 10:21:46 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: TickledToDeath

quote:

ORIGINAL: AtlantaMistress

quote:

ORIGINAL: TickledToDeath

quote:

ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

Interesting? No.

I'm with you MsC. The OP's question smacks of "gimme some freebie humiliation (aka wank material)" online.

Now just the thought of that scenario repulses me. I DO NOT WANK on LINE NOR was I seeking WANK ON LINE material! I was making an inquiry and made a statement in reference to said inquiry and the response received to it.
I take offense to the accusation and expected more respect from this forum but I see I was wrong in presuming such and have given too much credit to the people here.

PISS OFF.



Tickled - I believe Ms. C was actually referring to the OP (even directed her response to him), and gave you GOOD ADVICE. Perhaps you should realize the forum you are in, and if you expect to learn anything from some very knowledgable Ladies kind enough to give quite good advice often (such as Ms. C) you should admit you acted hastily, immature [sm=moon.gif], and sincerely apologize! [sm=trident.gif]



My responses were to ItalianMistress and to Magnolia who directed their snide remarks and insinuations that I wanted " wank material"  and not to the Mistress who initally responded ergo I need not apologize to anyone.  Perhaps you misunderstood at whom the remarks were intended. Good to know folks look out for one another here though although at times it may be mis guided.
I too , even though I am a switch, although all DOM in the straight out BDSM world and situations, I am only a switch when it comes to tickle torture, I do too deserve some respect.
Thanks and have a great weekened!

TTD



So it seems you have a problem with someone else telling you about your stupidity, other than the two you insulted already.  Did it ever occur to you that it did not matter who you were talking to, if you are being stupid and immature, then someone is gonna call it out, and it need not be the ones you were talking to.  I am sure Ms Sandy knew who you were talking to, she can read, actually, it seems she does so much better than yourself.   Does not mean she can not say what she wants, or "try" to give you advice, which you never seem to take.  Let Me give you one last bit,,,not like you will take it, cuz it seems you like to cut off your nose to spite your face, BUT, if you dont want the advice of Dommes, dont come into a forum called "Ask a Mistress".  See how simply that was?  you may not like all the advice you get, but its advice nonetheless.

Now, lets go over this:
 
Some wanker came in here, asking a stupid question, Ms C called him on it, then you came in, asking something equally as silly, and she did not even call you out, she just gave you honest advice. What she said to you is perfectly true and correct answer.  How could anyone know what humiliating to you, but you?  That is the truth.  you then ask if its interesting, and Miss Magnolia said, no, in fact, its not.  you think everyone is gonna find that interesting?  Cuz I sure dont either.  And I am sure there are many more here that think the same.  And then all I said was that you should be thankful for the advice you already got, cuz it seems to Me that neither of you have never had that before, however now I can see you most likely did, but just dont listen well.  In fact, I think Ms Sandy just gave you great advice and once again, but it keeps falling on deaf ears.  If you are a switch, I just hope you listen to the subs more carefully than you listen to the Dommes, or someone is gonna be sorry, sooner or later.
 
Edited to add:  PISS OFF [:D]





thetammyjo -> RE: humiliation (2/2/2008 12:23:26 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Shawn1066

Hmm... I have an idea.

Go find some cereal and eat it WITHOUT any milk. Not only is that humiliating, but it also makes you a stinking hoodlum. :-p

Sixty bajillion points to anybody who gets the most random reference I've ever made, by the way.

DV's Fox



ha

I hate milk on cereal! It makes it mushy. yuck!




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