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kc692 -> RE: Experience or converted? (9/7/2005 7:59:41 PM)
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ORIGINAL: TexasMaam
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I met my present pet through the internet, but it was not on a BDSM site. Actually, (in my opinion) he is of the yummy variety that never thought about being involved in WIITWD, and, never, if he would have been approached, thought he had a submissive bone in his body. From our conversations, he became very interested, took the initiative and has started reading all the information he could get, including this site forums. Although unexperienced, he very much has the desire to learn, and desire to please me in all respects. He has been able to wrap his mind around the service aspect, and doing this as a way to get kink is not his goal. He is intelligent and eager, and while he definitely shows respect to the Ladies on this forum, knows his submission is to me and me alone. So, although experienced may be nice, in this case I am very happy to mold him for me.
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kc692,
I'm fascinated that you've been so successful introducing this sub to WIITWD. I'm just curious, what was the initial topic that was broached between you, conversationally, that led to discussing the subject?
Was it he, or was it you, who first mentioned anything related to BDSM?
Please share, and thank you for your posts, I enjoy them.
Texas Maam
Thank you for your kind words about my posts, smiles.
I do empathize with your views, but like LA and some of the others, I will tell you, there ARE nilla's out there that will definitely suprise and please you. Here is part of the story about my pet.
We originally met on a vanilla swingers site. I am the moderator for a local group locally, and set up regular meet and greets for the members. He very graciously offered his home for a bbq, as he is on the road alot(he is an over the road truck driver) and since unable to come to alot of the meet and greets, wanted to have one at his home to be able to get to know some of the members in a quieter non bar setting. Since he is on the road, he asked me if I would help him keep track of the online rsvps, etc., and help him with the coordination. He came to my office the week before for us to go over rsvp's, food, emailing of directions to the attending members, etc. Earlier in that first week, he had made a joke, (he may remember how it was worded) and my joking answer was to the effect that he "needed to watch it, he was going to find out about my other personality involving my profile on alt.com"(it is a sister site to the one we met on). He was so intrigued (since that was the only comment I made about the profile)he pulled off the road into a truck stop that lets people get on the internet, and paid 25 cents a minute to be able to read my profile on alt, which states that I am a Domme, and a very short profile as to my wants. He asked some questions from time to time when on the phone prior to our meeting in person, and I was definitely intrigued because he started doing research during the time periods of our talks and meetings.(I didn't know this at the time about the research, until someone told me later. I just knew if I said something about WIITWD, if he looked or sounded puzzled, he always seemed to know about it when we talked again) I happened to have something break at my office that week of our meeting in person , and, he jumped in, stopped me from calling a service person, and very quietly fixed it, because in his words it was a service he was honored to be able to perform for me. He never made a physical advance towards me.The night that he had his party, I had already decided that I was going to stay awhile after the party, and had told him so. After most had left, and the cleaning up had been completed, he got a warm bowl of water, a washcloth, asked me to sit in a recliner, and because it had been a long day, (and I'm sure at one point I had mentioned how sensitive my feet are) he asked for permission to wash and massage my feet. He did not ask for sex, nor was he seeking it, he was worried about pleasing me. He continues to have as his main goal pleasing me.
I have told him I would like him to post a reply on this thread to you also, since you might want his insight as to what made him become interested, because, he says he NEVER thought about participating in WIITWD before meeting me. I do know he definitely is aggressive in business, a self starter, definitely goal oriented, and seemingly "gruff and rough" to everyone else (in other words pretty much alpha in the vanilla world).
Ladies, this is his first post on the boards, although he has been reading them for a little while, smiles. be kind, he has good intentions, smiles. I know you will welcome him to collarme!!
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