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girlygurl -> RE: Something New/Different in Play (2/2/2008 1:54:56 AM)

A new toy can and has been introduced without me knowing of it before hand, and I loved it. Sir knows me well enough to know what I like, so I trust His judgement. Another person? That would be something we would most definitely discuss prior to playing. We've had this discussion and He would prefer that she and I have our time to play before the three of us played together for the first time. Jeesh.... it's not easy finding a third I tell ya... we've been looking for quite a while now. Hmmmm maybe we're just reallllly picky [8D]

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hejira92 -> RE: Something New/Different in Play (2/2/2008 2:41:10 AM)

I consider myself His property; He would never harm His property. That said, we discuss most everything under the sun. Whether it has happened, will happen or will never happen, He has a fairly clear view of my take on things. He decides what will be done, all I must do is react naturally.
 
I recognize many aspects of us in other responses on this thread- He enjoys the mindfuck of setting scenarios in my head; He loves to probe to see how my (warped) mind works; we will often discuss toys, and even purchase them together. But, after the purchase, I may know of the existence of it, but I never know when or how it will be used, so it's still a surprise.
 
I like surprises; "something new/different in play". It keeps me off balance and totally dependent upon Him as my touchstone to reality. Life is good.




DesFIP -> RE: Something New/Different in Play (2/2/2008 2:13:54 PM)

We're monogamous so no adding different people ever. Otherwise, an impact toy is an impact toy. He knows I don't have any tolerance for pain so whether he's tapping my nipples with a chopstick, a wooden spoon or a crop doesn't much matter. Except for crops, they scare me. What we have found is that if he's introducing a new impact toy, then it works best if I'm blindfolded and I don't know about it, before, during or after. The effect of the sensation is what is important.

Now if he were going to do something we've never done, like needles or cutting or electricity, then he would have to talk to me first and get me okay with the idea. Because I would take that as a betrayal.




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