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RE: Help me!!! - 2/2/2008 5:37:40 PM

AFlyInYourWeb

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I'm curious why some subs post blatant jerk off material requests, or requests for "orders" from femdoms (anyone who will answer) and get flamed to a crisp, while other ones, like this guy, actually get responses to his questions. I am not being snarky, I'm really curious. Is it the tone? The nature of the question? The ease of answering it? The tone of who answers him first?

I think it may depend on whether or not they read his profile.

His profile states that he is 21, Gay, and looking for a Master to teach him. That makes it highly unlikely that he posted to "Ask a Mistress" to troll for a Domina.

Furthermore, the whole tone of his profile essay screams: "I'm new at this...I need help to learn."

In this particular instance, I'm pleased that he didn't get flamed [too] badly by [too] many people.

To the OP: The best advice you've received is to wait until there is a mutually-agreed-upon relationship, then let your Master tell you what to wear. Until then, carry on as you have been up to this point.

Good luck.

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RE: Help me!!! - 2/2/2008 7:21:18 PM

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ORIGINAL: AFlyInYourWeb

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

I'm curious why some subs post blatant jerk off material requests, or requests for "orders" from femdoms (anyone who will answer) and get flamed to a crisp, while other ones, like this guy, actually get responses to his questions. I am not being snarky, I'm really curious. Is it the tone? The nature of the question? The ease of answering it? The tone of who answers him first?

I think it may depend on whether or not they read his profile.

His profile states that he is 21, Gay, and looking for a Master to teach him. That makes it highly unlikely that he posted to "Ask a Mistress" to troll for a Domina.

Furthermore, the whole tone of his profile essay screams: "I'm new at this...I need help to learn."

In this particular instance, I'm pleased that he didn't get flamed [too] badly by [too] many people.

To the OP: The best advice you've received is to wait until there is a mutually-agreed-upon relationship, then let your Master tell you what to wear. Until then, carry on as you have been up to this point.

Good luck.

Thank you, This is one of the best answers I got. I was not looking for something to jack off to, I have xtube.com for that. As you read in my profile, I was just looking for advice, because I am very new to this. And I wanted a womans opinion. Its sad that there are people who troll with questions and get me flamed when I ask a serious question. But thanks to all who answered kindly. I think I am going to keep wearing ym cute panties and t-shirt until I am owned. But to also respond to my profile, I do need to update it as I am bi not gay, but I lean more to the gay side, I have never been with a woman at all, and dont know that when it comes down to it I could.

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RE: Help me!!! - 2/2/2008 7:42:45 PM

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RE: Help me!!! - 2/3/2008 5:18:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

I'm curious why some subs post blatant jerk off material requests, or requests for "orders" from femdoms (anyone who will answer) and get flamed to a crisp, while other ones, like this guy, actually get responses to his questions. I am not being snarky, I'm really curious. Is it the tone? The nature of the question? The ease of answering it? The tone of who answers him first?

Akasha

There's a difference asking "I want you women to give me (humiliation) ideas that I might or might not try"

That's asking for play ideas to self administer. Lots of ideas from which he will pick and choose. That is clearly looking for free play.

I don't personally think it is kind or constructive to go on and flame such OP's as wankers looking for wank material. Just give them 10 points for effort. Nice try.

However giving this OP the benefit of the doubt, he asked what is the (one and only) "proper" attire. Its a naive question any new Domme or sub could ask and my answer is there is no "proper" attire.

Further, I don't think it is wise for people to suggest humilation ideas to a person planning to self administer humiliation, no matter how nicely he words the request. He is a stranger and could be unstable, and I said so.

But so what if other women give the OP ideas what to wear to bed or kindly share their own experience? What's the potential harm in that (if the question was genuine)?

BTW the thread was surprisingly funny. I like the chainsaw idea.

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