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Evlgryn -> RE: Subspace..... (3/17/2008 11:47:57 PM)
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Gentlemen, and Ladies:
Research says there is a G-spot, the gutteral sound my slave makes when my cock is hitting a certain angle says there is a G-spot. Still people doubt.
Remember, a womans vagina is not a hole...neither is it all things to all men. A womans anatomy, more than a mans is tied to her mood, her head and who and under what circumstances she is interacting with.
Sure you can poke her and prod her and conclude with scientific certainty that there is no G-spot. But that is the equivalent of a doctor reaching into a mans pants grabbing his member roughly and concluding that all we have wrapped in our boxers is a flacid pink worm. Yes, the random grabbing resembles scientific method. It might be objective and it is (the gold standard of experimental method)...reproducable. But it is totally wrong. A man's cock should not be judged in the rough hands of scientists; but in the moment of engorged purple splendor while being carressed by the women who love us. Cold gusts of artic air and calloused uncaring hands do not bring out the best in anyone.
THE TRUTH IS THE Gspot can't be "FOUND".
You can't jump on it with both feet , plant a flag on it and claim it for god and country. You must seduce, it caress it....convince it to come out and play. Like an erection it is not just a body part...it is a condition of that body part that is brought about by arousal and the interaction of physical and mental stimulus.. The complexity of female human arousal has more than defied medical science, for centuries. She sticks out her clit at medical science like a pink tongue: as much as to say "NYAH NYAH you will never figure us out". But some things we know and can count on. You must hold and carress the whole woman. body and soul (some you should grab and whip...with luck they will let you know which kind they are), if you don't have all of them...you don't have any of them.
While you are sliding your fingers or cock or dildo or whatever you both like best, in and out of that queen of all orifices...you may notice a change in her rythms...breathing...the sounds of her groans. You may not. While slipping two fingers into her pussy in the old "come hither" gesture you may notice the spongey flesh between your finger tips and the back of her pubic bone become more swolen...you may not. Some men never notice any swelling or pulsing of blood and reddening of the lips of the vagina. They may not notice the blush across the breasts and throat that comes with orgasm. These men are either just not paying attention or maybe "She's just not that into you". Neither condition precludes the existence of the Gspot.
The Kinsey studies were published saying the clit was the source of virtually all female orgasms... because their method was fatally flawed. They tested for sensitivity with an instrument the size of a Qtip. You don't have to be a "size queen" to know nothing the size of a Qtip pushed in and out of the vagina is going to make the average american woman cum.. It just ain't gonna happen. So they never saw vaginal (or god forbid anal) orgasms. And their personal sexual experience must have been so lacking or their egos so great, that they couldn't see how wrong they were.
A few things I know to be so. In an intimate and satisfying relationship with a man a womans body learns to anticipate things....starts the ball rolling with lubrication and blood flow and swelling of the nipples, labia ,the walls of the vagina, and yes the G-spot. With time her body learns the ways and rythms of responding to her man by becoming more receptive in a number of ways. Give the Gspot a chance...some of them are shy and slow to make an appearance. Don't beat on it like a castle gate barring your entrance. Slide by it around it , just ignore it some of the time. One fine spring day, you may be just passing by it (with the head of your cock). And you might hear a new sound from your woman a deeper sound. THEN , you will know you are onto something.
Also ....some women flow and squirt. Some to the point of soaking the sheets...some to the point where it squirts out almost like urine. I know, I have polaroids (I am a kinkster what can I say). But it does not taste or smell to my senses like Urine it is almost tasteless I read once it is closer to a man's precum..
I also know if you listen to the brand new research and enthusiasticly manipulate that spongey spot they describe... you will not "stick in your thumb and pull out a plumb". She will likely tell you to stop it makes her feel like she has to pee. Such is life. So go slow and don't put all your eggs in one basket. Which is to say on't be so intent on the G-spot that you forget to whip her and pull her hair.
The first time a woman looked up at me during an intimate clench and asked me if I was a sadist I was 19 and it was not in response to anything sadistic. I had read that pressing the heal of your hand at the base of a womans spine would stimulate a nerve cluster to help her reach orgasm. It may well be true, I think I have seen it with other women...but to this woman it just feel like I was trying to poke her in a painful manner. Since then I have had a profound distrust of book learning translating to the bedroom. Victorian porn knew all about female ejaculation...it is full of descriptions of women "spending". How did these guys forget??
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My final words of wisdom children; lighten up. Don't forget the joys of what we used to call "third base". Any time spent deep in a warm responsive pussy is a good time. And you ladies....isn't any time spent while your man wears that boyish, intent, concentrating look while giving your quim that warm and full feeling better than your favourite soap opera?? Maybe not. You can't please all of the people all of the time. You same sex couples feel free to draw parralels and paraphrase my experiences for your own purposes. We are all human and a few of these words with a little adjustment may suit your needs too.
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