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DisenchantedLife -> RE: Pregnant and Submissive (2/3/2008 6:15:15 PM)
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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1
This thread has been the most vicious read I've ever seen -- and that's AFTER the Mods cleaned it up. It's not unreasonable to ask: WTF??????
Is there something about pregnant women having S-E-X that causes people to vomit slime all over their keyboards?
Absolutely 100% serious question.
I think its the madonna/slut theory. Mothers are supposed to be pure and angelic, ect - they can't be having sex! Its unclean. Thats why in married couples - husbands can't ask their wives to behave like the sluts they pay to sleep with. Ya know what i mean vern?
I think my ex wanted to vomit all over me when I wanted sex while I was pregnant = ) Apparently I was too fat to sleep with.
To the OP: I would caution you to take it slow. Pregnancy is amazing. You really learn how to be a bitch and be digusted by people. Personally, for me, pregnancy is the main time in my life when I just can't deal with any shit. Don't even act stupid around me, cos i'll be calling you on it and letting you know you're a fucking moron. My ex wannabee Dom couldnt even tailgate. ::smiles:: It was like white on rice and walking on glass for him. Poor thing, sorta. Pregnancy saved my life. I'm sure if I didnt end up pregnant, I'd still be in a terrible relationship enabling such horrid things to happen.
Point is. Pregnancy affects everyone different. IF you don't know how it will affect you, take it slow. I know for me, pregnancy makes me a bit of a cougar and people dare not do something as simple as use too many of my paper towels at once (and for the wrong thing)! LOL
Also when the babe comes out, you will most likely be consumed by it. I know when mine came out, I wanted NOBODY by my babe. Every one else was a nuisance. On top of that you're tired, you hurt, and you've got stuff to do! Awesome and exciting things to watch somebody new discover. Hey, i've got a hand!
So if you dont know pregnancy will affect you - emotional, needy, bitchy, ect - take it slow. Make friendships. People to lean on, people to enjoy, and people you can get rid of if you want too. My personal opionon would say - wait until 3 months after birth to make any lasting commitments. You never know, in the time you make your friends - you might find some one who really strikes a chord with you.
Take it easy and take it slow. Pregnancy is your thing. Some like it, some don't. The people that don't care will probably make great friends! Good luck and if you want a friend to lean on - msg me.
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