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femaleslave1353 -> finding a Mistress (2/3/2008 4:48:12 PM)

hi i am looking for a real Mistress for real life not playing on the net but it seems that all people in this site are for cyber,... they don't want to chat they only want to send some pics,.. but i think for finding a right person we should spend some time to know each other so can u give me some advise for finding the experinced mistress who wants to have  real female slave or sub (actually i am new in this life style so i am not sure i am slave or sub)
Rina



azropedntied -> RE: finding a Mistress (2/3/2008 5:10:15 PM)

I would like a Mistress , and can she bring over a  big steak med rare  with a loaded baked tader too .
So after you put this out i am sure your going to have just thousands knocking at your mail box  so could ya please toss a couple my way too .WOW i can not believe how easy that was now i shoulda  gone this route  decades ago /
seriously rina if you desire a Domme / Mistress get out in your local community , go to munches ,join a local org ,attend some events.
Also search for who you are and what path your on first may also be a great step forward .
good luck with all the incomming mail .



SunNMoon -> RE: finding a Mistress (2/3/2008 5:30:40 PM)

Also Rina don't forget to look around you at people you have daily interactions with. D-types also go to bookstores, shopping and do normal socalizing. Keep that in mind when you're looking.

CM is a great place to meet people you just have to keep in mind that you may have to work a little harder to find someone that you are looking for. But they are a lot of people on here that happen to be looking for real life interactions.



EX77SUB -> RE: finding a Mistress (2/6/2008 9:37:15 AM)

Hi,
I am looking to find a older Mistress to serve in the Mass area and South New Hampshire area. I am new to the Life style,Extremely willing to serve and learn. Please if someone willing to help my needs to serve 



LadyPact -> RE: finding a Mistress (2/6/2008 9:59:33 AM)

Ok, some confusion here.  If you are not looking for playing on the net, why contact folks who are wanting to chat?  It seems to Me that if you want to find someone who would be real life, you would be contacting those close to your location, rather than people who, like Me, are some distance away.  You also might want to consider reading the profiles of those you would like to contact, who are specifically looking for females, rather than males.

My best advice to you would be to look in your local area, if you want to meet people in the real world.  Then you can get to know them face to face.





faerytattoodgirl -> RE: finding a Mistress (2/6/2008 10:13:21 AM)

i love these kinds of threads...everyone thinks they can find a Mistress in the shortest time period....it takes many years!!!!!

you could try walmart though.



LadyHathor -> RE: finding a Mistress (2/6/2008 11:58:58 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

you could try walmart though.



Nope not anymore, Sam wanted us to roll back prices and we said "it's not about what you want!"---
 
[8D]



azropedntied -> RE: finding a Mistress (2/6/2008 5:41:04 PM)

Maybe collarme should put a place on here for people seeking others  that have been waiting hours with no luck .I was just shopping ay Costco and did not find any wholesale Dommes  there either .



faerytattoodgirl -> RE: finding a Mistress (2/6/2008 6:15:46 PM)

did u check the smoking section?



kalimachild -> RE: finding a Mistress (2/6/2008 10:57:14 PM)

You might have better luck finding most of us at Home Depot.  The things you can use in play are endless and most of us are always on the look out for a better toy <G>



azropedntied -> RE: finding a Mistress (2/6/2008 11:50:18 PM)

Nope i was in the candy section [:D]
PS- i prefer Lowes  and Ace Hardware .



faerytattoodgirl -> RE: finding a Mistress (2/7/2008 10:56:35 AM)

dollar stores have more items usable for scening than any place...and is only $1!



fun4u77 -> RE: finding a Mistress (2/7/2008 12:45:52 PM)

I have to agree with what has already said here (except the home depot there, but i will go there more often now LOL!!!)
Finding a mistress is not the easiest thign to do. Finding one that has the same views about subbing as you do, is even harder. If you read people's profiles and journals you wil see that many people get discouraged. It almost seems a right of passage to search and search and search. But the best advice I can give, (and i am willing to bet many would agree) is to try and define what you want out of being a submissive, that will help you figure out what kind of Domme you are looking for. Then you get to really work and try and find one that "works for you" ( i know terrible choice of words, but at least i put it in quotations!)



MisPandora -> RE: finding a Mistress (2/7/2008 10:23:52 PM)

Rina,

Where would the harm be in learning about BDSM and what you're trying to fit yourself into before trying to "locate a mistress"????  Have you given consideration to exploring the local BDSM and kink world (you're somewhere in NJ but I have no idea where to point you in the correct direction)????  You can email me on the other side and give me a hint -- I'll do what I can to give you some local resources/groups/educational opportunities.  You'll then be able to understand what the difference between submissive and slave is, and know some of what you're asking a mistress/owner before you venture into deep waters.



sillyfrillyboy -> RE: finding a Mistress (2/7/2008 10:27:34 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

i love these kinds of threads...everyone thinks they can find a Mistress in the shortest time period....it takes many years!!!!!

you could try walmart though.



they have them at walmart now... that store really does have everything... :)



GoddessDustyGold -> RE: finding a Mistress (2/8/2008 11:53:19 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

did u check the smoking section?


There's a smoking section?  Sheeesh!
And here I have been staying away from Costco!
"sub pick up in the deli !"



goddessAVA -> RE: finding a Mistress (2/8/2008 1:21:46 PM)

hi there-you wrote me and I did not respond because your text made no sense and your pics look too good to be true-I pegged you as a fake profile, front for a boy trying to meet a Domme.  That's the brutal truth



Aimtoplease101 -> RE: finding a Mistress (2/8/2008 5:54:57 PM)

If you focus on people close by, you might find that chatting/ photo exchange leads to phone calls, which may lead to a meeting, which may lead to .....

Regards, ATP



RedMagic1 -> RE: finding a Mistress (2/8/2008 6:08:47 PM)

I perved your profile, and I had the same hit that Ava did.



MistressOfGa -> RE: finding a Mistress (2/9/2008 1:28:17 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHathor

quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

you could try walmart though.



Nope not anymore, Sam wanted us to roll back prices and we said "it's not about what you want!"---
 
[8D]



Oh My Gawd!! LMAO!!



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