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It's called Micromanagement, and for many it's the ultimate high or extreme of TPE M/s relationships. It requires a lot more of a Masters time, thought and engery on their end. Many people find "Micromanagement" to be a dirty word, and many people are simply not cut out to manage or be managed in this fashion. Personally, I've always loved it for training!/ Dare I admit it openly in public, it gives me fuzzy feeling. The trick is get into a routine and daily ritual when doing it. I've never been in a 24/7 relationship with somebody who Loved, craved or enjoyed it for prolong periods of time.
Dare I admit it, it would be interesting at working at it in a 24/7 TPE relationship! It's part of my darker side I have not fully lived out, yet often gravitate towards and have to keep in check at times.
I tend to take as much control as one can submit to me. Submission is a somewhat relative term for me. Different levels of submission based on the level of power exchanged. I've yet to be with anybody who craves and was willing to be fully micromanaged. Tempting thoughts for this morning.
There has been times, when I was not prepared for micromanagement games in past relationships. Where if I had been, I perhaps would not have been so annoyed. Basically, if it had become a routine it probally would have went over smoothly with me. Having somebody interupt me to make a small decision for them, when I was in the middle of something else, not prepared nor even thinking about dealing with it, was bothersome. Hence why I call it play the Micromanagement game, where if I have not been responsible for making a decision or choice over something 80-90% of the time. Don't expect me to magically suprise me with it when I'm in the middle of some matter more important at the time. I suspect this is in part where many Dom/Masters have a problem with this. Just a matter of getting into an establish routine and set level of power exchange.
Many sub/slave enjoy having smaller levels of control over themselves in a M/s relationship. However, getting a routine set in stone about when to brush your teeth, take a bath, and when to do what actually might free up more time compared to consuming it. Plus it gives more of sense of order in life. Plus, having control over somebody else diet makes people more aware of eating better foods. People often eat all kinds of crap without regards to thier own health, if one has the power over anothers diet, it might make them be more aware of how their own choices. So, I'll toss this thought out there for everybody to eat up.
I know I'm at risk of taking some heat by other people on the message board, but Micromanagement does have it's Pro's as well as Con's.
Mentally, it also reinforces the TPE dynamic and can keep it in check and test it. Yeah, Yeah, Yeah... see somebody make a post about it being "Barbie Doll Syndrome". I'm sitting here laughing about the fact, I came up with an tatoo branding concept for a set of "Barbie Doll" Tattoo's... awhile back. Some slave girl in the UK was looking for humilation branding Tattoo's. My idea involved a set of tattoo's as follows.. 1. Matel Logo 2. Barbie Logo 3. UPC bar code 4. For Ages 18+ 5. Type of Barbie
(Slave Barbie, Slut Barbie, Bondage Barbie, or something similar). 6. Price of Barbie..
You can read my post here: http://www.collarchat.com/m_1009839/mpage_4/key_/tm.htm#1017429
Damn it, I knew there was something to this tattoo concept I came up with. I appear to be suffering from "Barbie Doll Syndrome", crap I wonder how long before there's cure. Perhaps this can't be cured, I guess I'm screwed and have to live with my twisted up kinks and BDSM mindset.
Hope nobody is spewing their morning cup of coffee on their monitors this morning reading this post.
Micromanage is something I have re-explored in introspection this last year afer this thread...
http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=1000693
Anways, my thoughts on micromanagement and Barbie Dolls at the moment.
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RE: A micromanagement fetish...is there a name for this? - 
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