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To shave or not to shave... - 2/5/2008 4:45:28 PM   
LadyKrystie


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From: Tampa Bay, Fl.
Status: offline 		I know of several Dom/mes (myself included) who require that their submissives keep their pubic area shaved bare as a symbol of their "submissive stature".  Plus, it also makes it a little easier to get the wax off!!  Lol.

I also know that the current "trend" in society is to keep things either bare or barely there.  When I ask some of my vanilla friends what they prefer, their answer is more often than not "I like that puppy naked!"

So I can't help but wonder...  How many Dom/mes keep theirs natural or lightly trimmed- mainly as an expression of THEIR Dominance?  Kind of an in your face "you may not like it hairy, but get down there anyway" kind of thing?

So...  Question for the ladies...  Do you go a la natural, trimmed, or bare yourself?

I know...  The weird shit that goes through my head sometimes.  Lol

Thanks for the replies.

Lady K
The Loving Domme.

BTW - When do I get rid of that frickin ice cream cone??

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RE: To shave or not to shave... - 2/5/2008 4:56:51 PM   
Kaiynasha


Posts: 172
Joined: 10/9/2007
Status: offline 		With all the serious conversations going on in here- I just have to to answer this one. It really depends on my mood. Part of me enjoys being bare and smooth. While other times I like being a furry lotus flower. I remember when i was younger- I use to have a special comb for her. Small little black comb and I took pride and beautifying her. So I go both ways I guess :). 

As for subs. I prefer them to be shaved, smooth- I find it a great turn-on. :D

MK 

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RE: To shave or not to shave... - 2/5/2008 4:59:16 PM   
PanthersMom


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From: Cleveland Ohio
Status: offline 		whatever strikes me at the time, i don't have a preference.

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RE: To shave or not to shave... - 2/5/2008 5:14:31 PM   
fasn8nsub


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Status: offline 		Even though i would never say anything, my Master knows i prefer Him trimmed and shaved.  As a treat, He will groom Himself that way every so often, but usually He is natural.

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RE: To shave or not to shave... - 2/5/2008 5:47:29 PM   
PsyVamp


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Status: offline 		50 posts if I remember correctly... then again, I suffer from CRS so you'll have to check the forum notes.

As far as shaving.... as the mood strikes is also my motto.  I've been known to not shave at all or shave it all off.. ;)

As far as my pet.. as long as its neat, I have no preference (except, as noted, if I were going to attempt wax play...hmmm, I am a sadist, maybe we'll just leave it on anyway)

yes I know, I answered this in reverse order.

Lady Jag

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RE: To shave or not to shave... - 2/5/2008 6:02:28 PM   
bignipples2share


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Status: offline 		I guess I'm really moody about it. For myself, shaving is a nightmare...little bumps from hell..waxing and I get bruises. I've had it french braided with bows lol..I've had it shaved as a little heart. Usually it's natural these days.

For him, always nicely combed and trimmed. Tried the shaving thing once, was nice, not stray hairs, but I kinda prefer the hair in that area.

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RE: To shave or not to shave... - 2/5/2008 6:14:13 PM   
MistressFaye1


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Status: offline 		The guys, shaved.  Me... I have a vanilla friend that trims the cutest things.  I've had a heart, and arrow pointed "there" (my favorite), a teddy bear head, and a smiley face.  He always asks me when he can "get it" and I tell him when he learns to respect it.  Last trip he put the "P" in polite.  And no... he didn't get "it".  lol  But he's  learning.  I wonder...

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RE: To shave or not to shave... - 2/5/2008 6:20:04 PM   
bignipples2share


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Status: offline 		That is so cute. Made me giggle

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RE: To shave or not to shave... - 2/5/2008 6:54:28 PM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		I keep mine bare thats how I like it and his also. I just don't like bodyhair.

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RE: To shave or not to shave... - 2/5/2008 7:00:19 PM   
Sasy


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From: Texas
Status: offline 		I have  stayed shaved for a long time  due to the fact that ...well .... my  gramma blamed  lack of body  hair on being German but who knows ... I just prefer it that  way  since there isnt  much  there... but Master has recently  told me I will be growing it back for awhile ... I  think  it has something to  do  with control but thats okay I will  do  what  he chooses ...  I  dont think it is so much  a submissive statement  but it does come in handy with  little girl  play time :-)

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RE: To shave or not to shave... - 2/5/2008 9:10:36 PM   
ItalianSMistress


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Joined: 1/19/2007
From: Niagara Region Ontario Canada
Status: offline 		I dont shave anything on My body at all.  I never have, that was just always too girly for Me.  That is the reason, like you would never see Me carry a handbag or wear womans clothes, so that just feels right to Me.  I am not a hairy person tho at all, in fact most ppl are shocked to find out that I dont shave, cuz you really would not know.  Perhaps if I was, it would be different, I dont know.
I like My boys bare, and My girls trimmed tho.

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RE: To shave or not to shave... - 2/5/2008 9:20:53 PM   
Shawn1066


Posts: 987
Joined: 10/7/2007
Status: offline 		My body is completely devoid of body hair.  This is not because of my status as my Owner's slave.  This is because I -hate- body hair.  However, she's been very helpful, and she urged me along in the beginning.

She keeps herself clean shaven as well, and she's given me pointers and even my own cool girly razor. *squeal*

*coughs and tries to hold onto his masculinity.*

I've learned to shave her a bit too, one day I hope to be able to do it quickly so she doesn't have to.

DV's Fox


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RE: To shave or not to shave... - 2/5/2008 9:35:28 PM   
SubJordanTyler


Posts: 268
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Status: offline 		My body is always completely free of hair.  Some of it has to do with play (as yes, the wax is easier to get off!!), some of it has to do with personal preference, and some has to do for when I transform into a woman.  Past dommes have also all liked me hair-free as well.

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RE: To shave or not to shave... - 2/5/2008 10:19:57 PM   
MistressHolly71


Posts: 354
Joined: 7/4/2007
From: Southern Maryland
Status: offline 		For me, it depends on my mood.  Sometimes I shave, sometimes I don't.  As far as anyone else, I prefer them shaved.

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RE: To shave or not to shave... - 2/5/2008 10:34:02 PM   
SolangeRichards


Posts: 170
Joined: 5/8/2005
Status: offline 		No hair below the eyebrows.

No wire hangers either......

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RE: To shave or not to shave... - 2/6/2008 5:14:42 AM   
MsCfromMelbourne


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyKrystie

So...  Question for the ladies...  Do you go a la natural, trimmed, or bare yourself?

Thanks for the replies.

Lady K
The Loving Domme.



Brazilians hurt and shaving just makes you scratchy within days

I invested in laser hair removal.  Hurt my wallet more than anything. 


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RE: To shave or not to shave... - 2/6/2008 5:24:41 AM   
malloves69


Posts: 913
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Status: offline 		2 years ago my mistress had me tied up and bound and she proceded to shave me  she told me thats how she wanted to see me from now on and today im still shaved smooth  big head also ....she likes my chest hair so that stayed ...by the way shes mostly shaved too  better eating i think when the ladys are shaved so the men should be too if thats  how a woman wants it  have fun ..mal

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RE: To shave or not to shave... - 2/6/2008 5:33:43 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		Seeing that i dont have any body hair and besides my head thats the only other place I have hair. I leave it alone. I think that they are both attached. If I pull one out then one will come out at the other end. Im not ready to go bald yet. I like some pubic hair on women. Im afraid if I go down on a woman with no hair there it is going to eat me.  

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RE: To shave or not to shave... - 2/6/2008 8:41:43 AM   
LadyHathor


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Status: offline 		Slick and smooth.

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RE: To shave or not to shave... - 2/6/2008 10:36:11 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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From: Island Of Misfit Toys
Status: offline 		Guys should be shaved or closely trimmed.  A weedwhacker is not part of my CBT arsenal---yet! :)

Me, I am a combination, mainly because I feel cleaner that way!  I wasn't blessed with a 70's porn star bush, so I look better without.  I'm not a terribly hairy person.



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