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Dnomyar -> RE: "I'm not like other Doms"... (2/6/2008 11:48:12 AM)
subtee your french really turns me on. Nice post LadyHugs

meticulousgirl -> RE: "I'm not like other Doms"... (2/6/2008 11:57:10 AM)
i think the whole point of this is to say: I'm not a computer zombie who does nothing but play video games and am just looking for a sub in order to get some kinky sex... to me there is more to the lifestyle then that, to my Owner it's the same way, I have yet to see another "Dominant" on here that i would actually consider in my area, if you cant get away from the video games long enough to create a relationship your not worth my time to begin with. ~meticulous~

Mavis -> RE: "I'm not like other Doms"... (2/7/2008 12:20:25 AM)
pfft... Mstr says that alla time to me, and i reply, "You damn well better be like the other Doms, i didn't sign up to serve a sub". C/mon, there are come common traits that i definately expected to be there, just like He expected certain "like the other subs" deals with me.

xAdamx -> RE: "I'm not like other Doms"... (2/7/2008 2:29:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyLolly Checks in the mail... I won't cum in your mouth....... My pecker is only three inches ....from the floor I'm a 23 year old underwear model....... I weigh 117 lbs (and then put my other butt cheek on the scale) I'm very good looking (for a primate) Maybe a new thread - what's the biggest BS line we've ever gotten. grinzzz lol...this has got to start a new thread...titled....all time worst pick up/chat up lines.. mmmmmm how about.....hey hon heres a quarter phone your mom your not coming home to night..

tulitukka -> RE: "I'm not like other Doms"... (2/7/2008 6:07:48 AM)
This reminds me of the most common pick up line that people attribute to students of tech in my country: "I'm not a typical tech. student" everybody would say and the girls I know say that they'd never met one single tech. student who would say they are a typical one. So afterwards, I started telling everybody that I am a typical tech. student (which did get a lot of chuckles from people, not only because that's one thing they never expected, but because they found it so very hard to believe that I am and could see the irony). So yes, doing things vice versa can actually work in breaking the ice and showing you understand the stereotypes. Realistically though, I think most people who start on this journey can see: "there's something differenet in me from all those posters and other writers". But one might not have a solid grasp on what it is that makes you different. I struggled with that myself, I could see that I did not fit in the typical sadist box, nor the dominant box, nor the master/owner box. I am a living, thinking, and feeling being with all the quirks it brings and it took me quite a while to even start understanding what it is that makes me tick. For me, as well as for the rest of us, the ticking does set us apart as certainly as it brings us together. I get kicks out of leadership, the two edged sword of responsibility and right - which sets me apart from many people. Some people share that trait, and luckily some people enjoy relationships in which the dominant partner leads. At the same time, I don't think it is that rare for dominants to have this kink, so it also sets me into a context within which there can be mutual understanding and shared qualities. So perhaps I am quite a typical dominant after all. :)

Kana -> RE: "I'm not like other Doms"... (2/7/2008 6:35:33 AM)
Its like the movie singles where the guy tries to pick up the chick and syas he has no line. To which she says I think your line is that you have no line.

DisenchantedLife -> RE: "I'm not like other Doms"... (2/7/2008 11:29:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: meticulousgirl if you cant get away from the video games long enough to create a relationship your not worth my time to begin with. ~meticulous~ Sometimes they CAN get away from the video games long enough to create a relationship, but not long enough to sustain the relationship........... and sometimes they can get away long enough to create and sustain the relationship............. until they're back at the video games and yer thinking... wtf? People don't always exhibit their bad behaviors up front. Sometimes they hide the bad behaviors until your good and comfortable and secured into the relationship....

DaggerDom -> RE: "I'm not like other Doms"... (2/7/2008 10:13:31 PM)
Every Thanksgiving I thank Jupiter that I am not the same as other doms.

tigerstyle -> RE: "I'm not like other Doms"... (2/8/2008 7:42:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SophiaCorrupted Do these Doms realize how many other Doms send the exact same message? Not to be a jerk, but the last 3 messages I've received have said "I'm not like other Doms." in the first two sentences. I just find it very ironic in how boilerplate it is to say that you're different...as if they think that anyone sends out messages saying "I'm very average." or "I'm like all the other Doms on this site." [sm=ugh.gif] [sm=ugh.gif] I need an emotiocon with me falling asleep at my keyboard... Nothing wrong with doms trying to set themselves apart, this is after all a competition for available subs. What's generic is the lack of imagination. Show (how you are different), don't Tell. Creative Writing 101.

Owner4SexSlave -> RE: "I'm not like other Doms"... (2/8/2008 7:50:03 AM)
I'm not like other DOMs... I'd use you until you could barely crawl across the floor and have you begging me to please stop. lol

mnottertail -> RE: "I'm not like other Doms"... (2/8/2008 7:58:53 AM)
I remember my father telling me -- and it is one of the few memories I retain of the man, from one of his visits home, and how I do cherish it -- he said, "Goldthwait, you are not formed as other little boys. YourMaster

Jeffff -> RE: "I'm not like other Doms"... (2/8/2008 8:03:25 AM)
Is it a good idea to give your last name out?....oh well it's your ass anonymous

GreedyTop -> RE: "I'm not like other Doms"... (2/8/2008 8:20:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Owner4SexSlave I'm not like other DOMs... I'd use you until you could barely crawl across the floor and have you begging me to please stop. lol melt

Dnomyar -> RE: "I'm not like other Doms"... (2/8/2008 10:16:10 AM)
By the way Jefff what is your last name?

PanthersMom -> RE: "I'm not like other Doms"... (2/8/2008 12:35:29 PM)
that line always gets me rolling. "i'm not like other doms" is right up there with "the check is in the mail", "i won't cum in your mouth" and "i'm from the government, i'm here to help you". yeah right! PM

AMaster -> RE: "I'm not like other Doms"... (2/8/2008 12:38:26 PM)
What's the problem??? No two DOMs's are the same- and no two subs/slaves are the same

SailingBum -> RE: "I'm not like other Doms"... (2/8/2008 2:06:49 PM)
I am like all the other doms you talked with. Which is why your still looking and won't find one cuz we are all the same. BadOne

SophiaCorrupted -> RE: "I'm not like other Doms"... (2/8/2008 2:09:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AMaster What's the problem??? No two DOMs's are the same- and no two subs/slaves are the same Well, my point was that there's no reason at all to say you're different, on account of the fact of what you've said is true.

RedMagic1 -> RE: "I'm not like other Doms"... (2/8/2008 2:28:05 PM)
Hey Sophia, if it helps, you could think about how people gets dates in vanilla real life. The guy tries to appear different, and to stand out somehow. Sometimes this leads to pretty dorky behavior. Sometimes the behavior might be dorky, but it's adorably cute anyway, so the girl goes for it. Many guys online have a hard time getting dates in vanilla real, because they are shy in social situations. But they know they should stand out somehow, so they figure by writing, "I'm different," they will stand out because they are announcing they are different. As you know, actions speak louder than words, and just saying, "I have a million dollars" does not make you a millionaire. So hang in there until you see guys who really are different and interesting to you. Also, write the men (and women) who post things you find are interesting. If their words and thoughts stand out to you, they really are different from other Doms.

DesFIP -> RE: "I'm not like other Doms"... (2/8/2008 3:34:08 PM)
I'm glad I'm not a man on this site. We expect perfect emails with a command of the English language a poetry professor would envy. We expect him to show his assertiveness and his tender side at once. We expect a sense of humor to be displayed in such a manner that everyone would laugh and no one would be offended or bored. And it should all be done is less than four sentences because nobody wants to read a cold call that goes on and on. It can't be done. The Man is a math/tech wiz. Masters in Engineering. 30 years after college he's tutoring his daughter in Regents physics without a calculator or a copy of the textbook. But I proofread his letters. His profile is not subtly witty nor romantic neither does it exude an aura of dominance. It's just a plain profile written by a straight forward man. If he was the sort to be able to write witty lines to capture strange females from afar at the first reading, then he wouldn't also be the man who has fixed 7 cars in his spare time in the last month for every member of our blended family. He wouldn't be the man who gets up in the morning, works hard and does what needs to be done. He wouldn't be the man he is who I can rely on. He would be an author, a literary agent, a journalist. But he wouldn't be anyone I would be interested in.

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