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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/6/2008 3:06:36 PM

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We can't snuggle because he's always hot and I'm always cold. We each stick to our side of the king size with our own covers. He keeps a fan blowing on him all night 365.

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/6/2008 3:19:18 PM

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I chase mine across the bed in my sleep, he shoves me back to my side from time to time.
Once he discovers I can't crowd him if I'm tied to my side, I expect that will change.

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/6/2008 3:31:43 PM

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When he's here, he sleeps next to me. Curled up on his tiny side of the bed. I hate having a small bed. :(

But usually I wake up and have to shove him off the bed because he's latched onto me in our sleep and keeping me in place. Ugh.

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/6/2008 4:07:39 PM

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I sleep spoon style with Master wrapped in his arms.

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/6/2008 4:09:50 PM

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http://www.collarchat.com/m_867983/mpage_1/key_bed/tm.htm#868301
where do you sleep?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_594226/mpage_1/key_bed/tm.htm#594229
sleeping on the floor?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1321110/mpage_1/key_bed/tm.htm#1324763
Curious...

http://www.collarchat.com/m_594226/mpage_1/key_sleep%252Cfloor/tm.htm#594229
Sleeping on the floor???

http://www.collarchat.com/m_498860/mpage_1/key_sleep%252Cfloor/tm.htm#499691
Bedtime

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1039857/mpage_1/key_sleep/tm.htm#1040122
Sleeping on the floor

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/6/2008 4:13:19 PM

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I'm a horrendously restless sleeper, even when I'm 'with' someone I usually end up on the couch. As of today I've gone 33 nights without full sleep. Yes I'm whining I know but I'm on the edge of collapse, I get a max of 45 minutes before I jerk awake and I think I'm losing my mind.

No matter what I try, I can't stay asleeeeeeeeeeeep. Tonight I'm trying alcohol mixed with my meds. Bah. Sorry for the whine but I'm at my wits end. Hehehe that means I'm either a half wit, or witless!

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/6/2008 4:15:46 PM

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I sleep in the bed... usually fall asleep in his arms. Sometimes at his feet but usually later in the night he pulls me back up near him. I have to ask permission to sleep in his bed though and he does not always grant me permission right away. I shiver in anticipation at the day he does not allow me to sleep in the bed. Of course I'll be sad but will love it too. Ahhh the joys of being a masochist.

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/6/2008 4:16:50 PM

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i'm going to reply to this the same way i did the last time it was asked...i sleep either on the couch or in his bed, depending on where he is sleeping... He has a single bed, so while it's great to lay together it's not very realistic to sleep there.....

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/6/2008 4:27:59 PM

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I sleep where the Cats let me. *grin*

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/6/2008 4:28:11 PM

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if i'm with Him i make a nest by the wall with Him on the outside. He doesn't make me but that's the pattern that we've fallen into.

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/6/2008 4:41:18 PM

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h,mmm, well i have my own room and bed, so i can hear the baby and not wake them, but sometimes i sleep with sir and maam in there bed, but not to often as sir sleeps in teh middle and i move and kick a lot in my sleep, kicked sir in his happy parts once. that and maams become oddly protective of her bed. sometimes on the couch when my room is too cold for the baby.

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/6/2008 6:47:27 PM

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When i'm with family; i sleep in the livingroom, either on the floor or the couch (usually on the floor, cause there's usually someone else in the living room and i can be just as comfy on the floor as on the couch). Ma'am sleeps with Her Daddy/Husband.

One evening, i was given the offer to sleep next to Her side of the bed; but for the same reasons it was offered, i had to decline. i was thrown into my first visit with subspace that night and was really sensitive and scared and was afraid of Her touch (yeah, i have drama LoL).

As much as i would love to sleep with Her (and Her Husband/Daddy, so long as She's between us), it just isn't doable; even if it's on the floor. i don't sleep much and am generally up hours after everyone else goes to bed and before they wake, so i need to be able to sit and read or whatever without worrying about disturbing the others. Also, since it's most often during our game weekends; i take the time at night to quietly go about those chores that i can't do during the day without disrupting the others.

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/6/2008 6:50:54 PM

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My girl sleeps with me with my arm holding her against me.

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/6/2008 7:09:16 PM

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On my queen size bed....alone...wandering thoughts about how nice it would be to snuggle :(. *shrugs*

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/6/2008 7:53:20 PM

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When Fox sleeps with me, he is either curled up in my arms, or laying across my back. I have a bad back and hips, and I cant be on my side for long some nights. We discovered quite by accident that the combination of pressure and heat from him being on my back makes it feel better and so he tries to sleep up there when he can. Even if he is not on me that way, no matter where we wind up , he is always touching me when we sleep.

If Angel and I sleep in the same bed, he is on his side, and me on mine. Our hands might touch, but thats about it and even that is rare. He does like to reach over and touch my back, often, to make sure i am still there.

When my former pet and current friend Kitten sleeps over, we dont even share a blanket. He wil sleep next to me, but he is not a social sleeper. He wrappes himself up in his blanket and i dont exist until the next mornng.

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/6/2008 8:06:40 PM

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Firm and I sleep next to each other in whatever manner is most comfortable for us at the time. Most often it's me spooned against him... as much as I adore being locked in his embrace, intolerable hot flashes cause me to throw off covers and distance myself from anything heat generating or heat retaining... *sighs* beloved dominant included. My cuddling up to his back gives me the most freedom to move away from him without waking him.

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/6/2008 10:27:33 PM

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Master Archer and I share a king size bed..he on one side with extra quilts and me on the other side with a minimum of covers (damned hormones).

The dog sleeps in the middle for about the first 30 minutes.

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/6/2008 10:34:19 PM

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i spoon my pillow in the middle of my big empty bed and pretend it is an actual person i'm cuddled up to

yeah i know, i'm pathetic LOL

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/6/2008 10:37:43 PM

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It all depends.

i always sleep in the bed with him....the configuration differs.

Sometimes i sleep snuggled at his feet, much like you describe in the OP..i sleep on my tummy and so if i am watching t.v. that way i occasionally fall asleep like that.

Most nights i sleep on the left side of the bed, against the wall. This is my prefered side, and he ALLOWS this (cause he would prefer me on the other side, but for certain reasons, sleeping on the other side is very hard on me)....When i sleep on the left side i am sometimes in his arms (which is great but doesn't usually last all night)

On the occasion that he holds me on the right side i am totally snuggled up in his arms, and i stay there until he tells me i can go to the other side.

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RE: Where Do You Sleep? - 2/6/2008 11:28:08 PM

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I sleep in bed, wrapped around a body pillow, facing the wall, cuddling a teddy bear with plugs in my ears.

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