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seeksfemslave -> RE: The Horror We Call Humanity (2/7/2008 1:54:28 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MissMorrigan
I've beaten my browser.

And here's me thinking you were  a lady lol

Incidently quite by accident , dont really know what happened, I came across a porn site run by MissMorrigan he he he he he he he




MissMorrigan -> RE: The Horror We Call Humanity (2/7/2008 1:56:40 PM)

Aswad, thank you for your reply and of course I don't mind the rant. To be honest, I do not really believe that people, as a whole, have stopped caring. I know that relates to individuals and my reaction yesterday was one of shock, from which I was still reeling at having seen the clip and the lack of action by the witnesses to that woman's murder reminded me of those that watched my assault and did nothing.

I genuinely believe attitudes have changed, Aswad. Fifteen/Twenty years ago the same heinous crimes occurred, maybe not on the scale they do in latter years and that's largely due to an expanding population, I feel, but people would have been outraged to see something of that nature especially between a man and a woman. During my formative years and leading into my late teens, if a man even so much as struck a woman in public (or anyone that lacked as much capability of defending themselves as the man) he was 'taken care of'. I am, of course, speaking generally and there are those exceptions. I guess the difference in my experiences/observations is relative to lack of exposure to large city environment.
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ORIGINAL: Aswad
It's always somebody else's problem.
People don't feel responsible or accountable.
A nebulous "somebody" ought to do "something."

Guess what? There's never really a "somebody" around.


Thank you for mentioning the Milgram Experiment. It answered a lot of questions for me especially regarding personal accountability. Resources are stretched in our communities, the response times for emergency services are slower (too little to go around) and I personally feel that people are less likely to engage in severe behaviours in public if they knew that it would not be tolerated. As you pointed out, reliance on others to take the lead often leads to inaction and the consequences of this we hear about when we read/listen to the news, console our friends, family and neighbours who recant their stories of victimisation or simply have seen firsthand the results of our hesitance to step in. 
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ORIGINAL: Aswad
The threshold to engage in violence is very high for most people. It drops significantly when they don't feel accountable for their actions (as demonstrated in the Milgram Experiment and its successors). But even then, there is a significant resistance to actually doing what it takes to stop someone who is sufficiently out of their mind to do a thing like that. Some people don't have a problem committing to the removal of a threat, but they are rare and often unappreciated. Thing is, the police will almost never be there when violence happens, nor should they (the required infrastructure is incompatible with a healthy society). Which is why people need to be prepared to deal with it themselves, and that usually requires letting the beast off the leash and reverting to the same primitive state as the aggressor.


And why many people refuse to obey authorities - b/c rarely are authoritative figures in positions of authority, as in the case of the bus driver who clearly knew that the attack was occurring, but blocked it out rather than take affirmative action.
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ORIGINAL: Aswad
That's what was missing on that bus: the person everyone else was genetically programmed to follow.


In my teens and going into my 20s I studied/practised muay thai and wado ryu. Then I encountered someone who took me along to self defence classes that were taught specifically for women in relation to disadvantages in height/strength, etc... and based on using natural instincts and training the person to respond automatically without hesitating. I found it a much more natural and practical form of self defence.
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ORIGINAL: Aswad
I've seen martial artists get their asses handed to them for the simple reason that they weren't committed enough to let go. And I've seen people with no training do amazing things because they were committed. I'm not about to claim to be überskilled myself, and my hormonal issues have fucked up my physique pretty badly. To be quite honest, I'd probably stand little chance against a serious attacker. But I don't hold back, and I'm not afraid to die. That stops most things before they start, when eyes meet and the other party realizes that if I can strangle them with my own guts before dying, I will. When they're not after you personally, there are other fish in the sea.






MissMorrigan -> RE: The Horror We Call Humanity (2/7/2008 2:03:05 PM)

That depends on your personal definition of a 'lady', Seeks [;)]

I got my moniker from my ex husband who looked over my shoulder as I read through a book on celtic mythology and said, "Morrigan, my dear, a divine and sexual whirlwind, the war-mongering battleaxe and an old crow - all three scare the shit out of me, no wonder your reputation precedes you!" So it stuck!

If people look hard enough for something, they usually find it, Seeks lol
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ORIGINAL: seeksfemslave
And here's me thinking you were  a lady lol

Incidently quite by accident , dont really know what happened, I came across a porn site run by MissMorrigan he he he he he he he




Muttling -> RE: The Horror We Call Humanity (2/7/2008 9:26:46 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MissMorrigan

In my teens and going into my 20s I studied/practised muay thai and wado ryu. Then I encountered someone who took me along to self defence classes that were taught specifically for women in relation to disadvantages in height/strength, etc... and based on using natural instincts and training the person to respond automatically without hesitating. I found it a much more natural and practical form of self defence.



Good self defense story....


I used to teach a self defense class in college.   It was mostly young women who took the course and our first few classes were just getting them to be aggressive.   To learn how to respond instead of balling up.   We had this one gal who was a bit small and terribly shy, but she started doing better.

A few classes later, we were training on pepper spray and using practice canisters.

After class, the shy gal was walking back to her dorm when some guy tried to grab her backpack.   When campus police got there, she was sitting on top of him.   She'd spray him with pepper, punch him a few times, then scream "You messed with the wrong bitch this time." and repeat.    LMAO



Unfortunately, I had to re-instruct the class on the line between self defense and aggrevated assault after that incident.   Fortunately, the guy didn't file charges against her (I'm pretty sure that no one told him that he could have.)




MissMorrigan -> RE: The Horror We Call Humanity (2/8/2008 12:09:52 AM)

I think, given her size, had she not used any kind of force to kick home that the would-be mugger was NOT going anytime soon, he likely would have had the advantage and I wouldn't even like to contemplate the outcome of that.

In my self defence classes we weren't taught how to use pepper sprays, etc... as that is illegal in the UK, we were taught how to react instinctively in close hand-to-hand situations should a person grab one of us, and if the person has a weapon and threatening its use, to coerce a hands on situation b/c the moment they do that, their position is considerably weakened - they have more control over the situation when a few feet away from the victim, than they do if using one hand/arm to try and restrain the victim. And we were taught to get over the 'ewww I can't do that!' mentality, to doing everything you can to get out of a situation, even if it means blinding the attacker by scraping the nails deeply over the surface of the eyes, or rendering them unable to breathe.
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ORIGINAL: Muttling

Good self defense story....


I used to teach a self defense class in college.   It was mostly young women who took the course and our first few classes were just getting them to be aggressive.   To learn how to respond instead of balling up.   We had this one gal who was a bit small and terribly shy, but she started doing better.

A few classes later, we were training on pepper spray and using practice canisters.

After class, the shy gal was walking back to her dorm when some guy tried to grab her backpack.   When campus police got there, she was sitting on top of him.   She'd spray him with pepper, punch him a few times, then scream "You messed with the wrong bitch this time." and repeat.    LMAO



Unfortunately, I had to re-instruct the class on the line between self defense and aggrevated assault after that incident.   Fortunately, the guy didn't file charges against her (I'm pretty sure that no one told him that he could have.)




MissMorrigan -> RE: The Horror We Call Humanity (2/8/2008 12:49:31 AM)

Hate is too strong an emotion to give those people, CL. I can feel contempt for their actions but rather than waste my emotions on hating people I do what I can (financially speaking) to help strengthen the laws governing animal cruelty. If I see something of the kind you mentioned posted on a profile I report it to the correct authorities.
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ORIGINAL: CuriousLord
Sounds like I have some people I can plainly hate.




Muttling -> RE: The Horror We Call Humanity (2/8/2008 1:24:45 AM)

Here's a few rules I taught....


Be AWARE and look at the people, don't avoid eye contact.   There has been a number of interviews with muggers who passed up individual after individual then picked their target.   The reason was always the same....."They didn't notice me."

Be LOUD, make a huge and spirited comotion.

Be SMART, when you suspect something is up look for ways to avoid the confrontation no matter how well armed you are.

Be PREPARED, keep your weapon hand free at all times.   If you are right handed then you need to keep your purse, keys, cell phone, etc. in your left hand.   Your fighting hand needs to be available at all times and it needs to have access to your weapon if you are carrying one.


The rest are details of close quarters combat, but my basic training was to cripple them (preferably blinding them) and get away.   Don't hang around to see who wins the fight.




MissMorrigan -> RE: The Horror We Call Humanity (2/8/2008 1:42:12 AM)

That is why we have the problems we do b/c there are more and more people with the 'fuck you' and 'life is all about me' attitudes.
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ORIGINAL: Zioperion

Fuck everybody .Care only about yourself .Money and power is the only way to move on in this stupid fucked up world.People are just weak closed minded humans .

"The strong will resist and the weak will say anything to end the pain."

nX.Phreak





NorthernGent -> RE: The Horror We Call Humanity (2/8/2008 1:49:00 AM)

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

It is simply how do you view life? And do you allow yourself to be swept away and affected by all of the nonsense that comes your way?



Exactly. Perception of the world is a reflection of the self.




MissMorrigan -> RE: The Horror We Call Humanity (2/8/2008 1:50:21 AM)

One of my interests is criminal psychology/forensics. Criminal sub-types know exactly the type of victim to single out, whether they be muggers, rapists, serial killers, etc... Women tend to freeze up when confronted by a 'big brute' of a man threatening them, and that's exactly what gives the attacker the advantage.

There was a spate of gang bangings in the UK/US some years ago, mainly on tubes and the target of those gang bangers were other MEN. The guys perpetrating those crimes knew that they could quickly subdue their victim b/c the victim, in feeling shame, would be less likely to create a scene bringing attention to the fact that he was being raped, the rapists were also fairly confident that their crimes would come to light b/c of men not wanting to suffer the indignity of publicly declaring that they had sexually submitted to another man.
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ORIGINAL: Muttling




seeksfemslave -> RE: The Horror We Call Humanity (2/8/2008 1:54:35 AM)

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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent
Exactly. Perception of the world is a reflection of the self.


I'll remember that the next and umpteenth time some bastard tries to steal my beloved motor bike.




MissMorrigan -> RE: The Horror We Call Humanity (2/8/2008 1:57:55 AM)

Very flawed logic, NG.
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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent
Exactly. Perception of the world is a reflection of the self.




NorthernGent -> RE: The Horror We Call Humanity (2/8/2008 2:00:13 AM)

Why's that, then?




MissMorrigan -> RE: The Horror We Call Humanity (2/8/2008 2:02:47 AM)

I should put you in touch with my mother, Seeks. She'd give you amazing advice on how to protect your property.

As I've stated before, she's rather 'eccentric' to say the least. Approx. 20 years ago a youth that lived in our road was known to be stealing motorbikes, mopeds and bicycles, then selling them on. My mother owned a moped, and very proud of it she was, too! She heard a commotion in the early hours and scared away the person that was attempting to steal her moped. She devised a cunning plan to wire up her moped at nights to the MAINS, which was also wired to the metal back door handle incase they should try to enter the house! It was only through sheer luck (I put a stop to it when I found out) that no one was hurt/killed.
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ORIGINAL: seeksfemslave
I'll remember that the next and umpteenth time some bastard tries to steal my beloved motor bike.




seeksfemslave -> RE: The Horror We Call Humanity (2/8/2008 2:39:34 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MissMorrigan
I should put you in touch with my mother, Seeks. She'd give you amazing advice on how to protect your property.
As I've stated before, she's rather 'eccentric' to say the least.


I'd like to meet her MsM, we are the same generation but she sounds a bit wild to me lol.
You never know one day you might call me daddy he he he he he he he





Muttling -> RE: The Horror We Call Humanity (2/8/2008 3:31:06 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MissMorrigan

One of my interests is criminal psychology/forensics. Criminal sub-types know exactly the type of victim to single out, whether they be muggers, rapists, serial killers, etc... Women tend to freeze up when confronted by a 'big brute' of a man threatening them, and that's exactly what gives the attacker the advantage.

There was a spate of gang bangings in the UK/US some years ago, mainly on tubes and the target of those gang bangers were other MEN. The guys perpetrating those crimes knew that they could quickly subdue their victim b/c the victim, in feeling shame, would be less likely to create a scene bringing attention to the fact that he was being raped, the rapists were also fairly confident that their crimes would come to light b/c of men not wanting to suffer the indignity of publicly declaring that they had sexually submitted to another man.
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ORIGINAL: Muttling





While I am aware of what you describe and agree, it's not entirely in line with the research that has been done in the U.S.

I'm talking about criminals who pick targets out of a crowd then follow them or do a smash n dash.   I used to have a rather in depth paper that described multiple interviews with muggers and many of them had been caught on tape watching people go by.   They frequently passed on the type of person your description would call the perfect target and often went after people who didn't fit with your description (including large men).  

It was really insightful on the subject of how NOT to make yourself a target and the BIGGEST factor time after time after time was "Did they notice me?"   They absoluely love to target people with their hands full of crap, talking on the cell phone, and not paying attention to their surroundings.

On a related note, if you remain aware of your surroundings and spot something that doesn't seem right you have opportunity to a better location.   Thereby preventing the attack before it starts.




Aswad -> RE: The Horror We Call Humanity (2/8/2008 4:52:29 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MissMorrigan

I genuinely believe attitudes have changed, Aswad.


Look back in time, not fifteen or twenty years, but fifteen hundred or two thousand, and the intervening space. The more things change in this world, the more they stay the same. Once upon a time, a public torture session would involve people lifting their kids up to see. Now they stand outside the building during executions, but the spectacle is the same. Nobility started out as people who were able and willing to take charge and act in defense of their group; the ancient Sumerian Priest-Kings would often use the title of Shepherd for themselves, rather than King. (Sond like what a popular man from about 2000 years ago tended to say?)

Over time, the excesses of the degenerating nobility, and the perceived lack of need for them, creates a world of people who hold for themselves that we are all equal, and assigns the same roles to huge, impersonal governments that they can influence or swap for some other government if they get too far out of line (or so the theory goes). But their wiring is the same as it has always been, and there is increasingly a pressing lack of people who are willing to claim the authority (and attendant responsibility) that nature has assigned them via their genes. And people grow increasingly resentful of those that choose to do just that, and parents teach their kids a lot of things that prevent many from forwarding their claim, even when they should.

Yes, there has been a change, but it's not so simple as it seems on the surface (and neither is the above a deep thought).

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Thank you for mentioning the Milgram Experiment. It answered a lot of questions for me especially regarding personal accountability.


For me, too. It took quite a while for me to reconcile this with respect for humanity.

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And why many people refuse to obey authorities - b/c rarely are authoritative figures in positions of authority, as in the case of the bus driver who clearly knew that the attack was occurring, but blocked it out rather than take affirmative action.


Authority is something you claim.
Legitimacy is something you're given.
In practice, at least, that's how it works.

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In my teens and going into my 20s I studied/practised muay thai and wado ryu. Then I encountered someone who took me along to self defence classes that were taught specifically for women in relation to disadvantages in height/strength, etc... and based on using natural instincts and training the person to respond automatically without hesitating. I found it a much more natural and practical form of self defence.


I used to do Wado Ryu myself. [:D]

And, yes, there is way too much dogmatism in a lot of these arts. But there are some out there that have a somewhat more complete angle, like Systema, Jeet Kune Do, Genbukan, Tenshin Shoden Katori Shinto-ryu, Krav Maga, and so forth. The problem being that most do not have enough quality assurance on their instructors to make sure they are able to impart useful skills. As you note, the trick is to work with your instincts without hesitation, and to train muscle memory and actual performance. Relying on forms and techniques doesn't seem to work for me or the people I know; sensei's muscle memory drills for evasion, however, have proven very useful. Last time something happened, I wasn't aware of it until I saw a fist passing by my face and noticed I had not only evaded it, but positioned myself perfectly for a counterattack.

The classic martial arts are great for a workout and some external discipline, but the only people I have seen them work for, are those that would have turned out great martial artist in any style. (I'm not counting things like Shaolin Kung Fu and the like, since most people will not be spending the 15-20 years or so that it takes to become proficient in it.)

Health,
al-Aswad.





Aswad -> RE: The Horror We Call Humanity (2/8/2008 5:03:11 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Muttling

Here's a few rules I taught....


I prefer the model Marc MacYoung forwarded: the Five Stages of Violent Crime.

They are: Intent, Interview, Positioning, Attack and Reaction.

You can abort it any of these stages.

Health,
al-Aswad.




MissMorrigan -> RE: The Horror We Call Humanity (2/8/2008 6:40:00 AM)

NG, recognising there IS a problem does not make a person a monster. Each human being has the capability of becoming primal if the circumstances are there, of that I'm certain. That is not to say I view people and think, "Scum." Of course I don't b/c I recognise the good I see also in humanity.




MissMorrigan -> RE: The Horror We Call Humanity (2/8/2008 6:51:56 AM)

Her caning arm is still in action... she even frightens me when she's going at full throttle!

Last year I had her permission to go into her wardrobe to get soemthing only for me to come face to face with an outfit that looked like something off the set of Grease'... Think Olivia Newton John in tight leather pants, off the shoulder top and gold coloured stilettos and that's the outfit she had. She's 80 for crying out loud! I shut the door quickly resigning myself to NEVER going in her wardrobe again!

Still want me calling you 'Daddy'?

"You're the one that I want... oooh oooh oooh!" lol

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ORIGINAL: seeksfemslave




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