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ORIGINAL: Urza

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l the female Dommes would cry and go away! Really, it scares me to think what it must be like to find a relationship sub on here, you want to go half and half on the bill for a cup of coffee??????? cheapskate! The lifestyle Dommes are so easy to spot, y'all just bitter that hot 20 year old in the bikini or Domme in the 600$ leather corset are either asking for money or pro.....hey I resemble that remark.....are not here for you 3" cocks, hmmmmmmm Learn how to get game and take a Lady out! If I hear one more whiner who wants the lifestyle Domme to split or foot the bill......I will give you a session free, only on MY terms and we do what I want which means you will do much worse then eat my shit! pathetic......treat her like the queen she is worm you are lucky to be in her presence.....I love my sisters in the Lifestyle, send any my way who need to be schooled, I will happily take care of th

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ORIGINAL: goddessAVA

oh yes.......all the female Dommes would cry and go away! Really, it scares me to think what it must be like to find a relationship sub on here, you want to go half and half on the bill for a cup of coffee??????? cheapskate! The lifestyle Dommes are so easy to spot, y'all just bitter that hot 20 year old in the bikini or Domme in the 600$ leather corset are either asking for money or pro.....hey I resemble that remark.....are not here for you 3" cocks, hmmmmmmm Learn how to get game and take a Lady out! If I hear one more whiner who wants the lifestyle Domme to split or foot the bill......I will give you a session free, only on MY terms and we do what I want which means you will do much worse then eat my shit! pathetic......treat her like the queen she is worm you are lucky to be in her presence.....I love my sisters in the Lifestyle, send any my way who need to be schooled, I will happily take care of them

Oh oh oh, come on. It's not quite like that.

If i went out with a dominant lady for a meal, of course i'd pay the bill. Same with the Cinema etc, like any man should for the one he adores and loves.

It's not like I'm saying men shouldn't have to pay for anything :P I'm just a little annoyed at yet another hour-long search through profiles leaves me fustrated and annoyed that yet more people are pouring into this scene in it for the money. That ultimately ruins a person!

Sure Pro-Dommes exist and they should, you know it's a great service they provide for some men, and i support it. Tribute queens and unrealistic 'Dommes' which i'm finding MORE AND MORE of are just getting to me. I mean every 30 seconds someone must be putting a fake or ridiculous profile up on this site and i'm just aggitated at some of the junk profiles out there. Should Collarme be a haven for this?

My apologies if i offended anyone whos values are true and decent in the BDSM world, i'm merely stating how fustrating it gets, trudging through all the nonsense profiles of women who are purely in it for the money and not the experiences and joys of what to some of us is still a lifestyle.     

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ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

zara...we'll pro sub together.....we can get $1000 a night... cause it costs extra for double the fetish 

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ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

urza..kindly remove me from your fav list..im not interested in male subs.

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

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ORIGINAL: Urza

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l the female Dommes would cry and go away! Really, it scares me to think what it must be like to find a relationship sub on here, you want to go half and half on the bill for a cup of coffee??????? cheapskate! The lifestyle Dommes are so easy to spot, y'all just bitter that hot 20 year old in the bikini or Domme in the 600$ leather corset are either asking for money or pro.....hey I resemble that remark.....are not here for you 3" cocks, hmmmmmmm Learn how to get game and take a Lady out! If I hear one more whiner who wants the lifestyle Domme to split or foot the bill......I will give you a session free, only on MY terms and we do what I want which means you will do much worse then eat my shit! pathetic......treat her like the queen she is worm you are lucky to be in her presence.....I love my sisters in the Lifestyle, send any my way who need to be schooled, I will happily take care of th

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ORIGINAL: goddessAVA

oh yes.......all the female Dommes would cry and go away! Really, it scares me to think what it must be like to find a relationship sub on here, you want to go half and half on the bill for a cup of coffee??????? cheapskate! The lifestyle Dommes are so easy to spot, y'all just bitter that hot 20 year old in the bikini or Domme in the 600$ leather corset are either asking for money or pro.....hey I resemble that remark.....are not here for you 3" cocks, hmmmmmmm Learn how to get game and take a Lady out! If I hear one more whiner who wants the lifestyle Domme to split or foot the bill......I will give you a session free, only on MY terms and we do what I want which means you will do much worse then eat my shit! pathetic......treat her like the queen she is worm you are lucky to be in her presence.....I love my sisters in the Lifestyle, send any my way who need to be schooled, I will happily take care of them

Oh oh oh, come on. It's not quite like that.

If i went out with a dominant lady for a meal, of course i'd pay the bill. Same with the Cinema etc, like any man should for the one he adores and loves.

It's not like I'm saying men shouldn't have to pay for anything :P I'm just a little annoyed at yet another hour-long search through profiles leaves me fustrated and annoyed that yet more people are pouring into this scene in it for the money. That ultimately ruins a person!

Sure Pro-Dommes exist and they should, you know it's a great service they provide for some men, and i support it. Tribute queens and unrealistic 'Dommes' which i'm finding MORE AND MORE of are just getting to me. I mean every 30 seconds someone must be putting a fake or ridiculous profile up on this site and i'm just aggitated at some of the junk profiles out there. Should Collarme be a haven for this?

My apologies if i offended anyone whos values are true and decent in the BDSM world, i'm merely stating how fustrating it gets, trudging through all the nonsense profiles of women who are purely in it for the money and not the experiences and joys of what to some of us is still a lifestyle.     

You are assuming those profiles are:

1) Actuall femdoms
2) Actually women

There are lots of men pretending to be women cashing in on the same desperate market. As long as men continue to pay tributes and keep in paying, there will be people popping up to take their money. 

Akasha

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ORIGINAL: Urza

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

and if it really annoys you, report them, it's against tos to ask for cash here. The site can get into trouble for hosting prostitution.  Don't whine if you can do something productive instead-think of the satisfaction as they start to dissapear!

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ORIGINAL: goddessAVA

again, cheapskate......you can bury yourself in the "modern" attitude, I like many of my sisters like to be spoiled.....stop whining about it

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ORIGINAL: Urza

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

and if it really annoys you, report them, it's against tos to ask for cash here. The site can get into trouble for hosting prostitution.  Don't whine if you can do something productive instead-think of the satisfaction as they start to dissapear!

Well, reporting runs on a certain system on collarme, basically once a user has a certain amount of reports on them Collarme then decides to do something, the blatantly ridiculous ones I've reported just like most would, but it seems nothings being done.

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ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

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ORIGINAL: Urza

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

and if it really annoys you, report them, it's against tos to ask for cash here. The site can get into trouble for hosting prostitution.  Don't whine if you can do something productive instead-think of the satisfaction as they start to dissapear!

Well, reporting runs on a certain system on collarme, basically once a user has a certain amount of reports on them Collarme then decides to do something, the blatantly ridiculous ones I've reported just like most would, but it seems nothings being done.

That's because most people here are adults and simply move along when they see something they don't like, instead of making a huge song and dance about it. You've been on here since 2005. You have a journal entry about the subject dated June 2007.  Here you are again, bitching about it in February 2008. Sheesh, get over it and take up a hobby.

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ORIGINAL: goddessAVA

again, cheapskate......you can bury yourself in the "modern" attitude, I like many of my sisters like to be spoiled.....stop whining about it

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ORIGINAL: goddessAVA
Id be happy to discipline you sat.......on my terms.....pm me