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MarinaBlack -> One Year Later - Ms. Marina Black & rubberallover (warning, long) (2/6/2008 9:20:27 PM)




I find it only appropriate to be writing this today – the first anniversary of when my collared pet rubberallover first sent to me his letter of introduction.
 
I remember receiving it and reading it with surprise.
It was on the level of “too good to be true”.
So much so that I had difficulty in trusting it - after almost 2 years on this site and being approached by the usual offenders.
He was polite, articulate and properly introduced himself..
He had defined himself as a gentleman both within his profile and his letter of introduction to me – a letter of intro where he actually followed the guidelines I took the time to include within my profile. This alone already set him far apart from most.
 
I must admit I was somewhat jaded by a number of disappointments – some of them quite deep.
I would find something in his messages to either object to or correct and he would rise to the occasion with elegance and sincerity every time.
He was proving himself determined to win my favour – as a hopeful submissive should, but as most so seldom do.
It was over a month before I agreed to chat and almost another before I agreed to a phone call.
He never once complained or balked, but rather continued to essentially court me online.
How refreshingly unusual - just like him.
 
I believe it may have been April before I finally agreed to meet him for dinner. I was quite pleased with the boy I encountered. He was much more attractive in person (yes, this does happen), appropriately deferential and nervous, came bearing my favourite flowers – Stargazer lilies – and a copy of The Encyclopaedia of Cruel and Unusual Punishment. He was absolutely charming and indeed the gentleman he professed to be.
 
We continued communicating online for several months and did not meet again until perhaps July. At this point I had already allowed him to include within his profile that he was officially under my consideration and we had planned this date for his inspection. We had lunch and then I brought him to the dungeon. He was so bashful and sweet. It was delicious. He had brought along the PES device that I had encouraged him to purchase, as this was something both he and I were quite keen on exploring.
 
It was shortly after this that he had invited me to attend the Montreal Fetish Weekend with him. I saw no reason to refuse.
We are now at the last week of August in my story. We have been in the same space only twice since February 6th. It was constant messaging via this site and a few phone calls that built the foundation for what developed next.
 
I was finally leaving my previous relationship and relocating my business into my new home. My boy did not let me lift a finger, but rather moved all of my studio furniture for me while I sat comfortably in my air-conditioned space – as any excellent submissive sincere about providing service should.
A couple of days later it was time to go to Montreal.
 
Bearing in mind that my profile was very specific about seeking a servant and servant only…
There was some sort of magic that happened that weekend. His submissiveness to me, his good manners, his generosity, his attractiveness, his sensuality, his intelligence, our common ground, the way we deeply connected on a surprising level…
 
I had found my “wow” experience in a way I had never expected. I claimed him as my own without any doubts.
I discussed with him my desire to have him wear a permanent collar and chastity device. He agreed to both.
Since that weekend he has been my servant, my pet and my lover – something I was certainly not looking for and something I never expected.
 
Our relationship continues to develop and grow. He continues to inspire me throughout our journey together in this ever-deepening D/s experience
A year ago today, he sent me his letter of introduction.
I met him right here.
 




Misstoyou -> RE: One Year Later - Ms. Marina Black & rubberallover (warning, long) (2/6/2008 9:33:31 PM)

Congratulations! This made me smile. You should also post a link in the Ask A Mistress section, to give hope (and instruction) to other impatient male submissives.




MarinaBlack -> RE: One Year Later - Ms. Marina Black & rubberallover (warning, long) (2/7/2008 12:41:48 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Misstoyou

Congratulations! This made me smile. You should also post a link in the Ask A Mistress section, to give hope (and instruction) to other impatient male submissives.


Thank you for your comment.
I do not, however, feel comfortable in posting this to the Ask A Mistress forum as I feel those posts should be direct answers to posted questions.

Have a wonderful day.




michaels4evr -> RE: One Year Later - Ms. Marina Black & rubberallover (warning, long) (2/7/2008 10:55:13 AM)

Thank You for sharing Your wonderful experience. I wish You and Yours all the happiness You both deserve. How special!

-michael's




nwcutie102 -> RE: One Year Later - Ms. Marina Black & rubberallover (warning, long) (2/7/2008 5:56:51 PM)

such a good story.... much happiness




MarinaBlack -> RE: One Year Later - Ms. Marina Black & rubberallover (warning, long) (2/7/2008 9:38:44 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: michaels4evr

Thank You for sharing Your wonderful experience. I wish You and Yours all the happiness You both deserve. How special!

-michael's


Thank you very much for your comment and positive wish.
I know my post was a bit verbose, however I felt it very important to include all of that.




MarinaBlack -> RE: One Year Later - Ms. Marina Black & rubberallover (warning, long) (2/7/2008 9:40:59 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: nwcutie102

such a good story.... much happiness


Thank you.
It's all true and worth sharing.
People need to know not only that it's possible to connect online, but that one may meet another who exceeds one's expectations.
It's been an amazing journey.




chatondamore -> RE: One Year Later - Ms. Marina Black & rubberallover (warning, long) (2/7/2008 10:05:43 PM)

Thank you so much for sharing this. I struggle often with wondering if i'm going to find the person that is right for me. I've been played so many times, and in so many ways. It's nice to see positive feedback, combined with good advice.

Congratulations and i wish you many more happy years!




MarinaBlack -> RE: One Year Later - Ms. Marina Black & rubberallover (warning, long) (2/7/2008 11:35:48 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: chatondamore

Thank you so much for sharing this. I struggle often with wondering if i'm going to find the person that is right for me. I've been played so many times, and in so many ways. It's nice to see positive feedback, combined with good advice.

Congratulations and i wish you many more happy years!



Thank you so much for your comment and positive vibes.
Connecting with the right person certainly requires patience and judgement.
It can take what seems to be an eternity, but anything good and right is worth working towards and holding out for.
Never short-sell yourself,
Hold yourself in high esteem and others will as well.




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